hi im a 16/m and im starting to fall for this freshman girl..shes on my bus and i staretd iming hr last week.we have never talked in person and i want to so bad but i cant bring myself to say hey i feel like im gunna say something stupid i dont know why but i do...so ive imed her alot lately everyday pretty much...so should i continue to i/m her or no talk to her in person then continue...i also have her cell number she gave it to me for when we can hang out...so please help thanks in advance
JesusFreak2006 answered Thursday May 17 2007, 5:53 pm: well first see if she is interested in you before making a move...next time your online don't IM her, wait till she IM's you...if she does IM you its a really good sign..so when she does IM you the next time...tell her to save you a spot on the bus next to her, now the next time you get on the bus find where is she sitting and pretend not to notice, hopefully she will get your attention and tell her to sit by her....that way you can start a conversation....bring up something you talked online about or anything you really want..
I think talking in person is the way to go but its always great to play it safe and find out if the girl is interested in you before investing to much energy into a future relationship...I wouldnt call her especcially if you dont know what to say to her in person..over the phone things could just get more awkward [ JesusFreak2006's advice column | Ask JesusFreak2006 A Question ]
DANiELLExJ0ANNE answered Thursday May 17 2007, 5:49 pm: just try talking to her in person, try to get closer to her and then when the time is right ask her to hangout, or maybe go out sometime over the weekend. you can try texting her cellphone saying you want to hangout this weekend. just don't act nervous, then she will. [ DANiELLExJ0ANNE's advice column | Ask DANiELLExJ0ANNE A Question ]
totallyxrad answered Thursday May 17 2007, 5:39 pm: im a girl and i can tell you that the girl is somewhat interested in you. You need to talk to her in person, she is just waiting for you to make the first move since you are the guy. Alot of girls do this now. So, just say hi to her when you see her and talk to her on the bus and stuff. Once you do it, it will get easier and easier to talk to her and may eventually start a relationship!
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