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FITTING IN!! please read this!!!
14/f NY
okay well their this group of girls at my school and for some dumb reason i want them to like me.
I mine i think some of them like me and stuff. I think we are school friends but i wanna be like who you would call on friday night to hang out! i have been tring to be nice to them. Like i site with them at lunch and stuff like that.But idk okay so one day at lunch they started talking about some made up storie like the wierdst stuff like a dog with 5 legs and they were trying to get me to say that i saw it to but like they were just going on and on about and they were all in on it.. i felt like crying but i didnt.does anyone know what they were tring todo?? CAN ANYONE HELP ME TO GET THEM TO LIKE ME!!!!!!!!
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OMG! That group of girls are just trying to turn you into cold, shiny, hard plastic. Don't let them hypnotize you! (metaphorically)
You gotta be yourself and then they'll like you. But I suggest not to waste your time on trying to get those girls to like you when you can hang out with your REAL friends who accept you for who you are that you can have fun with! Why try to impress people you barely know? But if you have your heart set on it try this:
-Don't lie to them
-Tell them funny situations people were in that you heard about
-Ask for their screen names to keep in touch etc.
-Talk about embarassing moments (not disgusting ones though!)
-Talk about bands and make small talk in the hallway.
Good luck, but never tell tell them something you don't want to go around the rest of the school.
~ Hope I helped, Lauren
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ehmygosh. you sound a little too desperate to score? I must be right! I'm sorry but if you try to hard to fit in you just won't make it to the top. Maybe they'll like you if you just stop trying so hard and getting a life and stuff that they would like. Or in any case if things will never work out I would say go down below their status or find some other friends who would suit you better! laytah!
you know you love me
♥ Massie
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Be yourself and if you want to be someone else well try to act like them. Watch them very well watch how they start a conversation and use it that the next day ask them do they want see a certain movie or start talking about a certain movie. I remeber I use to feel like that then I start hanging around diffirent people I love it. If they make you feel bad well stop hanging with them.
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