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Q: what do sophies look like? like a picture of them please. and could you wear them over a baathing suit?
first of all you spelled sophies wrong. its supposed to be spelled like "soffes". sorry just had to let you know.
i personally hate soffes but ill help ya out.
http://www.soffe.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=11102&storeId=10051&productId=27151&langId=-1&parent_category_rn=14258

they come in all different colors.
uhm yea you can wear them over a bathing suit. that would be just fine!
you know you love me!
I love you!
♥ Massie Block

Q: my crush (Evan) doesn't like me :( what should i do?-Lyndsey age:12
either move on with another guy, or impress him to make him like you. dress really pretty one day, flirt with him, give him attention. never give up. be the kind of girl that all the guys want. be confident show off your personality then one day he might fall for you!

♥ Alica

Q: i wanna be popular.
my socail life is like.. dead. serouisly.
dont lecture me about being popularrr. im not ganna listen soo yeah. thanksssss. =]
I know theres a few ways to become popular and its simple you just need to know the rules before you get started. You can either 1, DO a sport. Or 2 you have to have a GOOD personality. Thats the only way. I mean you dont ususally know popular people who dont do either of those 2 things. Also a little bit of a help is if you are accepted as pretty or good-looking as in athletic type like not ugly you are 1 step there from popularity. Remember popularity starts in 6th-and ends in 8th grade. SO its much harder to get popular if you arent in high school. Dont try to hard. But you have to put some effort into it.
♥ Claire

Q: I don't know what to do with my life. I'm not great at anything. Like..every person has something.. like great writing skills or a band... but I have nothing.

What am I supposed to do?
Aww girl everyone has a talent you just need to find it! Believe me on this. Try signing up for a sport or what you really want out of life?? maybe write down everything positive about yourself like the stuff you have achieved. Try to be optimistic. You do have something even I thought I didnt until I actually did something about it. So have some high energy and go do something about your life!
♥ Dylan

Q: how can i be emore opened with my bf he tells me so much but its hard for me to tell him things i trust him and he trusts me its just i keep things to myself and its hard to tlak things out what will make mebe more opened with him ?
You can practice being more open with him like kay look at yourself in the mirror and pretend he's saying what he usually says and you answer back. You seem a little shy, but being in a relationship like that means you need to be open. Expressing your feelings requires a great deal of effort and if you cant do that then you might as well start NOW or just keep this up this pattern. Practice means perfection. So you dont have to be too personal just act like you've met him for a long time and you know each other very well that will make you open up to your feelings with him ;)
♥ Claire

Q: Um hi. There is this guy I really like and he seems nice but i dont know him well because he is new and shy can you give me an idea on how to get him to notice me.
thanks
Hmmmm you can wear bright clothes for starters. Remember shy guys are the ones who often dont make the first moves. So you can either go up and introduce yourself and then get to know each other. And say hi to him in the halls whenever you see him so he knows that you are friendly. Go on show your stuff!
♥ Kristen

Q: tuesday last week, i dressed up.
im usually the girl that wears hoodies and jeans and im fine.
so i thought it would be cute to dress up..
so i did..
my boyfriend LOVED it..
he said i looked really cute..
now hes the kind that calls me beautiful everyday..
and he said no matter what i wear i look cute..
but just the way he looked at me, i knew he liked the dress up samantha better..
so i was wondering, what are some ways to be more girly looking, without wearing high heels..
like a website or something, that has pictures, but more word advice then anything..

also about make-up..
i wear cover-up(i have acne)
& eyeliner..

maybe another website that gives it step by step to having more natural make up..
thanks a ton!!!
Soo you want to be more girly? thats 2 easy to answer. lol I mean maybe your boyfriend notices everything on you which is good like if you get a new look etc. I would first ACT girly like your tone of your voice when you speak. Wear pink a lot
Also thats good that you wear make-up if you are a plain jane then thats not even near where you are going for. Use it everyday no matter where you go!!! The key to be a girly girl or just be girly. Is where ever you go YOU MUST look good it doesnt matter if you are going to practice try new stuff and you never know when there could be hot guys around so be prepared!
you know you love me
♥ Massie

