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my name's danielle & i'm 16 years old. i live in orlando, florida. i like shopping, movies, music, fashion, art, hanging out w/ friends & giving advice :)
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My homecoming is coming up in a few weeks and I want to get my dress before everyone else starts getting theres so I have a good selection.

I'm about 5"4 or 5"5, 100 lbs, (so I am pretty skinny I guess), and I'm 14. Blue is my best color so I'm typically looking for a dress that color and will fit me. Also, I dont want it like much past the my knees, and not too crazy or anything. I dont really want dresses from DEB or JCPenny beause wayyy too many people get their dresses there at least here and I dont want to have the same dress as anyone.

I'm not too big on ordering anything online because I don't want to have to go through the trouble of ordering it and getting it and especially if it didn't fit or look good or something.


LONG STORY SHORT =
Can you help me look at some dresses for homecoming? What I look like and am looking for is in the 2nd paragraph. Thanks =) (link)
hmmm okay well you just kinda have to look around at different stores around you but here are some you can try,

macys
lord and taylor
nordstrom
bloomingdales
betsey johnson


hi :D
i need more clothes
im kinda into leggings, cute colorful shirts, neon colors, flats, etc etc.
where can i get that kinda clothing besides at hot topic, delias, zumies, etc.
oh and im not that skinny
size 14 in jeans
thanks a bunch. (link)
try
wetseal
joyce leslie
alloy
579
forever 21
pacsun
hollister
abercrombie
aeropostale
american eagle

for shoes you can try macys or journeys they always have cute flats
hope i helped


I was wondering what you could do or use to hide your tampons in school, like how to discreetly take them from class to class just in case. Because I live in fear of what will happen if I don't... :S

Any ideas? (link)
carry a purse or bag around with you,
keep extra tampons in there and a pad just incase
thats what i do
i always carry an extra pad with me no matter what in the bottom of my bag that i always carry around. if you dont carry around bags then keep them in your locker in like a regular backpack, keep them in a pencil case or anything else you carry around

good luck!


I just feel really down and my aunt is so rude to me and I never defend myself and I'm just feeling down.

can anyone motivate me or help make me feel good about ymself and try to motivate me to stand up to her?

She calls me and my siblings fat when we're a size zero and the skiniest ones in my class and she makes fun of our clothes when we're one of the mos stylish girls in school! (link)
okay well like the other people said below me your aunt is verbally abusive. You and your siblings are obviously not fat if youre a size zero. even if you were a size 5 your still not fat! shes probably just mad because she never looked as good as you girls do now. about the clothes, who cares what she thinks its your clothes, your style. obviously you and your aunt arent going to like the same thing, she still shouldnt say anything to you guys though. shes your aunt and thats mean. you should tell your parents about it so they can talk to her and tell your aunt that she is hurting you and your siblings. when youre around family you should feel comfortable, not always being put down!
you could say to her, "can i see a picture of you when you were my age so i can see what you looked like." "well i like the way i look" "i love the outfits i wear, so it doesnt matter if you dont like them" just remember dont be rude to her because even though shes very rude to you, you should still not be too mean to her. just say what you feel and tell her to stop putting you down all the time.

hope i helped :)


Is there any possible way i can fix this problem with out any funds? I heared of peeing on your hands and i am going to try that but does anybody else have any ideas? Thanks for the help people! (link)
yeah, i dont know about peeing on your hands either but i've heard of using hand sanitizer. keep a little bottle of hand sanitizer in your pocket, car, bag whatever and when you feel them getting sweaty use a little!

good luck


i babysit alot and sometimes i run out of stuff to do with them Please tell me some games or ect. to do with them thankz (link)
i babysit too for my cousins twice a week, a girl, 2 and boy, 4 and it's pretty tough to keep them occupied. heres what i do with them, if its nice i'll take them outside play on the swing set, play catch with a ball, let my cousin who's 4 ride his bike on the cement they have in the back yard, while i play with the 2 year old on the grass. if it is not nice outside i'll keep them inside, watch movies or their favorite cartoons. they like to watch, dora the explorer, spongebob, bob the builder, little bear and stuff on nickelodeon & disney. the girl likes to play with dolls, and barbies. the boy plays with trains, cars, tool set, and those kinda things. so with me i always switch to keep them both occupied. but for you it depends girl/boy, and age. just remember do what they wanna do so they stay happy and occupied. just basically play anything they have in the house, catch with a ball, board games or watch movies.

