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is there something wrong with me?
i'm 16, and i've been dating by boyfriend for a little over a year. i'm a virgin. the last couple times that he has fingered me, he's pulled his fingers out and theres a little bit of blood on it. not alot, like i started my period or anything .. but theres deffinitely some blood. i know this sounds disgusting, and i am so embarrassed about it. i don't think he's going too deep because like i said we've been dating for over a year, he's fingered me alot, so i should be pretty used to it by now. and it's not time for my period. it doesn't exactly hurt when he's fingering me either, or i would tell him to stop. it's so weird, and i dont know what to do. i'm really scared there is something wrong with me but i don't want to talk to my mom about it, and i DONT want to go to the gyno. what should i do?
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when you say "pulled his fingers out" do you mean more than one finger inside of you. If so tell him only 1 finger. If 1 finger is causing bedding I suggest you stop. If you must allow this to cintinue be sure he washes his hands well before inserting his finger inside of you as to prevent spreading of bacteria, germs, viruses.
Once i was having sex with my bf and there was a little blood. normal.
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He might've not broken your hymen yet, and he might just be scraping it, causing you to bleed. I wouldn't worry too much about it.
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Even though you dont want to go to the gyno, you should. your boyfriend could be doing something wrong. He can be making your body do weird stuff. The gyno is not allowed ( by law) to tell your parents anything that you dont want her to. So after your checkup, just ask the doctor if she will just tell your parents that everything is in order. And think aboout it. if your boyfriends is messing up your body, would you rather get it checked, so if there is something wrong, that you can fix it or do you want to have something wrong with your body for the rest of the time that your going out?
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