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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I need to figure out what to get him. In his myspace he has a picture of a giraffe ( I don't know he's just random like that ) anyways, above it hes like," my birthdyas coming up, get me this " i know he's like joking, but do you think it'd be kinda funny or something if i actually got him it? Haha.. I have no idea. It's my first boyfriend I dunno how to shop for them lol. He also was joking around once and was like," Get me a red mercedes with black interior and booming music " so I was thinking about getting him a little hot rods car. I don't know. Does it sound to cutesy? If it does, can you possible suggest some other ideas? Thank you so much.
p.s. We've been dating for..2 weeks now. And by the time his birthday comes, it'll be 4 weeks and something days. Please help, once again, thank you so much
hey well since you guys havent been dating long im sure he'd just love anything from you. Both ideas sound funny so just pick your favorite and depending on money price item and buy that and then make a lil card for him!
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Im good at giving advice, but when it comes to my problems its alittle harder. Theres this boy, hes one grade unger me(hes a soph and im a junior) and me and him were hookin up, I found out he was still hooking up with his ex, and I was stupid and gave him another chance, it happened again, and now we dont even associate anymore, but for some reason I cant get over him. I try to show off in front of him in school, and try to take the ways I would see him. Why is it so hard for me to get over him? Im just so confused and I dont know what to do. Please help...
Its always gonna be hard to get over someone that you like so much that you couldnt imagine them with another person! Its gonna take some major time and if things dont work out for the better you should try to talk to him. It toom me over a year to get over someone that i cared about and was with for a long time but eventually i was okay to talk to him again and things recently became better between our friendship. I hoped i helped!
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Ok...i wrote to yall earlier this week about me and my ex being friends and how i was confused about what he meant by everything he was telling me...well yesterday i was in the libary during my break from skool and when i got dun i was leaving and when i turned the corner we ran smack into eachother and he gave me a big huge and it was just srtange and tonite we are going to hang out. should i do anything when im there and the hug thing threw me off so please help me! Thanks!!!
Hey how long have you been seperated? and who broke up with who. depending on the situation he may be tryin just to be nice if its been a long time and he broke up with u. If its been a short time and you broke up with him he may have feelings about you still! i hope i helped!
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my boyfriend had a scare about his testicles and found out from test results that he's fine, he has now got it in his head that there's something wrong with every part of his body he thinks he's got cancer and tests have proved he hasn't he keeps asking me if he's fine and has done for the past 4 weeks i love him so much and feel as though it's wrecking our relationship. he's never had a longterm relationship this is his first. what can i do to help him get it out his head? i'm trying to stay strong for him but it's stressful for me especially as we have a 10month old baby please help
Congrats on the baby first off and you just have to try and keep him calm and makes sure he gets monthly checkups or every other month check ups just to make sure he understands theres nothing wrong with him! im sure hell be fine!
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Okay well, I like this Boy named jonathan. But I am afraid to ask him out. What if he says no or somthing . Well the most basic thing is that I am really shy and dont know what to say to them. umm. like what I say I have his phone number or I can talk to him at school but what should i say to him??? Please help if you give me a good answer then I will give you a rating so if you want your rating to go up you can answer this seriously and I will for sure give you a five is if it's good advice
hey well first off are you friends with this boy honathan!!? cuz if your not you first need to get to know him better and get his number so you can talk over the phone and then eventually move into more serious things! i hope i helped!
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I am extremely lonely. I feel as though there is no one left for me. I recently stoped talking to my "crush" because everything changed romanticly between us. I feel as though in my town, there is no one new, everyone has someone, and all the good ones are taken. I hate this feeling. I hate being lonely, I hate `seeing all these couples in school and having no one.
Dont worry hun you'll find him someday in the most unexpected way probably! thats how i met my current boyfriend and i love him to death! i hope you have as good as luck as i did! Much love!
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Hi,
well I am still in love with my x boyfriend lets just say his name is Harrison, and he told all my current x boyfriends that if they did anything to hurt me that he would hurt them very badly, or if they got me pergnet that he would hunt them down and hurt them even harder, but I aint going to get pergnet, but dose that mean he is still in love with me??? we both really like and miss each other and we only live 4 to 5 hours away from each other, can ya just give me any advice if is still in love with me or not???
he even has been trying to get a hold of my friends telling them that he misses me alot!!! and I have alot of strong feelings for him, but I am just wanting to know if he is still in love with me??? Please give me some advice....
