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hey what up my names beckii =] im from east haven. i have blondeish brown hair and blue eyes. im 4'11 .. yeah i know im a shorty =] i like to get my nails done; chill wit my girls; party; go online; get my hair done and color it; if you want to know anything just ask me and im always here to help =] peace

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I have questions about Congenital heart defects
Like how does it affects a child physically and mentally? And how is detected?

Some babies and children with heart defects experience no symptoms. The heart defect may be diagnosed if the doctor hears an abnormal sound, referred to as a murmur. Children with normal hearts also can have heart murmurs. These are called "innocent" or "functional" murmurs. A physician may suggest tests to rule out a heart defect.

Certain heart defects prevent the heart from pumping adequate blood to the lungs or other parts of the body. This can cause congestive heart failure. An affected child may experience a rapid heartbeat and breathing difficulties, especially during exercise (or in infants, during feeding—sometimes resulting in inadequate weight gain). Swelling of the legs or abdomen or around the eyes also may occur.

Some heart defects result in a pale grayish or bluish coloring of the skin (called cyanosis), usually appearing soon after birth or during infancy. On occasion, it may be delayed until later in childhood. It is a sign of defects that prevent the blood from getting enough oxygen. Children with cyanosis may tire easily. Symptoms such as shortness of breath and fainting often worsen when the child exerts himself. Some youngsters may squat frequently to ease their shortness of breath.

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hi. i am decorating a t-shirt for halloween that says happy halloween on the front and i already know what i want on the back but i dont know what else to put on the front besides happy halloween...
keep in mind its for work...i am a server at ihop...and we are able to wear halloween shirts...
anyone have any ideas for what else i can put on the front?
thanks!

draw a ghost or a mummy =] something like that

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My friend played a joke on me and I know she was kidding..but I took it too seriously.I yelled at her in class..and then she was trying to talk to me after school but I ignored her and got in my car..I feel so horrible but I'm still mad..What should I do?

let her know she hurt you and just talk to her... you wont be mad forever =]

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okay...this may seem strange but it feels like all my friends are turning on me...I had my 13th birthday party on sunday and invited 20 of my clostest firends to my house and well sunday came and only 12 showed up...these ppl i know have to be my rly clostest firends but here are the reasons for why most of them couldnt come

Me: hey maria are you coming to my party on sunday
Maria: no sorry i cant because im grounded
Me: oh so you arent going to Karissas the day befroe?
Maria: oh well i can go to that one and that one only


If you think that ones bad listen to these...

Chelsey: gotta do my homework! i have WAY to much homework

Lindsay: Sorry Sam my mom wont let me cause i didnt do all my homework yet

Karissa: my mom wont let me cause i didnt do my homework yet

Rachel F: i cant because i have too much homework

SPECIAL NOTE: all the ppl above cept maria slept over karissas house after her party and the best thing is WE DIDNT HAVE ANY HOMEWORK!!!


please help me ill rate 5's unless the advice is mean

you should talk to them and ask them why they lied to you and if they said they didnt you know their lieing because there was no homework! and if their gonna be like that them be like that to them theyll come around and want to chill wit you and do what they did to u say you have homework =] xo bekkee

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f/14....is it normal to get "wet" when your boyfriend makes out with you? a little bit of touching below the neck but not past the stomach?

yepp its normal =]

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my boyfriend had a scare about his testicles and found out from test results that he's fine, he has now got it in his head that there's something wrong with every part of his body he thinks he's got cancer and tests have proved he hasn't he keeps asking me if he's fine and has done for the past 4 weeks i love him so much and feel as though it's wrecking our relationship. he's never had a longterm relationship this is his first. what can i do to help him get it out his head? i'm trying to stay strong for him but it's stressful for me especially as we have a 10month old baby please help

i think hes a hypocondeact. thats when you think theres somthing wrong with you all the time. i one too but i got a little better. he should see a doctor about it

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i have a group of good friends. this is the 3rd time that me and my friend were left out of a sleepover. we havent been invited to one. we seem to all be very close but it puzzles me how its the same girls having sleepovers while me and her are left out. is this shady to you? what should we do? is this messed up..am i overreacting..should we just accept that somee people in the 'crew' will be closer to some than others? any feedback and/or personal experiences is appreciated

i think you should ask them why they be having sleepovers and leaving you two out. and if that doesnt work if i were you id have my own sleepover and not invite them
xo becca

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What are some good ways to keep a cat from scratching you??? I REALLY NEED TO KNOW! it's on a test tomorrow...! Thanks

cut its nails

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i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good.

its like 99 % that you wont get pregent and like slim to none that you wont

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when i get my period there are dark red goey blobs in my pad is that normal?

ill rate

they are blood clots and they are normal =]

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i havent had sex and i dont masterbate, but i have a bump not alot, just one, on my pubic hair area. i dont know what it is or why its there but i noticed it the other day and its kinda iches. does anyone know what it is?

it could be a zite, a mole or a ingrown hair or it could be a bug bite.

