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i'm 15 & female, and i think i have a problem, this may be a little long, but i promise i rate high for good answers. I lost my virginity when i was 14, yes i know a little young, please don't lecture. but it was my boyfriend & mine's first time. after that we ended up having sex 7-8 times, within 7 months. but for some reason, i couldn't ever get an orgasm? sometimes, i had to even fake it, just because i was afraid he was waiting too long. i just figured that maybe he was finishing too early or something? But then him & i break up, and i get a new boyfriend, to whom i've had sex with twice. and he knows that my old boyfriend never got me an orgasm so he tries, so hard. and we even last 2 hours, yet he can never get me one either? sometimes i think it's because of the way i masturbate. i can't seem to get an orgasm by fingering myself, but by only rubbing really fast. i don't know if something is wrong with me? is there anything that i can do, to help me get one faster? please help!
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If by 'fingering' you mean inserting a finger into yourself, then it's really common to not be able to have orgasms from that. Rubbing your clitoris is often the easiest and most common way to orgasm. There's nothing wrong with you, so relax.
One thing you can do is explain to your boyfriend what women like - and that it's rare for a female to be able to orgasm through regular sex alone. Many require a guy (or herself!) to touch her clitoris, or to give oral sex before or after sex. There are different positions that can also help, as the G Spot can also help women orgasm.
The most basic thing to remember is to relax: you aren't alone or weird. You're perfectly normal. Show your boyfriend what you like, and hopefully that will help.
Being stressed about pregnancy, not feeling ready for sex, being worried about orgasming - all these things can make sex less than perfect.
Best of luck.
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A lot of women can't have orgasms from sexual intercourse. A lot of women don't have them at all. Don't try so hard to have an orgasm through sex because it's probably not going to happen, it may, but it's unlikely. What you should do is "rub really fast" (or have your bf do it) while you're having sex so you can have an orgasm at the same time. This will be very satisfying for you. Make sure that you're using protection too. Good luck.
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Well Why Do U Wont A Orgasm At Age 15??
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i have that same problem ! i can never get one either untill i sleep with this guy who i was totally in love with and i had one =] i know alot of my friends cant get one either maybe u should tell them to rub you before they do it or you should do it while your having sex. or maybe if you think about it really hard it will happen =] i dont know thats what guys do. i hope i helped xo
bekkee <3
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Ok, well first off, its been medically proven that women don't orgasm everytime they have sex. But since you have had sex several times, you should have orgasmed. Honestly I would see a doctor but I can't see how if you are soo young and I assume your parents don't know. All I can ask is do you think having sex is ok, because sometimes girls subconciously don't let themselves oragasm because they think something is wrong or they don't like the guy or they think having sex early or just having sex is wrong. Maybe you can tell me a little more and I can see if I can help. Best of luck
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thats because they probably not doing foreplay.that gets your juices going and your more sexually excited.or if he does use foreplay then hes not getting you in the right spot.let him go down on you and then maybe youll have an orgasm.
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hey. well many women do not get an orgasm just by having sex. in fact, i think more than 70% of women dont. however, more women DO orgasm when a guy performs oral sex on them. so nothing is wrong with you. =)
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