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who is in the wrong me or her
ok welll...one of my best friends(we will call her bob) hasnt really been talking to me lately then i was takling to my other friend(we will call her jo) today on the phone and she said that bob told her something and told me what it was...it kinda upset me that bob didnt tell me but she told jo...so i talked to bob and she said ya it was true and when i asked her y she didnt tell me she said well she didnt think i would want to hear...the thing is it had to do with one of the guys i have liked for a year and a half...and i told her a while ago that i hate guys right now because they are confusing so she said thats y she didnt want to tell me...because she didnt want to bring up guys yet she does anyway other guys i mean...i just felt really left out that bob wouldnt tell me because it turned out to be something that i should know...so we got in an argument and i dont think she is treating me like a true friend...i mean we are suppose to be best friends and she is not telling me things but she is telling our friend jo...who is in the wrong me or her???
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I think that neither of you are in the wrong. i mean it was pretty lame how "bob" didnt tell you what she told "jo." but its one thing to make a scene of something that small. she might've thought about telling you later. but honestly i think she didnt tell you because she didnt want you to get upset about guys again. so that is kind of being a good friend because she doesnt want to see you unhappy. but truthfully i dont think its something to be getting into an argument about. and you were not in the wrong either because its normal to be upset about people not telling you things that you want to know about.
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I think that she should have told you honestly. if shes your best friend there shouldn't be secrets... I think you should tell her how you feel, and make it clear that she can tell you anything, even if you might not want to hear it, just tell her you feel bad that she didn't come to you. :)
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