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i want alot of honest opinions on these 2 questions.
1)what do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13? Had another bf when she was 14 then had sex with another guy (cheated on her bf) she barely knows the 2nd time they hung out together?

2)what do you consider a guy that screws a girl he hardly knows the 2nd date, knowing she has a bf?? will rate 5s for honesty!!

LISTEN BITCH DONT BE TALKIN TO ME LIKE YOU KNOW ME CUZ YOU DONT KNOW SHIT SO LICK MY MOTHERFUCKING PUSSY BITCH

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Ok so I recently got prescribed the patch, and I was wondering... Is it necessary for my partner to pull out before ejaculation?

I'm not sure how/if I need to elaborate on this... I'll just add to it if the question isn't clear.

Thanks,

x

i think you should be wearing a condom because the patch doesnt help agianst STDS. but if you not going to wear one then yeah it might be safer if he pulls out

hope i helped =]
xo beckii

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arlight.. I was just curious..how can you really tell the difference between spotting and your period? my boyfriend& I are sexualy active..we always use a condom..and I was just put on birth control a few days ago. I'm using Estrostep, and doing the one day starter, meaning I started taking the pill the day I got my period& so forth. I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative..but I know they aren't 100% accurate..also, there is only alot of blood when I wake up in the morning, but during the day there's barely any..

1. am I spotting from the birth control or is it just a really light flow because of the birth control?

2. how can you tell the main difference between a really light flow and spotting? would spotting just be little drops?

sorry this was long:D thanks in advance!

i think your just having a longer period the birth control shouldnt have anything to do with it and you shouldnt be bleeding that much when your laying down you should be bleeding less. i think if your still bleeding in a couple of days you should talk to a doctor

hope i helped =]
beckii xo

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i'm 15 & female, and i think i have a problem, this may be a little long, but i promise i rate high for good answers. I lost my virginity when i was 14, yes i know a little young, please don't lecture. but it was my boyfriend & mine's first time. after that we ended up having sex 7-8 times, within 7 months. but for some reason, i couldn't ever get an orgasm? sometimes, i had to even fake it, just because i was afraid he was waiting too long. i just figured that maybe he was finishing too early or something? But then him & i break up, and i get a new boyfriend, to whom i've had sex with twice. and he knows that my old boyfriend never got me an orgasm so he tries, so hard. and we even last 2 hours, yet he can never get me one either? sometimes i think it's because of the way i masturbate. i can't seem to get an orgasm by fingering myself, but by only rubbing really fast. i don't know if something is wrong with me? is there anything that i can do, to help me get one faster? please help!

i have that same problem ! i can never get one either untill i sleep with this guy who i was totally in love with and i had one =] i know alot of my friends cant get one either maybe u should tell them to rub you before they do it or you should do it while your having sex. or maybe if you think about it really hard it will happen =] i dont know thats what guys do. i hope i helped xo

bekkee

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k well, every guy i go out with i really like him and what ever, well, i have this issue, ive gone out with most of them for at least a month, and every time they ask me to do something with them, or hang out, or come to their house, i always make up a lame freaking excuse, i hate it, the one guy im going out with right now, i like him so much, i seriously think im in love with him this is our second time going out, and he always askes me to go to his house, and i always make up an excuse, i guess im afraid of whats he gunnah think about me, because i mean, im not pretty. at least not to me. i mean i have random people come up to me and theyll be like awe your so gorgeous, i dont think i am, im really self concious because i have ache. like so freaking self concious about it. can anyone help me like.. figure out why im self concious, i mean i wannah figure out why i keep doing this, i wannah spend time with my boyfriend so bad, but i keep stopping myself.
=/ anyone thinks they can help me?

well i think your nervous about whats gonna happen if you go there. like what hes gonna wanna do with you and ur gonna be afraid to say no. i dont know if thats the reason why u dont wanna go there but i think it is. i hope i helped you =]

xo beckii

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