Q: 14/f NY

okay well their this group of girls at my school and for some dumb reason i want them to like me.
I mine i think some of them like me and stuff. I think we are school friends but i wanna be like who you would call on friday night to hang out! i have been tring to be nice to them. Like i site with them at lunch and stuff like that.But idk okay so one day at lunch they started talking about some made up storie like the wierdst stuff like a dog with 5 legs and they were trying to get me to say that i saw it to but like they were just going on and on about and they were all in on it.. i felt like crying but i didnt.does anyone know what they were tring todo?? CAN ANYONE HELP ME TO GET THEM TO LIKE ME!!!!!!!!
ehmygosh. you sound a little too desperate to score? I must be right! I'm sorry but if you try to hard to fit in you just won't make it to the top. Maybe they'll like you if you just stop trying so hard and getting a life and stuff that they would like. Or in any case if things will never work out I would say go down below their status or find some other friends who would suit you better! laytah!
you know you love me
♥ Massie

Q: Ok, my best guy friend and I have been friends for about 4 years. Now I realize how much I really like him as more than a frind. But, now, it's too late, because he's pretty much dating the prettiest girl in school (big boobs,cheerleader, total package) And i'm just sitting there in the sidelines. He means the world to me, and now I have no idea what I should do, because i'm actn really weird around him. And I'm afraid to tell him how I feel, because he will prolly just tell me that we're only ever gonna be friends. Help!
Sounds like me in a way!! Well you can either do 2 things. 1) sit there all your life on the sidelines doing nothing and feeling sorry for yourself. or 2) Be yourself and act confident and go up to him...&& tell him. Like who else is going to do that for you? Your mom? No. ITS you.
♥ Alica

Q: I get sweaty palms and feet out of randomness. Like I could be just standing there and my hands would get sweaty.

And i hate it since I play violin and whenever I stop playing it, my fingerboard is sweaty...

Is there anything wrong? What can I do or buy?
No theres absolutely NOTHING wrong with that. You just seem very nervous all the time. Unless you have a disorder with yourself. I reccomend go seeing a docter before you know. Buy something but ask before hand what is should be. Try relaxing your body.
♥ Dylan

Q: Recently my parents asked me if it would be ok for us to move. The place we would be moving to is in the same state but its about 45 mins to an hour away from where i live now. Atfirst it was a deffinate no for me but then I started thinking about how it might be able to help me. lately ive been really depressed and not happy with my life and i have started to drink atleast 2 or three times a week this past week i drank every night. The reason that is holding me back from moving Is that I think I will miss my friends so much i will just get more depressed

what should i do help please!
Aw hun. u need to boost your confidence when things get down like this...especially since you are moving! When you move you make more friends, new people and better opportunities for your life. I moved and i found the best of friends and i almost moved again. But luckily didnt. Think of the glass half full! =)
♥ Claire

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Massie Block: Described as very pretty, with a glossy brown bob, amber eyes, and a laser-whitened smile. She is mostly known as the leader of the infamous "Pretty Committee" the most popular clique that rules OCD. Massie's strong points are her charisma and wit. Her crushes include Cam Fisher and Derrick Harrington (or Derrington, as Massie secretly calls him).




Claire Lyons: A girl who has pale skin, blonde hair, blue eyes, Keds, and bangs and is from Orlando, Florida. Although she starts off as a clueless, sweet fashion victim her personality undergoes some changes. The cruel treatment by the Clique causes her to mature, and Claire's backbone begins to show - as well as some imperfections. She temporarily abandons her friend Layne for the chance to become part of the Pretty Committee. She does, eventually, become a part of the Pretty Committee. She has an on and off relationship with Cam Fisher, a star soccer player at Briarwood Academy.




Alicia Rivera: Described as the "Spanish beauty" of The Clique. She has a crush on Josh Hotz.




Kristen Gregory: Is the best female athlete in the school. Although she pretends to be rich. However, Massie, Alicia, and Dylan do not find this out, because by Claire (although Claire was able to keep the secret). Her parents are quite strict. Kristen is undeniably intelligent and perpetually scheming to make money.




Dylan Marvil: Described as the red-head with emerald green eyes who is taller and wider then the other girls with fluctuating weight. She is always trying to diet but somehow, it never works out. Her mom is talk show host Merri-Lee Marvil, who is quite famous in the show biz.




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