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ok welll...one of my best friends(we will call her bob) hasnt really been talking to me lately then i was takling to my other friend(we will call her jo) today on the phone and she said that bob told her something and told me what it was...it kinda upset me that bob didnt tell me but she told jo...so i talked to bob and she said ya it was true and when i asked her y she didnt tell me she said well she didnt think i would want to hear...the thing is it had to do with one of the guys i have liked for a year and a half...and i told her a while ago that i hate guys right now because they are confusing so she said thats y she didnt want to tell me...because she didnt want to bring up guys yet she does anyway other guys i mean...i just felt really left out that bob wouldnt tell me because it turned out to be something that i should know...so we got in an argument and i dont think she is treating me like a true friend...i mean we are suppose to be best friends and she is not telling me things but she is telling our friend jo...who is in the wrong me or her??? (link)
I think that neither of you are in the wrong. i mean it was pretty lame how "bob" didnt tell you what she told "jo." but its one thing to make a scene of something that small. she might've thought about telling you later. but honestly i think she didnt tell you because she didnt want you to get upset about guys again. so that is kind of being a good friend because she doesnt want to see you unhappy. but truthfully i dont think its something to be getting into an argument about. and you were not in the wrong either because its normal to be upset about people not telling you things that you want to know about.

hope i helped


me and my best friends bro started dating and i accedently broke his necklace and he broke up with me an i love him every time i call my bff he ansers and i cant breath but weve been broken up for 2 months i say im sorry over and over again but he wont forgive me what do i do? (link)
i agree with this sillyrob person. hes obviously not worth it if he is getting mad over a necklace. i mean if you really love him you could just get him a new necklace. or you could make him one to show him hes worth your time. but your best bet is just finding someone else who doesnt get mad over stupid things like that.
hop i helped


hi im a 16/m and im starting to fall for this freshman girl..shes on my bus and i staretd iming hr last week.we have never talked in person and i want to so bad but i cant bring myself to say hey i feel like im gunna say something stupid i dont know why but i do...so ive imed her alot lately everyday pretty much...so should i continue to i/m her or no talk to her in person then continue...i also have her cell number she gave it to me for when we can hang out...so please help thanks in advance (link)
14/f
you should definitely start talking 2 her in person and online. try to make useful conversation about something you talked about online the night before. before you no it, you wont hav a problem talking 2to her and u guys will probably start hanging out.
hope this helped!
_kelly


okay i have this friend named kimberly
ever since she has been going out with this guy that i USE to like
she has been acting so stuck up
she is only in FIFTH GRADE for crying out loud
we don't need boyfriends
anyway
she only chases and tortures her boyfriend
and that is what she calls flirting
ew
weird
anywayy
i told her today at recess i dun wanna be her friend anymore
why?
because i dun like friends that forget all about their girlfriends
for a guy
so until she starts acting right
we can't be friends
she might call me this after noon
what should i say? (link)
say " uhmm who is this?" and if shes still being a snob say "ohhh the kimberly who totally 4got about me 4 a lousy boyfriend? well hmmm, until u realize what you HAD which was ME, dont talk 2 me....trust me...it works lyk a charm. she'll either feel guilty, or she'll cry, OR she'll say shes sorry and will either dump her boyfriend or just pay more attention to you.
hope it helped
14/f


This guy led me on then decided at the last minute that he liked another girl. My friend. I know by fact that he is never going to get her so i want to make shure he knows what he missed out on by not going out with him. We dont really hang out much anymore, but i do hang out in his group sometimes because they are my friends as well. There is also going to be a party we both will be attending next week. How can i show him excatly what he missed out on?! (link)
pretend you don't even know he's there. be yourself. try to make him jealous but not to a point that you look like a slut or that he knows your trying to make him jealous. just have fun and talk and dance with your friends. and when he finally comes around to realize he was wrong; you can write the ending on that ;)
hope this helped.


my girlfriends anorexic. she weighs 75 pounds and shes seventeen. i try to get her to eat but she always tells me to fuck off. you can pretty much see every freaking bone in her body. she looks like shes gonna drop over dead any day. i wanna help her but i dont know what to do. she always accuses me of hinking shes fat also. which isnt true everytime i see her i tell her she looks too thin and to eat something. what can happen to her body if she doesnt eat and only weighs 75 pounds? and alos how can i help her? thanks. (link)
well i used to know this girl who was in 9th grade and was always throwing out her lunches in school and never ate breakfast. me and some friends got concerned and told the guidance councilor. she went to the doctors and it turned out she was anorexic and only had 2 weeks to live. you have to get your girlfriend to eat anything she can. if shes only 75 pounds and shes 17 there is definitely something wrong. who knows, she can die any day if its like that. tell her you love her that much and your trying to help her. try taking her to the doctor almost every month to check her weight and the doctors recommendations.
hope this helped !
-kelly




my hair is naturally straight.
and i have trouble scrunching my hair and keeping it scrunched.
can someone help? (link)
after u get out of the shower, (say its at night) scrunch u hair for a while and put gel and/or hairspray in it. then you put it in a messy bun so it will stay scrunched. my friend had the same problem and it works for her.
hope it helps !


14/f well just yesterday my bf dumped me..this is how it went. We were online and lately he hasnt been talking to me and seemed really quiet.i asked him if he still loved me. hes like ive cheated on you since last saturday.i was like but do u love me and hes like of course not i cheated on you, you stupid little ass bitch and just left..but there is more to the story..does anyone wanna give me advice. ill tell you the rest if someone kind enough is willing to give me advice.

heartbroken girl...
ps i have AIM if some one wants to chat on there. (link)
Ok this guy definitely isn't worth it if he would talk like that to you. i say screw it. there are better and more respectful guys out there for you. keep looking. you'll find him somewhere.

14/f




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