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Member Since: February 24, 2007
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Last Update: July 22, 2007
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do people really have a glow after sex? is it called the afterglow? why? do they get shiny or something? after exercise people do look nicer because theyre done sweating and stuff? i dunno (link)
no. maybe it could be the look of satisfaction. no one can look at you and tell if you've just had sex. You'll only be found out if you don't shower afterwards.


when i cook hashbrown patties in cooking oil, my mom always says not to dump the oil down the sink, to wipe it out of the pan with a paper towel and throw it in the garbage. why cant i dump it down the sink? (link)
It will clog the drain.


I've been dating this guy for 11 months. I want to get rid of him I can't stand him anymore. The only problem is every time i go to break up with him he cries and shit. I never end of breaking it off because he gets all suicidal. How can i break up with him???? (link)
It took me over a year to get rid of a man once. I feel like I wasted a year of my life listening to him cry like a little girl. You are not responsible for him being suicidal. tell him he's emotionally draining and you aren't going to take his shit anymore. You deserve better. Tell him once and only once. I had to change my phone number.


i just want to know if my breast is touch by a man will it ever grew bigger?? (link)
no afraid not. don't let a man touch your boobs in hopes they will grow.


if i have a ibook g4
and it has 512 mb of built in memory

is it possible to get a 1 gb of add on memory

would the computer let you do this?

not sure if that makes sense but thanks in advance. (link)
I have the ibook g4.Using it now. I had memory added before I purchased it. Take your ibook to the nearest mac store. Talk to the people behind the genius bar. You can call the mac store to ask. it should be possible. Mac on!!!!!


Hello .
Right now,My mom hates me. She hits me and doesn't love me.
She wants to put me up for adoption.
Do you know what age you can be put up for adoption in California.
Thanks. (link)
I too had an abusive mother. you can give a baby up for adoption as soon as it's born. I think you would be better off living in a home full of love so let her put you up for adoption. Usually people who adopt children really want them. Hope you find a good home. You need to contact the department of social services or department of childrens services and tell them that your mom hits you.
If you're still living with your mom when school starts go to a school counseler and tell that your mom hits you. You don't have to take that abuse.


sry if wrong catagory...

is sun in permenant my friend says it is but i dont think so?! THANKS! (link)
no. your friend is wrong. I used it every summer when I was younger so I know.


are you supposed to shave down there if your a girl, i did and im 13. but im not sure if your supposed to. (link)
If you choose to shave you should always use shaving cream and an after shave. Shave only the bikini line. That's the hair that would show if you were wearing a bikini. If the pubic hair is long you can use scissors to trim. Just remember to clean the scissors afterwards so your parents don't see pubic hair.


I am sick of using liquid foundation because it's too thick & gross, but my skin isn't that great to go without it (or with just powder alone). I was told to use a tinted moisturizer instead of liquid foundation. Can anyone suggest a good brand that's not too icky & still does a pretty good at covering up? (link)
I like Merle Norman tinted moisturizers. It's not at all icky or thick and does a good job of covering up. If you use it you will not need foundation. I often refer to it as a foundation replacement.


What would happen if I paid my state taxes 2 weeks late??? (link)
they will charge you a late fee. you need to file an extention before you're late.


Are there ne ways to get rid of hunger pains? Like besides eating, that's obvious. I heard chewing gum makes your body think u r eating so u aren't hunger. Is that true? Let me know. Thanks. (link)
try milk, ensure or atkins shakes. There is no way to get rid of hunger pains without putting something in your stomach. why do you refuse to eat? that's not a good way to lose weight. those pains you feel are your body screaming feed me. listen to your body and give your stomach some food. also try wheat bread or a piece of fruit. an apple or grapefruit won't make you fat.


hi i want to know if a blood test can proove that i, a male, had sex Before im 16, and keep in mind ther no infections (stds) were included. (link)
There is no test to proove that a male is or is not a virgin if there are no STD's.
However, the answer is differnet for girls. A ob/gyn can tell by an examination if a girl is or is not a virgin.
To decrease your risk for STD's always use a condom.


okay so i have two questions

one of my real good friends thinks she pregnant because her and her boyfriend had sex and she was supposed to get her period 4 days later but instead she has brown spots on her underwear

what does that mean? is she pregnant?



and second question

if you get fingered and the guy has a little cum on his finger, can you get pregnant?

please help ASAP

this is so important
thanks (link)
The only way your friend can know if she's pregnant or not is to take a home pregnancy test. she can get one from any drug store. I hope your friend has now learned to use a condom each and every time.
Your second question,yes. Semen in the vagina can result in pregnancy.
You also need to concern yourself with STD's.


Can someone please tell me an inexpensive way to get rid of all these zits? I am 30 years old & I have pimples like crazy. I have spent countless hours & way too much money on all these face washes & creams that don't do anything. I am also allergic to benzoyl peroxide...the main ingredient in most acne products. Thanks. (link)
Don't know if benzoyl peroxide is in proactiv but if not try it, it works. Has to be ordered from their 800#. $20 for a 30 day supply. Also I've used stridex pads available at most drug stores. They worked for me. Also try using rubbing alcohol on a cotton ball. It dries up the pimple.


