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OK just promise you dont think im weird... (net love) lol
ok well.. i met this guy in a chat room....turned out to be my friend..then i liked him, and i could totally tell that he liked me.. he sent me a pic...i believed it was him. he has seen many many pics of me and on my myspace too.. and he has myspace but anyways. I talked to his friend and she told a lot of lies on him... and that night our relationship got rocky *we were dating* and then i called him for the first time with my phone right? he apologized and the only lie that was true was about the pic. so he ended up showing me himself on webcam 3 or 4 times. we talk a lot on the phone and he doesnt get much pay, hes only a teen...but he buys phone credits and calls me and thats a lot of money since hes on minimum wage. im trying to make this sound blunt cause i dont want u guys to hurt my feelings.. truth is... we're mushy lovey dovey with each other..and tells me some deeply sweet extremely romantic things. and i tell him those same quality meaning things back. we talk a lot on the phone and i know hes real....he puts my display pic on and says he loves me on his msn...and i do the same...so well, i just gotta say..what do you think of my relationship??? *i tried not to be mushy gushy cause i dont want my feelings hurt by u guys*
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just to let you know im not going to hurt your feelings.he sounds real.and you have totally fallen for him.i say he has fallen for you too.
the only thing i can say is just becareful and good luck!
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we wont hurt your feelings here dont worry atleast i wont.if you really like him go for it. just be careful. make sure he doesnt lie to you anymore. and about your relationship i think the same as any other relationship, that you guys like eachother and thats the only thing that matters. i hope everything stays the way it is. aww you guys sound like you really like eachother. keep it that way. and goodluck
ps. my older sister and her boyfriend are now engaged and they found eachother online in a chatroom also so who knows!
xoxo johanny
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Who is anyone else to judge. :] If you really do like this guy (and vice-versa) then by all means go for it.
The only thing I will say is this though: firstly, be careful becuase if he had lied about one thing then he is very capable of doing so about other things too (I know you both say how much you love each other but love often makes us blind to these kind of things). He may show everyone online he loves you and such but what he does when he's not online with you is stuff you don't know about so that's yet another thing you will need to think about especially since he's already lied to you once. The other thing is thinking about where you both want this relationship to go. You both obviously don't know each other in person and are limited to an online/distance relationship and there's only so many things you both can do online (you can't go out together or go to movies and all that jazz) and you both obviously can't keep seeing each other over the net forever (even meeting up face to face once will not be enough becuase afterwards you're both back tobeing a couple on the net again). It's all something you will need to think about (as well as him too).
Other than that though I'm not thinking anything of your relationship because it's your relationship - not mine. :] If you're happy then it's all good. :P Just know though that eventually those things I said above will come up and may become an issue, they always do. I only say this because I speak from personal experience - have been there and done that all already. :]
Good luck with you both. :]
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