good luckkkk :)
hope i helped!!!!!


ok
where can i get pretty cheap shirts with funny sayings on them?
haha
not like hollister or anything, cause those ones arent that funny.
just something amusing
that will attract attention
haha
thanks in advace
:] (link)
hmm you can try
target
walmart
macys
jcpennys
delias
american eagle
forever 21
mandee

*look around stores in the mall near you i'm sure they'll have logo tees with saying on them!

good luck, hope i helped
:)


Does anyone know any good teen book series?? I'm into these generes-

- mystery
-fashion/girly
-adventure
-comedy like

so any good TEEN book series that fit those descriptions? I've heard of the Clique series, and I would also like opinions on those. Thank you all very much (link)
i read the clique series last year and i loved it. each book was really good. all together i think there is 6 or 7 books, you need to read them in order though for them to make sense! these books are about 5 girls who become friends and are the most popular girls in school. the girls are in the 8th grade and are very into gashion they wear all designed stuff & everything. tover all the books were really good.

this year i read the A-List series thats also another good series thats about 8 books i think. the situations in the a list books are a little more mature then the clique so it depends how old you are. in the a list series the girls are 17 years old, that is why the situations are more mature then the clique series because the girls are all older. some of the books in this series are mystery not the whole book but certain situations.

i'm now starting to read the gossip girl series i heard it was good. and i'm sure its like the other series because they are all recommended for teen girls. idk how many books though

hope i helped, enjoy your reading all books are really good :)


how do you separate like colours? does it have to be just one type of colour? or like tones or colours? so dark and light or exactly red like colours, and blue light colours? i have no idea! (link)
heres how i do mine..

separate into 4 things, whites, lights, darks, towels.

WHITES; all white teeshirts, tanks, shorts, undies, socks, sweatshirts, basically anything plain white!! no off whites, or anything with something written on it. *use bleach if everything is ALL white

LIGHTS; light pink, blue, green, light grey, anything white with designs on it, bras, colored undies or socks, anything basicallly LIGHT colored!!!!

DARKS; blacks, navys, purple, dark grey, dark green & bright colors, such as bright yellow or pink. shirts, shorts, pants, pajamas, whatever!!! sweatshirts can also go in here

TOWELS; this is simple, just towels! NO BLEACH UNLESS ALL TOWELS ARE WHITE!


*** some tips
- dont use bleach unless everythings white,
- dont forget to hang up all clothes after washing,
- use dryer for towels, sheets, stretchy tanks or shirts, undies, socks, big sweatshirts, pjs and anything that WONT shrink!!!!

good luck!!!!!!!!


19/f
soo my roommates birthday is this week, and i wanted to decorate the door and get some little things for her. any ideas? (link)
you can go to party city and get some happy birthday banners to hangout around the room, you can get some balloons, tie them around her bed, a chair, etc. party city has a lot of birthday things that you could decorate the room. You can also get a cake and invite a few friends over on her birthday night.

as in a gift it depends how close you are,
if your best friends you'll get more if your just friends then a little less. you can get her a gift certificate to one of her favorite stores, starbucks, borders, you can get her some books if shes into reading, some clothes if you know her style, a pocket book, maybe something else she has said shes wanted in the past. & dont forget a card :)

hope i helped, goood luck!


Can someone please help me find knee length leggings like the girl in the first picture has at an inexpensive price

links would be great

thanks (link)
hollister
abercrombie
h&m
delias
urban outfitters
target
walmart
macys
jc pennys

really every store has them you just have to loook


Ok, so i just started another year of school and Im really hoping to make some new friends. Especially friends that are guys! How do I start talking to them? I can't just wak up and talk to them! So i need help with how to do it and what to say. (link)
honestly thats what your gonna need to do.
when your in class, try to sit next to someone you wanna become friends with and just talk to them about whatever, after a while you'll be talknig more and become better friends! if you dont have any classes w/ people you wanna become friends with talk to them in the hall or on the computer and make plans to meet somewhere in school

good luckkkk :)


hi.. does anyone know of ways to please my boyfriend? i want to blow his mind tonight. (link)
check google!!!!


