You can call me Kila. Im good at giving advice. A lot of my friends say that Im good at helping people and I should make a career out of it. Heres some advice for everybody: What people think of you don't count but what you think of yourself do, when its about you. If you feel and think you pretty well you are and no one can tell you other wise.
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Gender: Female
Location: Mississippi
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Age: 16
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im 15 and my penis is five and a half inches when erec is this small? (link)
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It really don't matter what I think swetty. Its what you feel about yourself, and to give you a little advice you are not small.
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Well I'm a Freshman (15 years old) in high school and I took the ACT for the first time ever. I got a 19 on it and I was wondering if that was a good score for my age and all. So is it good or should I have scored higher? (link)
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Well the highest is 32 I think so what you make was good you just was 13 points away. To be a freshman that was great. = ]
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Ok so theres this guy that I really like & i dont know if he likes me. He knows that I like him & he still flirts with me like he did before he knew. But I just really need to know for sure if he likes me. So should I write him a note or get my friends to talk him, (but i dont know if they would know what to say to make it sound like im not desperate but let him know i like him) or what.
P.S. dont say in person because ima chicken and also dont say email/I.M. because his internet is down. (link)
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well, write down what you want your friends to say and get them to practice on it for they can remeber what to say, or if you don't want to do that write him a note telling him how much you like him and you wondering do he like you.
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tuesday last week, i dressed up.
im usually the girl that wears hoodies and jeans and im fine.
so i thought it would be cute to dress up..
so i did..
my boyfriend LOVED it..
he said i looked really cute..
now hes the kind that calls me beautiful everyday..
and he said no matter what i wear i look cute..
but just the way he looked at me, i knew he liked the dress up samantha better..
so i was wondering, what are some ways to be more girly looking, without wearing high heels..
like a website or something, that has pictures, but more word advice then anything..
also about make-up..
i wear cover-up(i have acne)
& eyeliner..
maybe another website that gives it step by step to having more natural make up..
thanks a ton!!! (link)
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How to be more Girly?mmmmmm........ Well, the thing about dressing up you don't have to wear heels alot you can wear flip flop some cute shoes you slide you feet in. I got an eyeliner tip for you, you can have the eyeliner on thickest you want but close to your eyelashes. go to google and search how to put on makeup, and how to dress more girly. Oh yeah eyeshadow makes you real cute to. And if your wear your hair up a lot try to wear it down. Straigh or Curly.
I hope this help,
and you will become the girl thats right for you.
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5'4" 110-115 lbs.
i'm so grossed out by my body. i feel so fat all the time. how can I learn to love my body? or at least be okay with it? (link)
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Frist of all you should love yourself no matter how you look. Im a 140 pounds and I love myself. You got to love yourself and feel good about yourself and you will feel pretty. Always say beauty in the eye of the beholder. The way you can feel comfortable with your body is to say in the bathroom mirror Im pretty and I got a nice body, most girls will kill to be a 110-115 pounds. I wish I was that many pounds. Don't feel that way. You know when you said you feel Fat and gross out with your body. Do something diffirent feel skinny and love your body. I hope this help. And I believe if I take one look at you I'll think you are very pretty and I'll be wondering how can someone be that pretty and feel that bad about themslef. I hope this make you feel better
Love always,
16NPretty
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Is there any effective way of losing weight without exercising? I really don't have time with my schedule. (link)
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You can eat less, eat a lot of fruit, and when you walk suck you stomach in. I hope this help
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I weigh around 115 pounds && im about 5'6 [female]
Id like to get my body toned and looking better then ever but still have curves
what can i do thats easy to do around the house? (link)
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Dance, Clean up I heard a lot of house cleaning can help, Jumping Jacks, Push up, Sit ups, Running. I hope this helps
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Ok, my best guy friend and I have been friends for about 4 years. Now I realize how much I really like him as more than a frind. But, now, it's too late, because he's pretty much dating the prettiest girl in school (big boobs,cheerleader, total package) And i'm just sitting there in the sidelines. He means the world to me, and now I have no idea what I should do, because i'm actn really weird around him. And I'm afraid to tell him how I feel, because he will prolly just tell me that we're only ever gonna be friends. Help! (link)
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Well just tell him Im so jealous that you got a girlfrined because I wanted to date you. But do it in playing matter. And if he react in a good way stick with it, but if he react in a bad way say that you was just playing. I hope this help
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14/f NY
okay well their this group of girls at my school and for some dumb reason i want them to like me.
