Q: ok well.. i met this guy in a chat room....turned out to be my friend..then i liked him, and i could totally tell that he liked me.. he sent me a pic...i believed it was him. he has seen many many pics of me and on my myspace too.. and he has myspace but anyways. I talked to his friend and she told a lot of lies on him... and that night our relationship got rocky *we were dating* and then i called him for the first time with my phone right? he apologized and the only lie that was true was about the pic. so he ended up showing me himself on webcam 3 or 4 times. we talk a lot on the phone and he doesnt get much pay, hes only a teen...but he buys phone credits and calls me and thats a lot of money since hes on minimum wage. im trying to make this sound blunt cause i dont want u guys to hurt my feelings.. truth is... we're mushy lovey dovey with each other..and tells me some deeply sweet extremely romantic things. and i tell him those same quality meaning things back. we talk a lot on the phone and i know hes real....he puts my display pic on and says he loves me on his msn...and i do the same...so well, i just gotta say..what do you think of my relationship??? *i tried not to be mushy gushy cause i dont want my feelings hurt by u guys*

Q: when you discharge should you change your underwear

Q: Say you had so called friends mybe one real one and one accompliance with that person you d not like so much and they were talking about girls they thought were pretty and you weren't included but they all were would you still consider these people your friends?

Q: So one of my best friends hangs out with her boyfriend 24/7 and even at school we don't even really hang. So I was asking her if we could hang out but since shes always with her boyfriend, and her boyfriend invites his friend who is my ex boyfriend. So then my best friend never invites me because she doesn't want to be a fight between my ex and me, cuz we aren't on good terms.

Then I talked to my best friend how I felt and she ignored me. She basically said that she thinks that her boyfriend will get mad if she says she doesnt want my ex to come when her boyfriend invites him, because she doesnt want there to be a fight. Also, she thinks that if she tells her boyfriend she doesnt want my ex to come, shes afraid her b/f will get mad and then break up with her.

But what boyfriend would break up with his girlfriend when his girlfriend wants to hang with her best friend that she hasn't hung out with for like 2 months.

Then the me, my ex, and my best friend got in a huge fight, abd basically my best friend said that she would rather have her boyfriend than me. Because she told me she doesn't want to lose what she has with her boyfriend. But it's not like they are going to be together forever, I mean they have been going out for like 3 months, and they still haven't hugged or kissed or anything whatsoever...So she's willing to lose her best friend over her boyfriend.

Oh, and my ex likes my best friend...and her boyfriend is my ex's best friend..
So does this make any sense to anyone?

Because basically my ex told me it was wrong to get mad at this whole situation, but i've been crying for 3 days straight, and I can't stop.
I just really don't know what too do.


Is it wrong that my (ex) best friend shoved me out of her life just to have her boyfriend because she doesn't want to lose him? Because I think they won't be together...

Please helpp..

Q: Does anyone have a good routine for waking up in the morning.As in getting ready for school
Time for hair
And make up.

From
6:00
to
7:00
And any good remedies for staying awake and falling asleep at night.
Mine doesn't seem to be working.

Q: So, usually I'm used to answering these type of quetions. but, I guess I need your advice. because i'm not sure how to help myself.

[its not as long as it seems, i just skipped alot of lines, PLEASE i beg you, read]
14/f

You know how some people will say, 'there having a bad week' and they either tell you, how they got grounded, or got a F on a big test.

Well imagine this..

Imagine losing your whole group of friend, because they ditched you, for a huge graduation dance, when they were all going out to dinner together, and they didn't invite you, and you've been friends with all of them for atleast 4 or 5 years.

So, right now, your probably thinking.. that sucks. but its not the end of the world.

ok now imagine you just lost your best guy friend, who you were like madly inlove with, but a couple mistakes, mess up your friendship, and you were friends with him for 4 years. not friends actually, best friends. like the kinda guy you tell everything too.

now, your probably thinking, that sucks even more. but you can always make new friends.

OK. now imagine, your dog, your dog, not the family dog, your dog, dies. and gets hit by a car, early in the moring before you going to school.

now, i bet your saying wow now this really does suck for her.

BUT. wait theres more. now imagine, before ALL this happened, you talked about switching schools, just to one person, but they told everyone. So, now that the whole school knows, you decide you gotta go and switch. because if you don't, it will most likely just get worse at your school and people will call you a liar.
So, now your out of your comfort zone, your in a place, where things are way different.

this didnt all happen over a long period of time, it happened to me in a week. 1 week. how would you deal with it?

I'm asking for your advice. In the beginning of all this when it all happened, I covered up my sadness, I smiled and laughed, like I always normaly would. But, its starting to hit me now, hard. I'm not smiling too much, and i find myself losing track of my grades. I'm no longer focusing, and starting not to want to do normal activities. Since I took a class in depression, I know these are early signs of depression. I want to stop it before I get worse.

But, I do not, do not want to see a therapist. My mom would freak. And it would make me feel uncomfortable around my family. So, thats a total noway. I'm strong when it comes to things like this. I can make it, if I just know how to. But, as of right now I don't. I'm normaly a A and 2 Bs [rarely] student. My grades have dropped tremendosly.