well skools starting soon and i need to start sleeping early
any tips of how to fall asleep faster
i kno this might sound stupid
but when icant sleep
you dont kno
i just cant
so i need help
thanks bye ill rate! (link)
you can try watching tv for about an hour before you go to sleep to get you a little tired, then just keep closing your eyes and hopefully that'll work. try listening to music to help you fall asleep. dont drink coffee or soda before you go lay down that'll keep you awake. lay down about an hour before you actually want to be asleep so your not up to late. so lets say you want to be asleep by 11, lay down in bed by 10.

gooood luck!


Hi I'm 27 weeks pregnant with a girl. Her first name is going to be Riley but I need help coming up with a middle name. There are so many names that go good with it but me and my boyfriend can't seem to agree on any. Any suggestions? Please no stupid answers. (link)
CONGRATULATIONS :)
Riley is a pretty name!

here are some suggestions;
Riley Anne
Riley Taylor
Riley Nicole
Riley Samantha
Riley Alexandra
Riley Taylor
Riley Marie
Riley Emily
Riley Michele
Riley Megan
Riley Erin
Riley Stephanie
Riley Karen
Riley Christine
Riley Candace

*also google popular girl names and it will be a whole list of hundreds of names and give you a lot of names to work with!

GOOD LUCK!!!!
i wish you the best :)
let us know the name you choose!


how do you kiss with braces,

like i herd if you have them you can cut peoples lips and stuff like that, but how do you prevent that


and does haveing braces effect making out?
if so what can i do to avoid it (link)
i have braces too. and it does not affect kissing. When you kiss you dont put your teeth on their lips both mouths are open. So braces really dont have an effect. When youre about to kiss someone, just dont worrry about it and everything will come natural. dont put too much pressure on yourselve and be calm once you start kissing it will all come to you.

gooood luck


Ima junior and im still not sure what i want to do in life. Is that weird? I dont exactally have a love or desire to do anything, nor have i put much thought into it. I dont know if im gonna go to college, is that bad? What am i gonna do after high school? I know its all up to me but im totaly clueless. My parents dont encourage me to go to college and it kind of puts me down. It makes me feel like they know i cant do it or something. advice please! (link)
I know a lot of juniors that have no idea what they want to do after high school. You should definatly go to college and try different classes and see what you like and what you would want to major in. If you like art take art classes to be an artist or an art teacher. If you like children go to school to be a teacher. it all depends on what you like to do. and about your parents, dont worry about it if you want to go to college then go. They might not be saying anything about it so they dont put too much pressure on you. good luck :) hope i helped


14/f
i shave my armpits but i have a lot of lines.
there not smooth at all!
i shave in the shower just with water.
any suggestions? (link)
you can try shaving cream,
plain soap,
or conditioner

after you get out of the shower put lotion on your underarms to make them more smoothe!

good luck


okay so i shop at hollister, and a lot of the shirts have been getting mysterious stains on the shoulder area. not the armpit. and its really wierd, and they dont wash out. has this ever happened to anyone? what did you do? ahh
thanks ;) (link)
i shop at hollister too but this has never happened to me. you can try bringing in the shirts that have stained , they might take them back but then they might not because they are worn you just have to try. If you dont want to return them you can put soap on a facecloth and rub the stain, press hard and see if that works. after you put soap on the stain soak it in water in the sink. also try stain removers like shout!

hope you get them out!!!


i don't have access to the gym and where i live it almost rains all year round so running outside is not exactly an option... is there any thing i could do in the comfort of my room that would act as a good workout? i'm 5,4 150 lbs (i know ... sooo out of shape) the fat is focused on my midriff and butt and upper thighs. basically i'm what you'd call pear-shaped... also i need to change my eating habits. i basically eat anything that's ready in the fridge or chocolate bars on my way to class from a nearby gas station.... no one cooks and i hate the kitchen and cooking and doing dishes.... (link)
first try eating healthier, such as fruits as a snack. even substitute popcorn or pretzels for potatoe chips & candy. thats better.

If you can not go jogging in your house you can do jumping jacks, crunches and work your ab muscles, you can try doing pushups, and different exercises to work different muscles.

goood luck!




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