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the names Kassidy. im 16. i go to freedom high. i love running. && hanging out with my friends. oh... im VERY loud. but a FUN loud. not bad loud. : ] yeah...i definatly have blonde momentstm. but its okay cause people still love me anyways so everything is GRAND. [ha] well hopefully you love me too. ;) kaythanksbye!
p.s. im good with any advice so ask me anything or ill just help ya out!

you can take the blonde to the ranch, but you cant take the bikini off the blonde.

♥KASSIDY






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ok i'm gonna make this short a few of my freinds said come an play football i sed no i gotta revise (this was all done over teamspeak *microphone voice chat for pc*) then i said i nearlly done i might be able to come out now and he said i wouldnt bother it would be un-even teams then he just leaves saying i'm off out as if he doesnt want me there ¬_¬ not only did it hurt a bit but i also know he does it without knowing *i think* so what to say to something rejecting? without being harsh back just letting him know what he's doing.
(by the way only used football as an example hate it really ;) lol)

Say '(Name) I would like to be honest with you, I have been feeling left out, and I would like to be included (in whatever it may be)...is that ok?'
Something like that. they will understand, it really is all about being honest with yourself and others, if you dont tell people that, how else are they supposed to read your mind? they dont know how you are doing at the moment, so speak up and tell them how you feel when you are being rejected!
♥ KASSIDY

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So, I never realized this until today, but my world is changing so fast. My best friend doenst go to my school anymore, my worst enemy returned to my school, my other best friend is moving half way across the country, & i feel lik all my other friends and the rest of the world is moving on without me. I've been crying for the last hour because i feel lik the world is moving to fast and im just not ready for it all. I feel lik all of my friends are changing and growing up so im thinkin i should start changing too but the problem is i just dont want to. I'm so confused, please help

sometimes, you just have to hit the pause button on the world and think about yourself and whats really going on inside with you. that has happened to me, im just like WOW i cant beleive that went by so fast until it suddenly became known to me. You need to be in control of your life, and take the PRESENT and be in there rather than the future, or the past. You might realize your focusing on one thing, when your missing out on other things. Have some alone time for you, just you! Take a brisk walk, and let it all out, you will be caught up in the moment again. But now you just need to catch up on what has happened and let all your emotions flow right out of you. Your growing up, and have just realized that. I know to the exact. I'm in high school, and I'm like omg im going to be graduating in a couple of years and I dont want to go because I have missed out on certain stuff in school already. Live in the present! Thats what I have learned the most!!
♥ KASSIDY

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I'm 15 years old and I can't swallow pills. :(
I can swallow pasta whole and recently I swallowed a vitamin that was coated in something that made it slippery so it was easier to swallow but not everything comes like that, of course. And I don't remember how I did that. It's really annoying because I just got these pills but I CANNOT swallow them. I've practiced with tic tacs but even they don't go down. I try putting it in my mouth then gulping water and tilting my head back but it doesn't work. What's wrong with meee?!

no there is nothing absolutely nothing wrong with that. im actually the same way when i have to swallow my pills. i just cant its difficult and hard and as much as i need to it doesnt come natural to me. like some people you know its just really easy for the to swallow. yea i have tried everything also. i just cant swallow, so i just chew it and then take a gulp of water. i think its just being afraid of swallowing things like for other people they dont care they just pop it in thier mouth and swallow. so just keep trying and ask people who can swallow without no problems how they do it. I just chew the nasty taste and try to get it done quickly. hope you can swallow the pills :)
♥ KASSIDY

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hey i want to make my WHOLE advicenators Arial size 8. is that possible?

no you have to get a paid account or something. its not possible you have to stick with what is available now. :)
♥ KASSIDY

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I'm in the mood to watch some really romantic movies, so if you can list any besides the Notebook or Titanic, I'll be soooo grateful!

