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I''m Not Pretty?
Say you had so called friends mybe one real one and one accompliance with that person you d not like so much and they were talking about girls they thought were pretty and you weren't included but they all were would you still consider these people your friends?
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Not really, but then again, everyone isn't beautiful. And it depends who you're talking about. I'm not afraid to admit that some of my friends aren't exactly gorgeous, but they're still pretty.
Talk to your friends about it & if they make some lame excuse; cut them short & get new friends.
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Yes, I would... I might be a little miffed, as I suspect you are, but some people just aren't pretty in the standard sense of the word.
Some people who have replied on here have said that friends should always say good things about each other... but you shouldn't have to lie to stay friends with someone!
Don't worry... it doesn't mean that you're ugly. You're probably just not cookie-cutter pretty. And it doesn't mean your friends don't like you, it's that they can't get past the high-school definition of beautiful.
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i think that they arent your real friends. Friends dont do that to eachother. Friends are supposed to say good things bout eachother but sometimes have their disagreements. My friends always say they think im pretty but i dont think so. They are there to tell you good things to make you feel good and be there for you. SO i think that i woudlnt be friends with them anymore and forget bout wat they say if they say anytrhing bad bout you. I had so called friends like that before adn i finally learned that they arent worth my time. So i would find some true friends that will stick by you. Ok well i hope i helped?!?! if ou need anymore help you can write me in my inbox.
-katelyn
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everyone is different.what would the world be like if everyone was like "paris hilton".their fake.
i dont know what you look like but you proberly are.even if your so called called friends dont think so.your friends dont seem much of friends to you when they think their all preety and your not thats so mean.talk to them about it.and if they say your not preety then just say back to them why are friends with me if im the only one that isnt preety.remember its not what the outside that matters its the inside of someone that matters.
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Many people believe that we are coustom made and that we look exactly like we would want to look.Women like being women,men like being men,so people who look a certain way should like lookin like that.
Even if people aren't your real friends yet,they still can be, it is nice to have friends so I wouldn't give up on being friends with anyone.
Were you not actively participant in the conversation?Were you just waiting and watching to see if anyone mentioned your name?That could be why they forgot to mantion you.They probably didn't think about whether or not you should be on the list.If you had added someone,they wold've thought about you being on the list.Chance are,they didn't know if you were on the list or not and assumed that you were allready on they list because they didn't have have it written on paper.
***Remember,no matter what people think,you're beautiful and no matter what they say or don't say,you always will be.
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To be honest I'm not actually sure. I think it's more do you consider them friends or not? Everyone is different and me personally - I don't care what anyone thinks of me in the least. They either like me or they don't but little things like how people feel about how I look (like if I'm nice looking or not) I pay little or no attention to. I've had some friends say I'm hot and others say not say anything but it's okay because I wouldn't say they are all hot myself either. You can't please em all and to be honest everyone has their own version of what's pretty and what isn't.
I think it's really up to you on what you think about these friends but personally I think it's a bit vain for them to add themselves on this list their making up. :/ Don't let it bother you because I've no doubt that you're very pretty, maybe a lot more than they could ever be. And I'll be willing to bet anything that there's a lot of people out there who think that. :]
To answer your question more directly by the way... I find it very hard to trust people. I have very, very few people I can honestly call a friend. I've a few friends who I trust with my life and my secrets and then I have people I just know and talk to every so often or I hang out with. If some friends did to me what happen to you I'd be glad that at least they were honest but me being me I'd have probably said, "Oi, why ain't I on that list - I should be in 1st place before any of you and any those other people on there!" :D Might not be true, but it's what I'd have said to see what they have to say about that. If they were people who I trusted and were my real friends it wouldn't bother me in the slightest. If they were just people I knew I just wouldn't care because at the end of the day what they think wouldn't make a difference to me one way or the other anyway.
You're pretty - don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. :]
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