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being more opened
how can i be emore opened with my bf he tells me so much but its hard for me to tell him things i trust him and he trusts me its just i keep things to myself and its hard to tlak things out what will make mebe more opened with him ?
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Well, you should tell him, that you want to tell him things, but it's hard for you. You like him a whole lot and even so, you just have a problem sharing your thoughts. It's not a bad thing to want to keep things to yourself. Everyone does it. He just happens to be one of the guys who like to be open and honest. Maybe he was in a relationship where he was exactly open and she may have left him because of it. SO now he's trying to make up for it. Don't sweat about it. Just tell him what i said and if he's the guy I think he is, he'll be totally fine with it. Good luck! =]
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My girlfriend and I are very open with eachother. He's showing you by telling you these things that he can trust you with them. Basically if you want to be more open with him, it's simple, just be more open. If you are shy, then that's fine. But keep this in mind; how can you have a comfortable relationship without sharing things with eachother?
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You can practice being more open with him like kay look at yourself in the mirror and pretend he's saying what he usually says and you answer back. You seem a little shy, but being in a relationship like that means you need to be open. Expressing your feelings requires a great deal of effort and if you cant do that then you might as well start NOW or just keep this up this pattern. Practice means perfection. So you dont have to be too personal just act like you've met him for a long time and you know each other very well that will make you open up to your feelings with him ;)
♥ Claire
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Just tell him small things to start out with. Then once you get comfortable with that then work your way up to bigger things and it will be easier for you to be more open to him.
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