"The Holiday" is the most romantic movie I have ever seen. You'll love it, if you havent seen it. Its the one with Cameron Diaz in it.
(Gosh I want to watch Titanic so bad right now)
"Just Friends" is a really cute movie about 2 best friends, one girl, and one guy, grew up together. See that one. Its good. Thats all I can think of right now. Hope this helped you out.
♥ KASSIDY

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i was walking up the stairs today with some of my guy friends when one was like, "melissa(me) bryan's looking at your butt". guys say that stuff alot but for some reason this time i just got tongue-tied. do you think he was? what can i say back to that kind of stuff when guys say it to me? like what is something i can say jokingly? and any other input?

im pretty sure he was looking at your butt. guys check you out and they obviousely dont want you to notice that. but your friend did. so next time someone notices him checking you out or you notice. say "Do I look like a grocery item to you?? I see you checking me out!!"
its flirty and jokingly so yea guys check out girls a lot, its a compliment..learn to love it!! =)
♥ KASSIDY

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i sit next to the cutest guy in my math class. i want to talk to him, he's really nice but also everyone likes him so he's not really easy to talk to or anything. he was prom king etc.. how do i talk to him? in that class we don't do anything. but it seems like everything he says i have nothing interesting to say back to. i don't think asking questions about him works, it just makes me sound desperate and it gets boring.

try getting into his conversations. the little stuff count....you know!! tell him stories or funny events that have happened. whatever you do make sure you are happy and nice to him, then he will see you as a friendly person. i think not talking to someone who sits right next to you makes it feel pretty awkward if no one says anything. so whenever you have something on your mind just say it with a positive attitude. dont worry whatever he may be thinking because hes not going to be rude. he might find you interesting if you just make your move once or maybe sometime sooner the better. i know cute guys are sometimes hard to talk to. I sometimes get like that whenever i see a hot guy I get all embarassed. Just strike up an interesting conversation that you know he might like. You never know it could turn out to be something more like a friend, or what ever. just be confident and make your move because really hes really just a cute guy you can totally talk to him, anyone can!! =)
♥ KASSIDY

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This guy led me on then decided at the last minute that he liked another girl. My friend. I know by fact that he is never going to get her so i want to make shure he knows what he missed out on by not going out with him. We dont really hang out much anymore, but i do hang out in his group sometimes because they are my friends as well. There is also going to be a party we both will be attending next week. How can i show him excatly what he missed out on?!

have a lot of fun with your friends. make him jealous to show that really he has been missing out on you. if you act lonely and bored, or sad hes not going to be wanting to miss out on you. make him feel guilty that he isnt with you. show him that you are a fun person and that you really want to be with him. but when you show-off at the party dont ignore him, let him join in on the fun and then take it from there. dont forget to wear something that is bold and adorable.. like a great top with some nice jeans or something to make you feel comfortable and that can give you tons of compliments on. Make sure when you do it, make it look natural not too showy. He will eventually get it. Play hard to get 2. But once you know he's going to come to you, then let loose and have a great time at that party with him:)
♥ KASSIDY

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me and my boyfriend have been talking and we need a song! he likes kind of the songs by hinder and daughtry, which id ont mind, and i kind of like the more hiphoppy songs.Anyone have any suggestions??

Nickelback- If everyone cared
Akon- Dont matter
T-Pain feat. Yung Joc- Buy U A Drank (Shawty Snappin')
Bone Thugs-N-Harmony f. Akon- I Tried

my personal favorite for love song is defnitely
*nickelback- far away

♥ KASSIDY



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hey, i know its a little late, but i need a mothers day present to make my mom, or like an idea for something, because i dont have a ride to go anywhere, and not a lot ofmoney

You can show her one of your good talents, like if you can sing, or play a musical instrument, or if you are very creative, or make a movie if you are in drama, that would very much impress her. You dont even have to have money for that. You can make her a mothers day cake, maybe even some cup-cakes. Breakfast is always great in the morning!! Suprise her with a SUPRISE party with your family before she wakes up. Treat your mother special, and if that doesnt do then you can make her a nice card with a poem, and tell how much you love her or something. Hope this works :)
♥ KASSIDY

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people say don't JUDGE a book by it's cover then why do FIRST impressions mean so much?