I mine i think some of them like me and stuff. I think we are school friends but i wanna be like who you would call on friday night to hang out! i have been tring to be nice to them. Like i site with them at lunch and stuff like that.But idk okay so one day at lunch they started talking about some made up storie like the wierdst stuff like a dog with 5 legs and they were trying to get me to say that i saw it to but like they were just going on and on about and they were all in on it.. i felt like crying but i didnt.does anyone know what they were tring todo?? CAN ANYONE HELP ME TO GET THEM TO LIKE ME!!!!!!!!
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Be yourself and if you want to be someone else well try to act like them. Watch them very well watch how they start a conversation and use it that the next day ask them do they want see a certain movie or start talking about a certain movie. I remeber I use to feel like that then I start hanging around diffirent people I love it. If they make you feel bad well stop hanging with them.
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can anyone please give me step by step directions on how to "walk it out" ? (link)
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Turn your outter feet in and then move from left to right backwards.
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I don't like it when one of my friends likes a guy who i flirt with. Because then I can't flirt with him anymore. My problem is, I still do. I know I need to stop but I do it anyways. I like to flirt I have to admit. I don't want to hurt my friend. I already did once before by flirting with a guy my friend liked then hooking up with him. Is it weird I don't like it when my friend likes a guy I flirt with? Should I stop flirting with him? *even though I know my friend doesn't have a chance and the guy doesn't like her?? (link)
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Yes, if the guy don't like her but like you. You should flirt I mean you can't stop flirting with everybody that your friend like because that want be fair to you. If she like a lot of cute boys who left for you to flirt with tell her. If you flirt that good can you please give me tips on flirting. Tell her that you like flirting and you can't stop flirting with everyone she like. Try to hook her up with someone then she can't get mad if you flirt with anybody else.
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should you always stick up for a friend even when you know they're wrong? (link)
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No, because if you know they wrong you should tell them that they are wrong. And if they get mad at you they wasn't a good friend anyways if you stick up for them all the time and they get mad at you for helping them. I hope this help.
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how do you rip dvd's on your computer (not music from your cd but videos form your dvd). Because the teacher putted our dancing perfermane on a DVD and I want to rip it on the computer, upload it on youtube and put it on my site (link)
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Well, you have to have a DVD burner you can't rip with out that. It should be easy if you have one. I hope this help.
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to add insult to injury
from rags to riches (link)
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Yes, as long as it go with what you written your essay on I don't see nothing wrong with it. If you ask me it sounds good for an essay.
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hey im 15/f andi have sadie hawkins dance this weekend.I was just wondering what i should wear and makeup and such
i usually wear my hair in a ponytail and i dont put it down so i guess i should straighten itand put it down??
what would make me look cute and stand out? makeup wise and clothing wise?
thankss (link)
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When you wear your hair down wear it straight or curly. For the dress wear a strapless dress. Found colors that will stand out for example: Hot pink, baby blue, A Golden brown, White, black with sparkels. For your makeup wear whatever color match your dress. Try to buy some fake eyelashes, get your nails done, Toes, wear what every shoes that match your dress. Make sure you put white eyeshadow at the corner of your eyes. Go to google and ask how to put on makeup that will help.
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I`ll start off by saying im sixteen years old and I am completely head over heals for a boy. My good friend had a girlfriend for a couple weeks and never told me and he found out i was really upset about it and he finally came clean. He told me it was too wierd telling me about it because he has always had a thing for me, and for some reason i couldnt spit out i`ve always had a thing for you too, and i regret it. We hung out the other day and i just wanted time to go so slow, i always want to be with him. He is still going out with this girl and i am heartbroken. I dont want pity from anyone, i just want advice to help me move along with this, because i have never been so in love in my life, i have completely fallen. (link)
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Tell him, how you feel if you don't tell him how would he know. Things will be a whole lot better if you tell him. You know he like you. Some girls head over heals over boys that don't even know they are alive. But your guy like you. If you really can't tell him out of your mouth write him a letter. Explain to him why you wrote him a letter then telling him.
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To start off, I am 16/f :D
I don't know why but I've been feeling down lately. Bit depressive to be precise. I know I shouldn't feel any sad because I have lot of good thing going on for me. I got pretty decent grades for mid term, my mom's trusting me more, I've got a great boyfriend, made new friends and whatnot.
