hey guys. im brittany. im from new jersey and nothing special happens here. Ive been through alot... and i mean alottt in my life and am always giving advice to my friends, feel free to ask me for advice about anything and everything.. i may not have the perfect response but i'll tell you straight up how i see it or what i think you should do. Got a question or need advice? Ask away & ill answer back ASAP.
thanks guys
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well im friends with this group of people
and when my friend lets call her Sally got in a fight with her best frined lets call Susan.
well they got in a fight for like 2 weeksish and me and sally were always close but then we got really close, and like when her and susan became friends again now im like discluted.
And shes talking on the phone with lets call him Steve. and me her and steve were really close
and im really mad cuz she like ignores me, talks to them and they are to busy talking to her so they cant talk to me. and they are like the whole group so i dont like have anyfriends now
I go to a small school/town
what can i do to get there attention? i dont want to like tell her i feel discluted... soo help please!
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okay well honestly i know exactly what its like to live in a small town; my town is full of cliques. and if you dont fit in with one of those groups-your a "loser" "geek" or anything else they come up with... if i were you, dont fight for there attention. if you all were really so close adn true friends to each other y0u wouldnt have to fight to get there attention back. as much as this may suck to here; either they want you to chase after them or they may not even worry about being friends with you because they used you when they were fighting with there friend, and now that their friend is back your nothing to them.. people that use you as a side friend-you shouldnt even give the time of day to. try to make new friends & if the oppertunity comes to talk to them again talk to them; dont be mean or hold grudges, dont give them dirty looks. just be normal. they have their friends & you have yours-doesnt mean you have to be enemies, because growing up is all about losing and gaining new friends... hope this helps :]
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