I need your help. Your advice will mean a great deal to me. Please help me in any way possible.

thank you very much.

Q: my friend is really annoting, and she thinks she's the most popular one out of all 7 of us. she thinks she is funny, when she isn't, and veryone loves her. i'm not jealus, i'm just annoyed! she is not funny, and she talks like a baby, which makes everybody adore her! it's getting on my nerves. what should i do? i've already talked to them. that made it worse. :[

Q: Me and a lot of my friends (there are somewhere around 15 of us maybe?) have a team for an event to raise money for cancer research. We're going to make up a team name and make T-shirts and such, and I was wondering if anyone could help us with a cute team name? (we're 14-15 year old girls) We haven't had many good thoughts as of yet. It doesn't have to be relevant to anything. Last year we were the Hot Tamales. lol I liked that but we want to find a different name for this year. Thanks for any suggestions!

Q: is it true that guys are only in a relationship for the sex? and what kinds of things drive guys crazy that aren't sexually related?

Q: ok i like this boy right and i likes him for like as long as i can remeber and all of my friends know how much im crazy over him. Anywayz one day at school we had an assembly and me and couple of my friends were sitting on the bleachers when all of a suddent i saw my crush, he was going towards our way so i tried so hard not to stare at him then one of my friend had call his name and he look over and my friend pointed at me, and for you to know he knows i like him and he knows what she was trying to say so he just look at me and smile and then walk away. Even my friends so it, so what does it means he like me or is he just trying to be friendly.

Q: my answer got deleted on this question!! and the advicenator wrote alot too.. so im kinda sad :/

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=485479

how do i get the answer back? or is there just something wrong with my computer???

Q:

Hello theres this girl I like and she no that I like her I liked her for 2 an half yrz now lol I no her older sista I told her I liked her but her sista said you need to get to no her thatz tru but theres this party soon I no she will be there and I want to talk to her so she can get to no me but I don’t know wat to say im not good at talking to girlz..all I no wat to say is hello wat you up 2..how do I make a long conversation that she will like..an how do I get her to like me bak………i am 17 by the way

Q: Yesterday, I went to the mall with my Mom. I found a really cute skirt, and a top. When I tried it on, my mom insisted that "they were too tight." This happens ALL the time when we go shopping. Every time I try something on, my mom says, "No, its too tight" or "I think you need a bigger size," when I really don't. Something could fit just fine, and she would still insist that it is too small.

So the other day, I started crying, because she never likes ANYTHING that I try on. Then she asked me what was wrong, and I said, "Apparently I'm fat!" And she goes, "Oh no, you're not fat. The clothes just run small."

Mind you, I am a pants size 0, and I weigh 88 pounds. When I was younger, I used to be kind of chubby. I don't know why my mom does this- I'm trying to decide if it's because I really do look fat, or if its because she thinks I look good and doesn't want me to wear tight/revealing clothes. I am very upset, and lately I've been feeling like I don't want to eat. I decided to give up candy, and I fear becoming anorexic. Yet my mom, (who is not thin) continues to encourage me to eat candy.

Should I say something the next time she does this? I am getting really pissed off, and I feel like shouting, "You're just jealous because I'm not fat like you!" at her.

Q: 13/f

Tonight I'm going to a mixed boys and girls sleepover, and the guy I fancy is going to be there. I want to look good, but I can't be too dressed-up because it's a sleepover, not a party. Also, I would like to wear something a little rock chick.
So my question is, what should I wear?

Thanks in advance, xxx

Q: Several times a day I feel something big moving in my abdomen just under my waist line on one side from the center toward the back. I've never had such a thing before. What's going on?

Q: One of my closest friends told me something about themselves, and it's like, really dark, most people wouls stop being friends with another because of this.
But, I accept it, she's still my friend, who i would do anything for.

She's afraid I'm lying about accepting it because her Ex-BF said he did then broke up with her a few months later, calling her an inhumane monster without a trace of a soul.
So she's afraid I'm going to do the same.
I've known this Person for almost 10 years now, she got me through some of the toughest times of my life, and for a logn time, we were each others only friend, I lvoe her like family, and I'm not sure how to tell her how much her friendship means to me, and How to convince her of the truth; That I still See her as an amzing beautiful person, And i'm always going to there for her.

Q: me and all my friends are 13. my friend and her boyfriend have been talking about oral, and fingering, ans sex.. he has a concom, and she says shes ready, and shes been talking about it with my other friend who also really wants it too. they say there prepared, and so are there boyfriends. the problem is im not supposed to know this, so i cant talk to them abou it. and plus im not sure if she was telling the tuth, or just saying that, but when everyone found out, she got mad, and i think it means it was true. i really cant do anyhting to help her, but i wanna know if thirteen is too young. I thik it is, but she doesnt, and im scared for her....were not that good of frends , but im still scared!

Q: I found out one of my cousins had a miscarriage after trying to have another baby. But what happens to the baby when it dies. Do doctors have to surgically remove the baby ... or does it just come out?

What happens if a teen purposley kills her baby, what happens to the baby then?

Q: can anyone clarify
teen, preteen and tween?

Q: 15/f
what qualties do guys look for in a girl like honestly?

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