However, I can't help but to wonder, how long will my relationship last with him? Just for record, I never had relationship longer than 2 weeks. Previous relationships just ended weirdly. It was either me dumping a guy because I kinda got over them, which is bad but it was better than me just hanging on to them for the sake of their sadness that might come, or it just ended with neither of us breaking up. So I decided to give my self some break so I haven't had any relationships for over 6 months before my current boyfriend. And this new guy I'm going out with, I've been going out with him for a week and 3 days, so it has yet to hit 2 weeks. He's great and all but I don't know... Little things that gets to me. Like he doesn't talk to me at all online when he's on AIM, I mean he kind of ignores me until I IM him first, and when I saw him today at work, he didn't hug me or kiss me goodbye. He appologized later on the phone something like..."I am sorry I didnt kiss you goodbye, my workers would've gave me a hardtime" or something like that, meaning pretty much the same but I can't remember what he exactly said. But obviously he doesn't care if other people see's because he can apparently kiss me in some restaurants and whatnot out in public, and in front of his best friend and my friends, so I am probably making a big deal when it's not because I tend to do that sometimes. So I want to confront him about that, which I am even not sure about how I am going to say without sounding like I am mad... So basically, I am just lost... I am not even sure I'm mad or disappointed, confused. What's going on in my head? (link)
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To keep a relationship going is talking even through you feel as if you making a big deal out of something still ask him about it. Don't think that your relationship going to end early because of your pervious relationship because all the time you thinking of that and not thinking about the relationship you got now and what can make it better you going to belive things is worse didn't it really is. But please talk to him about things that sometime bother you and if he don't like when you talk to him about things he was not good for you anyway.
Hope this help
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well my best friend just got a boyfriend .. and he's cute and nice and i really am very happy for her. i've never had a boyfriend (we are 15) and i want one .. so i always feel jealous when friends get boyfriends. and like i am soooo happy for them .. but i wish i had one too. how can i get over that feeling of jealousy? (link)
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Read your bible. Thats the best way to get over jealousy knowing whats right and wrong. You shouldn't be jealous but Im proud of you admitting that you are jealous. Thats the first big step. Some people can't admite something like that. Write your feelings down. If you jealous write it down and talk about it. Try to be happy. Tell one of your friends that you are jealous and that you need help getting a boyfriend. That will help.
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okay, me & my best friend have been friends since 7th grade. we're like sisters cause our bond is so strong. well we haven't hung out in a while because her mom all of a sudden hates me for nothing, so we haven't been able to chill for a little while. well we were supposed to go to a concert together on sunday [the 18th]. her dad said she could go, her mom said she couldn't. then her dad said that she couldn't go because he didn't wanna hear her mom's shit. [her parents are seperated]. anyways, i thought well "okay, i'll find someone else to go with." i found someone else, but the night before the concert my "bff" says "oh babe, we're gonna hang out tonight & whatever." and her dad said she could, but then she said she wasn't feeling well so she wasn't gonna come. bailage NUMBER ONE.
now she told me "babe i promise we'll hang out next week! even if they say no, nothing's stopping me from spending time with you! i miss hanging out!" cause we used to hang out like everyday. i just texted her a little bit ago asking her what she was doing tonight but she texted back saying her niece broke her arm so she has to take care of her. maybe i'm wrong, but since she's not the mother or the caretaker of the child, shouldn't be living her teenage life? she's 15 and she's had to grow up too fast because her sister doesn't know how to have kids & take care of them too. she just plops them in front of a tv or drops them off somewhere & then totally doesn't take care of them. she leaves it to her little sister [my bff.] i'm sick of never being able to hang out with her anymore, and she promised me.
we talked about this last time she couldn't hang out, and she promised, so now what? she has to stay home & take care of her neice, so now i've got nothing to do, and it's another week of not seeing my best friend. NICE. so what do i do? i don't wanna be mad at her, but i feel i have no choice. she keeps bailing or something "comes up." what do i do? (link)
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Im so sorry that you are going through this. I know how important it is to have a bestfriend and always hanging out together. If her mom hates you and there always be some reason why she can't hang out with you don't make any plans with her even though you do want to hang out with her. Its making you feel bad the way things are between you all and I know you will feel bad if you stop talking to her. but try to found someone else to hang out with. You don't have to stop being her friend but just don't make any plans with her or don't think that you all really going to hang when she say that you all going to. I hope this helps
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what is the quickest and easiest way to lose about 15 pounds besides diet pills? (link)
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Put on some music and dance. Try to eat less, eat slowly for you can get fool quick. Eat more fruits, you can also eat meat. Just don't eat a lot of bread. Lose weight for yourslef and no one else. Try to keep your mind off food.
Hope this helps
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