14/f
Okey Same thing with almost every friend=/
okey.....
so last weekend my and my friend was suppost to go the this little teen club.
& thew my mom got sick.
& the thing was on a thursday/ no school friday)
anyways i askd my mom if i could go & she said NO!
& i told my friend i couldnt & she was like Oh well ya i gotta go. & hung up. see this happends with almost everyfriend of my that are gurls.
if i cant do somethings its like thay get mad & lie & say thay gotta go or just say ima let you go. i mean i nkow what your most of you will say its not my say if i can go somewhere its my moms
& i mean its no just that most of my friends dont all the much hang out with me.
am i not a good friend.
Sky1435 answered Monday April 9 2007, 7:03 pm: Your friends don't sound like very good friends.
If they get mad over little things like that then they arent worth it.
I'm sure your a fabulous friend and its not your fault that your mom says you cant go somewhere.
Your mom even though i know you dont want to hear this is only protecting you.
She may not feel comfortable with you going to a teen club at your age because trust "been there done that" and they arent very good for young
girls like yourself.
talk your friends because they need to know how you feel.
try to make new plans.
Plans that you know will work out.
Don't Sweat it.
It'll all pass.
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lilsweetie94 answered Monday April 9 2007, 6:54 pm: ok first of all...you are a good freind. they just dont know that. you should talk to them about it and tell them that it really hurts when they do that. tell them that you do want to do all that stuff but its not your fault that you cant. just explain to them that you dont think that they should treat you like that. and if they treat you like that even after you talk to them, then i think you should try hanging out with other people. if your " friends" are going to treat you like that, then their not real friends. they should understand that you just cant do everything that they want you to.
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