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am i not pretty enough?
:(hello again everyone
i have another question
at school in my class, we play truth or dare when the teacher doesnt look. when we play we play it pretty bad, we say stuff like "i dare you to touch Jakes balls" or soome thing like that, it is really embarassing and stupid, but we have fun still. when it gets around to me having a turn and i have to kiss some one they always say stuff like "why does she have to kiss ME?" and stuff like that. But if another girl had to do it, for example : talisha, natasha or Stacey. the boys would probably turn their heads so they girls kiss their lips. and i think i know why. i think it is because i am not really that pretty and i have NO boobs, every girl in my class has boobs, except for me. and i hate it sooooo bad. i wanna scream out loud and tell the boys to get over the fact that i was dared to kiss or touch them.
what should i do? and should i worry about it sooo much?:( SORRY FOR THIS BEING SOO LONG lol...
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uch sweetheart, boys suck. theyre jerks somtimes. girls do the same thing. you could maybe ask not to play if it emberasses you, or when they dare you to kiss sombody be like "ick! do i have to? hes sooo gross!" and just play with it, act like it dosent affect you and that your just as grossed out to kiss them.
&lotsa luv!
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I'm a guy, and let me tell you, boobs mean nothing. I would rather date a "flat" pretty girl than a "big" average girl.
"Every girl in my class has boobs, except for me".
Guys do not examine girls as harshly as you do. For me, there's two questions I ask myself to determine if a girl is attractive: her weight and her facial features. Not how big her boobs are and not how big her butt is. Not even her height, really.
I don't know why they do that. The whole game is pretty immature. Why exactly is it funny to tell someone to touch someone else's crotch? I don't know about you, but I would completely stop playing if everyone you play with is perverted.
I suggest to stop playing with those people or make the truths and dares INTERESTING. Honestly, how interesting can the game be if everyday the dares are "Kiss him!" and "Touch her!"? I just don't understand the whole point of the childish game, but if you enjoy playing, be my guest. You might want to tell your friends to stop using dares that involve touching/kissing/licking/etc. That might work.
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I didn't get big boobs until I was 19. Some women are just late bloomers. If your breast size bothers you that much start saving for implants. Prices have gone down. you need to get the implants under the muscle, not over the muscle.
In general, kids can just be hateful.
You don't have to play the game if you don't want to. Doesn't sound like it's fun for you.
If you play again and yo get to dare someone dare them to be nice to you for one week.
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I know how you feel. I'm not pretty, and my boobs aren't as big as the other girls either. So I know exactly what you're going though.
Just act like it doens't bother you, even though it's hard because it bothers you alot and you probably think about this all the time.
Next time you're dared to do something, turn the tables around. Start complaining about the guy and not let him complain about you. It'll really blow their minds :D
-Katie
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