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what does he want from me???
17/f
ok so i started a job back in march and met this guy there. The girls who work there would talk about him alot, because almost all of them liked him and he had hooked up with 2 of them and liked another. He sounded like trouble, but he was just so cute i couldn't resist. To get to the point we started hanging out outside of work alot and one day he asked me out we went out for about a month and one day he texts me saying "can we not go out anymore but still be together because i dont have time for a girlfriend and it doesnt feel like were even going out" i was sooo confused because things were fine with us. After our breakup we still hungout and acted like boyfriend and girlfriend just without the title, i guess you could say we were friends with benefits. me thinking that it could lead to us going back out again. well that lasted for another 2 months. So the other day i went into work to get my paycheck and he was working so we were flirting and acting like our normal selves, so when i went to leave i went to give him and kiss (like normal) and he was like "stop your not my girlfriend" so i was like "well you had no problem with it before" he was like "well im a changed man now" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? do you think he likes some other girl and not me anymore? someone help cuz im really upset and i dont know what to do. i want to move on from him but i still like him sooooo much.
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Ahhh, this problem has happened to me numerous times! Boys are soo confusing! Anyway, what i did one time was ignore the guy though i liked him SO much and just made it seem like i didnt care about him and i can flirt with other guys too and have fun without him. I did all this in front of his face so he could see that i was not going to be treated like trash from him and i have way better guys that treat me better and actually are friends to me. Anyway, he wanted to get back with me but obviously i rejected him and it felt so good, cuz during this process i actually go over him! Unbeliveably, i actually did and it was great!
Anyway, good luck in your decision and hopefully my story helped you in some way!
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aw sweetie. this guy sounds like a "player." you got mixed in with him and i know how hard it is to control your feelings. take my word for it, move on. he is not worth a second of your time. you want someone who is going to treat you a thousand times better than that. good luck with trying to figure this out. you deserve so much better.
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