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Hes missing his chance
This guy led me on then decided at the last minute that he liked another girl. My friend. I know by fact that he is never going to get her so i want to make shure he knows what he missed out on by not going out with him. We dont really hang out much anymore, but i do hang out in his group sometimes because they are my friends as well. There is also going to be a party we both will be attending next week. How can i show him excatly what he missed out on?!
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have a lot of fun with your friends. make him jealous to show that really he has been missing out on you. if you act lonely and bored, or sad hes not going to be wanting to miss out on you. make him feel guilty that he isnt with you. show him that you are a fun person and that you really want to be with him. but when you show-off at the party dont ignore him, let him join in on the fun and then take it from there. dont forget to wear something that is bold and adorable.. like a great top with some nice jeans or something to make you feel comfortable and that can give you tons of compliments on. Make sure when you do it, make it look natural not too showy. He will eventually get it. Play hard to get 2. But once you know he's going to come to you, then let loose and have a great time at that party with him:)
♥ KASSIDY
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You know what?
I'm going through the EXACT same thing.
Here's what I did; and it DEFINITLY worked, by the way.
You go to that party.
You have fun.
You BRING ANOTHER GUY.
A guy friend of yours.
As evil as this may sound, honestly, it's not.
Trust me.
And you're not nescaecarily using your guy friend.
You're just having fun with him.
In front of this guy that you claim "has missed his chance"
And he definitly has.
I mean, seriously.
Apparently, as it sounds to me,
this guy is a pimp.
Or a loser.
You are OBVIOUSLY a sweet girl who just wants a sweet guy to care about them.
I mean, what girl DOESN'T want that?
I know I do.
But some guys just aren't worth it.
And as you think he is,
He's liking someone else WHILE giving YOU mixed emoitions on how you feel.
wtf.
Either he likes you or he DOESN'T.
He's trying to do both and that's not possible.
There's going to end up being a huge collision at the end.
So...
I suggest you "make him jealous" and make him see that you're definitly worth his time and that you can have fun and be the girl of his dreams.
He will be missing you within... ohh... I give it a couple dayss.
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Seriously.
He's an idiot and one of these days, you're gonna pop in his head and he's gonna regret EVERYTHING he's ever done negatively to you.
He'll wanna take it all back and wish that it was YOU he had liked instead of some girl he apparently will never have a chance with.
You're smart.
And you deserve wayy better.
I say you follow your heart.
Go with what your gut says.
Go with what you think feels right.
No.
Go with what you KNOW feels right.
If you doubt anything, it's probably not a good idea to go after it.
You should be sure of yourself.
And quit being so confused.
I mean, I know he is confusing you.
But don't let him.
If he did that to you, he obviously is confused about YOU so if you show him how secure and sure of yourself that you are, all of HIS confusion will disappear and he'll realize that the girl he's liked has been under his nose the entire time; he just never realized it.
I hate to be so harsh but...
You're what they call a "rebound girl".
I am too, don't worry.
A "rebound girl" situation occurs much like yours.
You like the guy, the guy likes you, the guy starts liking other girls, when the girls don't like the guy, the guy comes crawling back to you, the "rebound girl".
It's a stupid situation and VERY hard to get out of.
And the only way you can get out of it, EVEN IF YOU LIKE HIM VERRYYYY MUCH, is to turn him down.
Show him that you CAN live without him and you WILL if he doesn't man up and be SURE of himself for once.
I mean, how stupid can you get?
haha
But anyways,
I could write a book on the topic.
And I really do hope I helped you in ANY way and I'm extremely sorry if I didn't.
If you ever need to talk, you can always message me.
My myspace link is on my page and my AIM screen name is wtfkayluh1
So we can talk if you want.
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I love updates and would LOVE to hear about your situation and how it goes AFTERWARDS.
And see if it helped.
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kthnx.
Remember, I'm here if you need to talk.
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pretend you don't even know he's there. be yourself. try to make him jealous but not to a point that you look like a slut or that he knows your trying to make him jealous. just have fun and talk and dance with your friends. and when he finally comes around to realize he was wrong; you can write the ending on that ;)
hope this helped.
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when your @ the party, just be yourself. act like he isn`t even there. have fun && party.be wild and goofy. show him that your a fun person even without him.
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You could not be a bitch. But then again, being a bitch is part of being female
Okay, so to answer your question, I'd recommend wearing something revealing to the party, possibly a very mini, mini skirt. If you don't have one that small, wear whatever skirt you have and a thong beneath it. Make sure some guys, but not him, see your bare ass during the party.
If skirts aren't your thing, wear jeans with your thong sticking out 3 inches. This will make a lot of guys notice you.
Depending on how old you are here are a fwe things you can do
Under 13-talk to a guy
13-14, if you've already had your first kiss, make out with another guy.
15-16, hardcore makeout with another guy, let him feel you up
17+ if you're sexually active, screw someone
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i don't see why you have to..... would you give him another chance if he asked you out? if so then i may have a few ideas... but is he worth it in the first place leaving you like that last min???
second of all there is no way better than enjoying your time with ppl you like and enjoy that pisses a guy who likes off..... but at that point why do you car?!
go party like an animal you! i am sure there is many guys you can have fun with :))))
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What I would do? Look absolutely fabulous and flaunt it in his face, possibly with one of his best friends. Look as hot as possible and totally ignore him, but when he tries to talk to you, either tell him to shove off, or be so sweat that it drives him crazy. :]
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