:(hello again everyone
i have another question
at school in my class, we play truth or dare when the teacher doesnt look. when we play we play it pretty bad, we say stuff like "i dare you to touch Jakes balls" or soome thing like that, it is really embarassing and stupid, but we have fun still. when it gets around to me having a turn and i have to kiss some one they always say stuff like "why does she have to kiss ME?" and stuff like that. But if another girl had to do it, for example : talisha, natasha or Stacey. the boys would probably turn their heads so they girls kiss their lips. and i think i know why. i think it is because i am not really that pretty and i have NO boobs, every girl in my class has boobs, except for me. and i hate it sooooo bad. i wanna scream out loud and tell the boys to get over the fact that i was dared to kiss or touch them.
what should i do? and should i worry about it sooo much?:( SORRY FOR THIS BEING SOO LONG lol... (link)
I didn't get big boobs until I was 19. Some women are just late bloomers. If your breast size bothers you that much start saving for implants. Prices have gone down. you need to get the implants under the muscle, not over the muscle.
In general, kids can just be hateful.
You don't have to play the game if you don't want to. Doesn't sound like it's fun for you.
If you play again and yo get to dare someone dare them to be nice to you for one week.


Is there anyway someone can get pregnant while on birth control? How effective is it against pregnancy? And, if you are having sex with a partner you have had over a year, and you know neither of you two have any diseases, should you still use a condom? Why or why not? (link)
You should ALWAYS use a condom. suppose your partner cheats on you. How do you know your partner doesn't have a disease? Has he had a blood test? Been tested for HIV? Herpes?
You can get herpes from skin to skin contact and crabs jump.
Birth control pills are not 100% effective. You should take your pill at the same time every day. Suggest you keep your birth control pills next to your tooth brush so you don't forget. Because they are not 100% effective you should also use a condom. Don't want to get pregnant or anything funky.


im 15 years old, and my friend is too. so today we went to the mall and since we were there for a LONG time we decided to go to target. we went to the Condoms area, just cause (lol) and we took decided to take them in the fitting rooms and look at them. the fitting lady was there too, but she didnt seem to notice. she was really rude too. we were just there, but my friend decided to take one. we left the rest of them underneath a clothing and left.


as we were about to leave Target, one of the people stopped us. as we turned around the fitting room lady was holding the condoms at us and started yelling. she was like "yall stole it. I KNOW YALL DID. its ALL on CAMERA"
we freaked outt
she took us to the police that was in target. and we were like begging not to tell our parents. the Police was like "you know yall could end up in jail if this was more major.why did yall steal this"

but he finally let us go.
everyone in target was staring at us and it was So embarrasing.

Our faces weer on the camera but they never asked for our names or anything.
I just dont want my parents or ANYONE at my school to know about this. it was funny, but still.



Do you think Anything Bad will Happen??
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funny thing. theft is a crime and you should not steal. Why didn't you just pay for them? If you weren't arrested and the police didn't see your ID card I'd say your safe. However, every employee and police officer who hears about it will tell someone for years to come. Hope you don't live in a small town.
Never go to that Target again, especially with your parnets.


i have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months. we are really close and love each othere very much. recently we have started talking about having sex, and i want to, and i feel that i'm ready. my problem is that how i can explain this to my parents. they waited until they got married and i don't want them to judge me because i don't want to wait. how can i bring this situation up if i have questions? how can explain to them how i feel? (link)
You can't explain it to your parents without judgement. You didn't say your age. With sex comes responsibility. Not only pregnancy but STD's. You could get chlamydia, crabs, cytomegalovirus, genital herpes, genital warts, gonorrhea, hapatitis, HIV, syphilis, trichomoiasis.
If you are responsible enough to have sex you and your bf should get blood test, you should get a pap smear from an ob/gyn. Of course you should use a condom. The only difference between true love and herpes is that herpes is forever.
I understand not waiting until marriage but be safe. Does this man really love you? Has he given you a promise ring? An ipod? A laptop?


i know how the baby thing works but like where does it come out??? (link)
I don't advise you try it yet. A man inserts his penis into your vagina. He pulls it out and then thrust it back in many times. This will cause you pain. His semen will fertilize your egg and you will become pregnant. 9 months later a baby will pass out of the birth canal and out your vagina. It's like squeezing something the size of a watermelen out an opening the size of a lemon.
If you don't know where the hole is it is between your pee hole and your butt hole.


I have a boyfriend and I have been with him for over a year. But The other night i was at a friends house and we were watching a porno and we ended up going down on each other. Does this make me bisexual because I did it? Or enjoyed it? I'm not attracted to girls but it just happened. 16/f/. (link)
Just because you had a lesbian experience doesn't mean you are a lesbian or bisexual. Atleast you enjoyed it. You are a young girl and experimenting and it's okay. Statistically you are less likely to get a STD from lesbian sex and you certainly can't get pregnant. If you continue to have sex with women and like it, want more, I'd say it's possible you are bisexual. However, I think you described a one time thing. You obviously have feelings for your bf while this lesbian experience was just about being horny.




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