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getting over him
how do you get over someone? I mean, it's been amost two months since i've seen him and I miss him so much & we never even went out!!! Sometimes I just think about him and get sad because i miss him so much..
Is this normal?!?! I hate this. It's pathetic!
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Getting over someone is not an easy step, I must say. Believe me it took me so long to get over this one guy who I thought was the one, but then I finally realized that I really didnt even need/want him anymore. I thought that is was just a waste of my time to actually think that we would be together. The more you grow and the more you live life to the fullest, eventually you will see in the past that really HE doesnt mean that much to you anymore. Its extremely normal, I mean it happens to everyone in the world. Think about it. Would you really want to relive what has already happened or would like to move on with it?? Because sometime and someday you will say "Ok I am so over him now." ...and know that you are over someone. So what I would do is to just hang out with your friends, have fun, maybe go find that guy of your dreams once you know you have definitely gotten over him. And then once you know you are over the guy you will feel so much more happier without him!!
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Its totally normal..when you like love someone theres no way to stop thinking about them. Ok im the same as you... theres this boy that i am seriously in love with...but hes older and im too young (right now) but you just have to get over that. have you tried to talk to him? Maybe you should try to find him and ask him to hang out so you dont hva eto think about him all the time. I know...i hate the feeling, like you just want them there but you can try to hang with him or even find a better guy...maybe you should try.
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Yup it's normal. Everyone in your place hates it too and yup it might be considered pathetic but... that's life. :] That's the price everyone pays though when they decide to like/love someone.
As for getting over someone - there's one very simple answer and that is - time. That's the only way and sometimes it can take a very long time but time is the only real healer when it comes to something like this. That and having the courage to step forward and get on with things. It's really all you can do, sorry.
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