It sounds like he may be still in love with you but you never kno until you guys hang out again! Sometimes first loves never die so good luck and i hoped i helped!
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Well there is this girl who likes me and turns out i like her to. We have only known each other for bout a month or a month and a half. I was actually talking to anther friend of mine and my friend lived with her a for little whil, And this girl wanted to talk to me. So we talked and it was quite intersting. Then here lately we been talking a good bit, we talked from like 10:30pm saturday til bout 4:00am. And I really want to go out with her but i got a few things that i think i ought to deal with as far as people before we do though. We aint actually going out yet but we sit there and say i love you like we do, And mean it in more than just a friendship way. My question is do you think i ought to go ahead and go out with her or get the few things as far as people took care of before i go out with her.
you need to get your problem fixed before going out with her so everythings perfect! hope i helped!
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I am really shy around guys but I think I come off as standoffish. I don't mean to be shy...I just can't ever think of anything to say. Is this why guys don't like me?
Some guys are turned off by people that are shy around them so you might want to try and be more open. this is gonna take some time but eventually will come. even if you dont know what to say just make small talk! talk bout animals, parents, sisters, brothers, exc. I hoped I helped!
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ok, my names danielle and im 13/f. theres this boy i like in a prep course i go to, his names daniel (lol). someone in his class read my xanga and read an entry that said i liked him, and she told him. he wasnt sure which danielle it was so he asked me for my last naem and i told him and then he smirked and left. today at the prep course, he was walking with me on teh way to class and told me that he knew i liked him. he didnt act weird or anything, but when we went through a tight dorrway, he tried to squeeze through with me and i think he tried reaching for my hand. now my question is, does it seem like he likes me? i rate. smartasses will be reported and given a bad rating. thanks. nellie x0x
hey okay it sounds like he likes you to especially since he just didnt like wait for you to go through tight areas is a really good sign! Take your chances and see if you guys can get a little bit closer!
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((sorry if this is long!!!))
okay he's the background of whats happening ::
i was talkin to the guy i liked online and he asked who i liked. i said i didn't know and asked who he liked he said he didnt know. so im like well you have to like someone -a little-, and he still said no and asked who i liked since i had to liek someone a little too. and i said it'd be kinda pointless. and he asked why n all that stuff. i told him it was obviuos and he's like why do you like me a little? and i said yeahh and he's like well i kinda like you too. and i was happy and stuff.
soo that was like maybe a month and a half ago and i've heard all kinds of rumors. like he just wnats to sleep with me and that stuff. so i confronted him and everytime i talk to him (which is pretty oftne latley b/c im getting pissed) he's always like dont believe anything i really like you a lot, but he wont ask me out and he "doesn't know why". he says he'll call and stuff but he wont tlak to me at school and he hardly ever calls when he says he will. like seriously if he didnt tell me he liked me i'd have NOOO idea!!!
i know it seems like the typical "doesn't want to be seen with me at school or w/e" but like not to sound high on myself but im more popular than him. like hes a redneck and people tease him. so its like if either of us were gonnna get laughed at for being together it would be me .. and i honeslty dont care like i REALLY like him .. he just wont be straight with me on whats goin on
i mean you think he'd be giving me the hint to let it go and stuff by not calling but when i ask him if he just wants me to forget i ever said i liked him and just stay friends and things would be a lot better. but he says every time no please dont i really like you .. well how am i suppose to react to him ignoreing me .. i told him if to be HONEST with me and tell me to give up or not and he like is really clear that i shouldn't. but i dont know. i used to get the butterflys and all that stuff when i saw him, like i'd get nervous. but no im just plain mad, mad beats pissed!
hey hun yah guys sometimes have something about showing emotion at skewl and in public space (PDA - Public Display of Affecion) If you just get mad at him then maybe you should seriously consider just being friends with him because there is no relationship thats going to happen with just one person liking the other and the other not caring at all since that is jus pointless if you understand where im coming from. your feelings might have just changed about him and thats why you dont like him in the way right now so dont worry and let things pass over for a while. try not to make a big deal about it and just act like everythings fine! I hoped i helped!
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In a lifetime is only one love in your life or a couple "loves"? you know how people...claim to have been in love a couple times?
i believe that it all depends on the people because some people find that they believe they were in love but end up being not in love at all! hoped i helped!
