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my boyfriend had a scare about his testicles and found out from test results that he's fine, he has now got it in his head that there's something wrong with every part of his body he thinks he's got cancer and tests have proved he hasn't he keeps asking me if he's fine and has done for the past 4 weeks i love him so much and feel as though it's wrecking our relationship. he's never had a longterm relationship this is his first. what can i do to help him get it out his head? i'm trying to stay strong for him but it's stressful for me especially as we have a 10month old baby please help
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he's being crazy, flat out. he's become a hypochondriac. you should probably ask a doctor about it, or you could tell him that there's a huge lump on the back of his neck... let him go through his paces and see what a jackass he is at the end of it.
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I think he has a phobia of having something wrong with him at all times. Be patient with him. Explain to him calmly that hes perfectly fine. But before you do that go to a doctor to prove to him he has a phobia, and see what the doctor says.
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This was a very scary moment in his life. Be patient with him. It is going to take him a while to get over this. He had what he considers a close call. If he needs to talk about it let him. I realize it is getting old, but 4 weeks is not that long ago. Cancer can't live in an alkaline body. If he cuts down on eating processed sugary foods and starts eating whole organic foods he can develop an atmosphere w/in his body that would be uncomfortable for cancer to thrive there. I have included some web sites for you to research this on. If you give him some positive things he can do to change his situation he will feel more secure and won’t feel like it is out of his control. If you help him gain control of his health he will be more confindent and less scared. His fear of the unkown is one reason why he has to talk about it so much.
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i think hes a hypocondeact. thats when you think theres somthing wrong with you all the time. i one too but i got a little better. he should see a doctor about it
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Congrats on the baby first off and you just have to try and keep him calm and makes sure he gets monthly checkups or every other month check ups just to make sure he understands theres nothing wrong with him! im sure hell be fine!
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I know it is hard to have a relationship with someone who has a phobia about having something wrong with them. I dont think there is a way to stop it but maybe if you kept him occupied so he didnt think about it. Take him out or have him hang out with some friends more oftewn. If he continues to think this way and his kid hears hikm that child is seriously going to think that something is wrong with him. If you support him and continue to tell he is fine then he will eventually believe it himself. If someone loves you and you love them then they would trust you know matter what right? Tell him to trust you as your g/f and as the mother of his child.
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