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okay so i met this guy hes soooooo freaking nice to me, we talk all the time. and he told me he liked me and stuff but last thursday he hooked up with this BEAUTIFUL girl. and then on homecomign i hear he has a girlfriend and hes all over like every freaking girl.im the type who gets jealus real easy. but we made up or whatever and he came over again yesturday we didnt hook up like usual we just kissed. hes a senior and im a freshman. and i dont know why i belive him when he says he likes me. but hes soo nice. and he told my friends he liked me andd stuff but he is considered a man whore. people even tolld me its funny that i think he likes me, but i cannot help it.
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Personally, I think that the whole senior-freshman thing isn't very good out of the strating gate. He's obviously looking just to hook up and have a good time so if your looking for something more stable and someone that will only have eyes for you, he doens't sound like your man. Sorry
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i think he is just trying to get in your pants! you so need to tell him that its over and its up to you if you wanna still be friends wit him but yeah like i said he is only trying to get in your pants! hope i helped! buh bye!!!
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Hm, a senior goin after a freshman. Older guys tend to USE younger girls because they are so gullable and naive!! Hes probably been through all the girls in his class, and now the new freshman come in and he starts hitting on them. Hes a player, theres nothing to get jealous over. Cant you see hes just using you, and all those other girls? A respectful "older" guy wouldnt sit and do what hes doing with all those girls. Hed be in a relationship and treat them like they really mean something to him! Sorry, but it doesnt sound like he knows how to have a real relationship! When you say "hooked up" i hope your not referring to sex! This situation is all too familiar to me. You seriously need to STAY away from guys like this. Just because hes "nice" doesnt mean anything. Guys do that to get what they want from a girl (if ya know what i mean)!!! Any guy can say they like you. Hes saying that because your giving him what he wants, and as long as you do, hes gonna continue being nice to you. Do me a favor. If he wants to makeout with you again or whatever you 2 do>DONT!! then see how nice he'll be to you Youre not gonna keep a guy like that.He'll use you and spit you back out, then youre the one whos gonna get hurt!!
Hopefully there will be alot of guys answering this question for you. LISTEN TO THEM!!
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hi hun well first off he is a senior and you are a freshmen there is a big difference in your grades at the moment. he might actually like you but he might not and it will be hard to tell if he does or not. try to act the same as you always do around him and talk to him about it. good luck and i hoped i helped.
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I would believe your friends on this one if I where you because he does sound like a " Man Whore". Since you get jealious really easy not to sound harsh or anything but I dont think you 2 would last if you did hook up with him because he probally would be flirting with all the other gurls and stuff like he did when he had a girlfriend. The nice guys are tricky believe me I know. One minute they say there into you then if a really hot gurl walks by they ditch you and start talking to her. Gurl I think you can do better then that dont take his crap lol.
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HAHA! Sorry I dated this one guy considered a man whore also! His name is Evan. Anyho Evan seemed perfect just like the guy your talking about but turned out to be a giant poop. So just try to move on because Man Whores are heartbreakers. It is hard as hell to move on but you just have to try because you cant get stuck in the shadow of loving someone. He might say he likes you but he might say that to everyone. Hope I helped. Forget about the Man Whore ok? XoXoLexiXoXo
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I totally understand your feelings, how could you not like this good looking older guy who is nice to you? But he sounds like trouble and you are only going to get more upset and more jealous the longer this goes. He very well may like you, but he also may like other girls and will just play around with your heart. Its really hard to stop likining someone, but you can stop hooking up with him for the time being. Tell him you are busy, or don't trust him or can't handle the drama or whatever. You'll feel better and you'll be surprised how much more he probably interested he will be in you once you say no. If that is the case, give it a couple weeks and see what happens.
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Ok, go to my advice column and to the third page. Read the 2nd one. It starts off "omg, someone's gotta help me get rid of this feeling". Read that pretty much. And also, if he is hooking up with other people, especially if he is a senior, then he is probably just hooking up with you because it feels nice to him.
Hope it Helps and Im sorry.
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Melanie
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