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well my boyfriend matthew and i have been going out for three weeks. hes 15 im 14.
ive never had my first kiss :(
but EVERYONE thinks that i have.
he has had his first kiss.
so he thinks its weird that i dont want to kiss him yet.
i dont know how to kiss.
like.. friday he was like, we need to stop being shy or whatever and we kissed, but it wasnt a long makeout session or something because i had to go like right that second. so yeah, my first "makeout" i have no idea what to do.
* taken shy girl
hey hun dont worry. "friday he was like, we need to stop being shy or whatever and we kissed" thats kinda unusual but normal for any guy. a lot of guys are mostly into kissing but yah dont worry to much because as you makeout more you will become better and get used to it more It could only take days but sometimes days turn into weeks and weeks become months so dont worry it will eventually come easily and perfect ! i hoped i helped!
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hi my name is jake, i'm 16 sophmore in high school. over the years i watch my friends go through relationships and stuff, n i never had one. n its not bc i'm antisocial or anything; i think i'm pretty popular, lots of friends and stuff. just thinks never seem to happen or get to the point of relationships; is this weird? should i try to put more an effort to startin a relationship? or should i just kinda be passive about it like i've been. i do want to find someone, to have fun with.
you dont have to go out with someone to have fun with them. do what you feel comfortable with. its better to act yourself so dont push yourself so much into being a person that your not. Hoped i helped.
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yo i have a friend (whos a girl) and im a dude (of course) and shes like my best friend, she helps me when i feel like every1 hates me. i really truly do love her. but i very well doubt she likes me can u help me express my feelings without losing my best friend or at least not sorta freakin her out?
signed,
loves but not loved
hey hun well first off hang out with her all the time like usual and act yourself. if shes gonna like you she'll like you for you not for some person thats hiding under a disquise. treat her with respect and make sure to buy "special" things for her birthday and exc. I hope it works out for you and that I helped.
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my period is late by a week but i am on birth control am i pregnant?
birth control isnt completly safe and you may want to go to the store and get a pregnancy just to make sure. good luck and i hope everything works out for the better.
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okay so i met this guy hes soooooo freaking nice to me, we talk all the time. and he told me he liked me and stuff but last thursday he hooked up with this BEAUTIFUL girl. and then on homecomign i hear he has a girlfriend and hes all over like every freaking girl.im the type who gets jealus real easy. but we made up or whatever and he came over again yesturday we didnt hook up like usual we just kissed. hes a senior and im a freshman. and i dont know why i belive him when he says he likes me. but hes soo nice. and he told my friends he liked me andd stuff but he is considered a man whore. people even tolld me its funny that i think he likes me, but i cannot help it.
hi hun well first off he is a senior and you are a freshmen there is a big difference in your grades at the moment. he might actually like you but he might not and it will be hard to tell if he does or not. try to act the same as you always do around him and talk to him about it. good luck and i hoped i helped.
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i have a boy friend and i really like him he is nice and cute i really like him but the thing is i try to talk to him and he dosen't really talk back like ill be like how was your day and he would be like good and thats i asked him why and he didnt answer i write him notes never back im not trying to be a control freak im just trying to get to now him better! he is so quite but his faces are so loud how can i get clsoer to this quitley loud man?
Some guys are just shy to show their emotions. your boyfriend may be just to scared or shy to show you how he really feels abot you. he will eventually grow outta this stage and it could b for the better or it could b for the worst! you just have to wait and see!
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14/f hey i was wondering...well first off iim really quiet at school so i dont have a lot of friends because thats my personality until you get to know me then im really outgoing but i want to be more outgoing but i dont no wht to talk about and dont say music, movies, books like something more iinteresting and not gossip, any ideas
second off how can i be more sexier around guys without flirting with them
third how should i flirt
i will rate 5s for good advice =D
♥ Jill
hey well first off a guy isnt going to like you for a fake person and if they do it isnt right. you need to act yourself. (that own sexy self that everyone has) you may think your not sexy but other people will! its gonna take time to get away from that shy personality of yours but it will come with time! dont rush it or else you could grow up to fast!
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ok i am 14/f and i really like this guy!! but he likes one of my best friends!!and she is always braging about it and she knows i like him and she says she dosent like him like that!! but i dont know what to do!! please help ill rate 5's for good answers!!!
hey well you cant control feelings and even though your boyfriend likes your best friend its okay since your friend doesnt like him back. shes probably just happy since someone likes her at this age especially. i hoped i helped
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