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Okay so theres ths guy that i really like: (im gunna put it in like..bullets so its easier to read):
It all started last month, around the beginning of March.
We've met before, but never really talked much because we don't go to the same school, but he lives in the same town as me.
We work at the same place, and that's basically how we started talking.
So over the weeks in March, we started to text all the time, every day; from the time we'd wake up to the time we'd go to sleep.
Everything was going well, and I got the chance to get to know him a bit more and he seemed like a really sweet guy. He just had bad luck with past relationships, because of the way he was treated.
The only problem: we never got the chance to hang out because I had drivers ed three times a week, basketball two times a week and work on the weekends.
This was a problem because he was always bugging me about hanging out, but I never had the time to.
So everything was going pretty well.
APRIL:
So he then invites me at the last minute to some semi-formal thing (on a Tuesday) and the semi was that Saturday.
I'm not able to go, because my parents don't know him and I wasn't getting great grades at the time.
Saturday comes and he's really, reallyyy sad that I can't go.
A couple of weeks go by, and everything is still going well.
Then, all of a sudden, he just starts acting wierd, and this carries on for tthree days.
I had to work one of the days and he said: "Oh, maybe I'll stop by,"
So he stops by, and we didn't talk but just smiled at each other. He stayed for about an hour.
After work I check my messages, and there are three from him explaining how he was sorry he acted the way he did.
Days go by, and then it's vacation.
Since I go to a catholic school in a different state (but we live in the same state) and he goes to public school in the state we both live in, our vacations are different.
I ended up going to florida for vacation, for a week. We texted the whole time I was down there and things seemed to be fine.
In the last two days I was down there, he didn't respond to my text messages.
I was worried something was wrong.
I got back from vacation, all happy to be home (sadly lol) and then I just look on his myspace (although I'm not allowed to have my own) and it says "in a relationship".
so I'm like: "Ohh great, what the hell happened now?". Then he signs on that night and tells me that his phone has been dead and it won't hold the charge.
So I asked him why it said "in a relationship" on his myspace and he's all like: "What? i thought you weren't allowed on myspace? I thought it was blocked?". And I'm like: "Nooo... It's not blocked. I just can't have a myspace,"
And so then he says: "About that... I thought you were just leading me on the whole time, and we haven't even hung out yet, so I was getting tired of it." This obviously means that he now has a girlfriend.
So I say: "Okay, I told you before vacation that after I come back, we could hang out because drivers ed would be done with."
He says: "Well, I don't remember that, and you didn't seem like you were interested in me that much, because you never made plans to hang out."
I definitley remember making plans to TRY to hang out but they didn't work because of drivers ed.
and then today at work he didnt talk to me. we made eye contact a few times, but nothing from there. like...i looked up and saw him looking at me and then i looked away and did the same.
Now he just won't talk to me or anything, and I don't know what to do.
What would you do if you were me?
Thanks,
Steph
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If i were you i would quit worrying about this guy and chill out about it.
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"i try so hard can't get away from misery...it ain't my fault cause i try to get away from____... UNTIL THEN.."
what song is this?
someone else sings it too (link)
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if you have itunes, get on there and type in akon and then listen to the songs that come up and see which one it is. if you dont have itunes, go to www.lyrics.com.
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14/f
Okey Same thing with almost every friend=/
okey.....
so last weekend my and my friend was suppost to go the this little teen club.
& thew my mom got sick.
& the thing was on a thursday/ no school friday)
anyways i askd my mom if i could go & she said NO!
& i told my friend i couldnt & she was like Oh well ya i gotta go. & hung up. see this happends with almost everyfriend of my that are gurls.
if i cant do somethings its like thay get mad & lie & say thay gotta go or just say ima let you go. i mean i nkow what your most of you will say its not my say if i can go somewhere its my moms
& i mean its no just that most of my friends dont all the much hang out with me.
am i not a good friend. (link)
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ok first of all...you are a good freind. they just dont know that. you should talk to them about it and tell them that it really hurts when they do that. tell them that you do want to do all that stuff but its not your fault that you cant. just explain to them that you dont think that they should treat you like that. and if they treat you like that even after you talk to them, then i think you should try hanging out with other people. if your " friends" are going to treat you like that, then their not real friends. they should understand that you just cant do everything that they want you to.
hope i helped!~!!!!
Shelby
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I just had sex with my bf of 5 months.
We had it and it felt amazing for the first time.
It hurt a little at first and they we just started going and I got wider.
After we were done it hurt to take his dick out of my vagina..
Now my vagina is sore and their was a little blood on the condom.
Is that normal for me to be sore? Also, do you think I popped my cherry? (Earlier today I had just got done with my period. So maybe it's a little bit of the leftovers, possibly.)
Thanks! (link)
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You should take to your doctor and he/she will tell you what is wrong. and your doctor wont tell your parents that you had sex if you dont want them to... and the first time that you have sex your hymen breaks ( the lining of your vagina) and it should be a little sore.