My history teacher always said "First impressions are always your last impression" which is true. But really we never actually see the person inside. We see how they are on the outside like what they look like but not how they truely are. People judge people mostly by the way we look. Because thats like the first thing we notice when we see new people or meet. Its what first comes into our minds. Not like "oh this person's personality is bright" like you cant notice that you have to actually know the person in order for you to know that. But since you may look at a book and think that BOOK is just a boring book, or love, or disgusting kind of book. You have to actually read the book and it takes some time to know what its about. Same goes for a person in first impressions. Hope I helped. And next time you see a book pick it up and read what its about, lol dont even think about looking at the cover. You never know what you may think! :)
♥ KASSIDY

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how do you get over someone? I mean, it's been amost two months since i've seen him and I miss him so much & we never even went out!!! Sometimes I just think about him and get sad because i miss him so much..
Is this normal?!?! I hate this. It's pathetic!

Getting over someone is not an easy step, I must say. Believe me it took me so long to get over this one guy who I thought was the one, but then I finally realized that I really didnt even need/want him anymore. I thought that is was just a waste of my time to actually think that we would be together. The more you grow and the more you live life to the fullest, eventually you will see in the past that really HE doesnt mean that much to you anymore. Its extremely normal, I mean it happens to everyone in the world. Think about it. Would you really want to relive what has already happened or would like to move on with it?? Because sometime and someday you will say "Ok I am so over him now." ...and know that you are over someone. So what I would do is to just hang out with your friends, have fun, maybe go find that guy of your dreams once you know you have definitely gotten over him. And then once you know you are over the guy you will feel so much more happier without him!!
♥ KASSIDY

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im not sure what this goes under.



i was wondering if anyone knows

where to get quotes or have any cute quotes



something to deal with love, growing up, something like that/.

p.s. girl 14



i rate

I was just looking at some here's some sites I went on hope this helps you.

http://www.firehotquotes.com/

http://www.quotemountain.com/quotes/hot_quotes/

http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/hot.html

http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/

hope thats what you are looking for!

♥ KASSIDY

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Hello...im 16/f
Ok, cutting right to the question. There is this guy i like in my class and i want to get over him. (ASAP)

We're complete opposites. I'm known as an angel, and he's the devil. He's completely dark and twisted and thinks really evily. He's also moody. Gets pissed off easily. Yet i like him. And i worry about him. (Opposites attract)

And i'm just very calm, sensitive and very innocent. Hehe, but i really like him and i need to get over him. Because i think he would never be interested in me. And i don't think anything would happen between us. =(

Any advice? Thanks in advance.

lol me too im trying the same thing with a guy I still like so heres what I'm trying to do it might help.

Ignore him whenever you see him, like if he talks to you just pretend you didnt hear him exactly. He will get the feeling that you dont like it when he talks to you.
Never look at him in the eyes.
Think about like 10 things that you hate about him (maybe each day). Instead of thinking how great he is.
Advoid where ever he goes in your class dont follow him around. Stay away from him as much as possible.
Hang out with other guys who you are comfortable with.
Make sure he's happy so you wont have to cheer him up if he knows that you dont like him.
Remember the more you see him the more you are going to rem-mem-ber special stuff or even more situations with him. So make sure hes not around.
As hard as to stop liking him just try but dont crush your heart for him. You cant help it that you like him, but if you really think that your relationship with him would never happen then you do just need to listen to yourself, and find some other guys to enter your life. Hope I helped! =D
♥ KASSIDY

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this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. what should i do?

