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help please I really need it
Okay well, I like this Boy named jonathan. But I am afraid to ask him out. What if he says no or somthing . Well the most basic thing is that I am really shy and dont know what to say to them. umm. like what I say I have his phone number or I can talk to him at school but what should i say to him??? Please help if you give me a good answer then I will give you a rating so if you want your rating to go up you can answer this seriously and I will for sure give you a five is if it's good advice
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ok, well you should first just play it cool with him and try to hint it to him that you like him, you could either tell him yourself or have someone find out if he likes you or not. if he does like you then you could either call him or ask him in school like u sed. just start of saying how u have feelings for him and you want to be more then just friends, if he sais no just say you understand or something he sais yes then there ya go
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Talk to him at school. It'll show that you have confidence if you ask him out to his face. You'll have to get over your shyness...lol. Just ask him out! Be like, "So I really like you...blah blah.... would you go out with me?"
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Dear Help Please,
Being shy is natural and often comes with fear of rejection. Don't be afraid to speak up. IF he doesn't have a girlfriend start with talking to him at school, only call him if he gives you permission. If you are too afraid to talk face to face, then pass him a note. You could sweep him off of his feet by giving him a letter telling him the things you like about him and that you would like to get to know him better. Find something that you both have in common. Ask him what kind of movies he likes to watch, if he wants to go to the movies with you or come to your house and watch a movie. Maybe he is having trouble in one of his classes and you can tutor him. There are endless possibilities, but always remember the worst he can do is say no. If you don't try and talk to him then you will always wonder if he would have said yes. What ever you decide to do, keep in mind that Jonathan is not the only boy worth asking out. Good luck and keep me posted, OK.
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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well to answer you question..you should ask him to hangout sometime and get to know each other well before you decide to jump into a relationship and if it ends up being more than a friendship or something than go for it! good luck. hope that everything works out for you.
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gurl i had the same problem with a boy named jonathon, too a month ago. i found out he was a jerk. but anyways back to your issue, easy have a friend ask him out and if he says no brush it off your shoulder and move on if he does say no hes a jerk anyways.
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The first thing you should do is build a friendship, if you already have a friendship find out if he likes you. Guys like when girls make the first move, it shows them there not afraid. Even if you want to, just ask him how he feels about you, and tell him to be honest. If he feels the same about you then everythings good, but if he doesnt youll still have a friendship, and its better to be friends because maybe youll have a chance in the future. Just take it slow.
I hope I helped alittle, im always here.
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the thing you have to do is just be yourself dont act like someone eles thats one of the worst things you can do....yeah get his number call him talk to him ask him if he wants to hang out or go for a walk somthing simple at first and slowly you will realize that hes starting to like you and if he doesnt then ask him if you can at least be friends!! hope it works!! need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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hey well first off are you friends with this boy honathan!!? cuz if your not you first need to get to know him better and get his number so you can talk over the phone and then eventually move into more serious things! i hope i helped!
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Don't ask him out until you have the nerve to say a few things to him. It doesn't matter if you don't have a lot to say, you have to start somewhere, let him know that you are going to call him one day at school, and tell him what time, and then call him when the time comes. I know you're afraid of rejection, but you'll get nowhere if you stay scared and don't even say a word to him. Say hi, and ask him how his day as been so far. Jonathan won't pay attention to you if you don't call or talk to him first.
-TheTeenGirl
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