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I'm looking for some new books to read. I go through like a book a week, and I'm running out of books. I'm 15/F. I like fantasy/romance type books. Does anybody have any suggestion for any books/authors that are good? (link)
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Try the Harry Potter books by J.K. Rowling....or if your not allowed to...read the book Holes. Or try reading Loser by jerry spenilli.
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if my boyfriends thing was almost in side me and he didnt have a condom on can i get pregnate?
(we didnt have sex but almost did) (link)
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well......it all depends on if sperm got on your viginal area and if you were having your period when it happned.
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i just started going out with this guy and were both really shy so things are a bit akward.Can anyone give me some advice on how to make it not as akward or help me to become a little less shy ?
thxs in advance =) (link)
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ok first you just have to figure out what his interest are and talk to him about that.....or ask a friend to start talking about something when they are around you.
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i'm moving next year and i'll just be starting highschool. i don't know what i'm going to do because i made a whole bunch of friends here and it's going to suck. i'm not good at making friends. on the first day of school everyone is going to have friends and i won't. :(
how could i make friends? (link)
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All you have to do is just create small talk with them...try asking them where a certain class is or asking them where the cafiteria is at lunch. And if you dont make friends the first day, then dont worry, there are more things that are important, like grades. You could also join a club or organization for your school.
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ok so i have been stretching more often for the last few days but im not as flexible as i used to be. well cheerleading tryouts r coming up and i dont know how to do a back hand spring or toe touch or anything all i know how to do is cartwheels do u know any website or have any advise on ways i can learn those and to get a little skinnier i forgot to mention im a tiny bit over wight please and thankyou in advance
xoxo meganlynn (link)
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well it depends on what school you go to....i go to prairie grove in arkansas and i am in 7th grade and trying out. all you have to do is do a cheer by yourself and then a group cheer. but if you go to another school, then ask your coach what you have to do.
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Does anyone have any tips on dealing with huge amounts of anger? Lately I've been sooooo angry at even the littlest thing and it upsets the people I love and I don't know how to fix it. Suggestions? And seeing a therapist isn't exactly an option at this point. (link)
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Well first, take a deep breath. Then try screaming into a pillow. You can also try dribbling a ball, or beating something like a pillow, NOT a person).
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i want to make out with this girl really bad. But i dont think she is gay. please help me (link)
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rape her
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Okay so this is really ackward but i'm going to have sex with my bf of 1 year and we are both ready but like i've seen playboy magazines with girls with no hair below and that is totally not the case for me because i'm latin!...so like what do i do should I get a wax, or go natural? or i have no idea about waxes and how much hair is considered normal! Please help. (link)
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If your guys dosent like pubic hair, than he dosent like you. Hes nota real man if he cant except the flaws of your body. Your body is beautiful, so dont change it just to impress your guy.
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i'm 16, and i've been dating by boyfriend for a little over a year. i'm a virgin. the last couple times that he has fingered me, he's pulled his fingers out and theres a little bit of blood on it. not alot, like i started my period or anything .. but theres deffinitely some blood. i know this sounds disgusting, and i am so embarrassed about it. i don't think he's going too deep because like i said we've been dating for over a year, he's fingered me alot, so i should be pretty used to it by now. and it's not time for my period. it doesn't exactly hurt when he's fingering me either, or i would tell him to stop. it's so weird, and i dont know what to do. i'm really scared there is something wrong with me but i don't want to talk to my mom about it, and i DONT want to go to the gyno. what should i do? (link)
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Even though you dont want to go to the gyno, you should. your boyfriend could be doing something wrong. He can be making your body do weird stuff. The gyno is not allowed ( by law) to tell your parents anything that you dont want her to. So after your checkup, just ask the doctor if she will just tell your parents that everything is in order. And think aboout it. if your boyfriends is messing up your body, would you rather get it checked, so if there is something wrong, that you can fix it or do you want to have something wrong with your body for the rest of the time that your going out?
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Say you're forced into having sex but you enjoy it
Is that still rape? (link)
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Even though you enjoy it, it's still rape. And rape is against the law. I;m not telling you what to do, but you should contact your local athorities amidetly and get a therapist for the person that is forcing you to have sex.
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Not sure where this goes... well I don't neccessarily have night mares per say, I just think about stuff that could happen to me during the night. I think about getting murdered and I actually imagine it to happen as I try to sleep. As creepy as this sounds, it freaks me out when I am lying in my bed. Nothing bad has happened in my town so I shouldn't have anything to worry about but theres always that possibility that something would happen. If you could give me some good tips or pointers on what to do when I think about dying and how I am going to die and what not, they would be greatly appreciated. Sometimes I don't get much sleep because I'm lying awake thinking about this stuff. Help me please... I don't know what else to do. (link)
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I am the same way. I always think of how scary it would be if that really happned. But what you should do is just think about how rediculous it is. If your getting the stuff from the movies, then quite watching those movies for a while. Watch movies that make you laugh. And most importantly try not to think bout it. Think about something else. If that dosent help, try going to a therapist.
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