Your brother is just doing his job of being a good nice bro. who is just protecting you also. As horrible as this sounds you need to tell your brother that you deserve this and is your fault, everyone makes mistakes but in life we cant lie or else it goes against us. If you let your brother take the blame for it, then yes you are going to be feeling bad etc. but its not right. Even though it could get you out of trouble. It was just an acident you did and explain that to your parents. They are probably going to freak out about it, but at least they know the honest truth. It will make them feel more comforted that you told them that. Just think if you were your parents and one of your other child lied to you and you didnt know but found out sooner or knew. Wouldn't you feel guilty? And maybe even more angry.
Remeber it was just an ACCIDENT.
SInce your brother already told your parents you need to have an honest discussion that you were the one. Because my mom always just asks me when ever we have done something terribly bad. "who did this" and we always have to answer. Ususally its me.
But you see the point I'm trying to make.? This is probably the most hardest thing ever but try to be as nice to your parents and understading as possible. They will see it was your fault. So let your nice brother off the hook and tell your parents it was you. It will make you feel better even if your parents do get extremely mad. Don't worry as long as you told your truth. I promise=]
Good luck with that!
Hope I helped!
♥ KASSIDY

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what does that mean??

it means that they are open to new opportunities, whatever comes their way.
♥ KASSIDY

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okay so i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half months. and i feel sooo bad about it. well hes 18 and im only 15. and i got this feeling that he was getting WAY to attached. so i told him that we should stop seeing eachother. the thing is is that hes gunna be moving to cali next yr and i told him that thats why we needed to brake up becuz i didnt want a huge breakup then. but in reality i found another guy who is gorgeous and amaazing to me. does this make me a horrible person?! please help.
thanks. :]

you did the right thing so please dont think you are a bad person because you are so not. its better to break off the relationship before it goes any further. it was the best thing you could do. because if you did it any later he would be probably heartbroken. =[ he would miss you even more when he moved to CA. you know long-distant things never work out. as hard as a choice you made, you followed your heart and thats what truely matters. dont feel bad about it....just think what if you did it right when he was ready to move? would you feel bad about it then? maybe so.
you have met a new guy and he sounds good for you so what I would do is to just go for that guy. forget your ex now hes all in the past. it will take some time though. right now you have a new cutie lol. focus on him!! =]
♥ KASSIDY

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ok, so im 14/f and theres this guy whos gonna ask me out tomorrow. hes my first bf, (gonna be), and how do i say yes??! also, what do we talk about in class, and how do i act?? thanks!

just say
yeah sure I would like to go out with you.
or just a simple clear yes would be good.
just talk about whatever, it doesnt really matter as long as its not boring. never say "what do you want to talk about?" always think of things before you speak. observe what is around you and talk about that. or ask him questions about him self to know that you are really interested in him. act yourself, CONFIDENT, he doesnt want to think your shy. act like you know how to be a good girlfriend to him. dont act dumb. just be who you are around your friends except treat him special since hes going to be your first bf. dont worry you will probably stress out about this being your frist boyfriend but you will get the hang of it. its completely natural. relax and dont forget to be happy!!
♥ KASSIDY

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"and everyone cried the night you died and i'm no good at suicide" can someone tell me what this is from?

OH MY GOSH that is my most favorite song ever its by:

nickelback- if everyone cared.

♥ KASSIDY

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hey.

well. tomorrow i have to present a social studies project
about a roman / greek topic & i just have to show the
class my shape sheet (just a picture of whatever you
are doing). & explain five facts about my project.

well i'm really not good in front of a class. i just get
really nervous & stutter.

how can i be more confident? i've already tried reading
it aloud in front of the mirror to myself, but that doesn't
seem to help.

thanks in advance.

aw dont worry about that. you dont really have to be nervous on a presentation. I mean everyone else has already done it right? or is going to. so why worry, they may feel the same way you do. what i do is try to stare at the wall when I'm talking and try to advoid the words like "um" etc. maybe just focus on looking at the teacher when you are presenting the project. it doesnt hurt to speak loudly to the class, plus it will make you feel more confident- even if you just do that. Know that you can do it. Take a deep breath to relax before you go up. remember to not even worry about being scared, just get that good grade with confidence!!
♥ KASSIDY

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