hey i love to play basketball i've played since i was 3 and i run everyday and i work out!! i love to cook and to give advice i dont judge people but i try to read them and explain what i think about them!! i can be a girlie girl but i love getting down in dirrty....i wrestle with the guys and i always win(and no they dont let me win!!) well if you need advice send me something!!
Gender: Female
Location: monroe
Occupation: i play basketball, volleyball,swimming, track&field, i babysitt an di cook for my family anf friends
Age: 14
Member Since: October 28, 2005
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how can you reduce the redness out of a pimple overnight?
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okay a really good idea is to put toothpaste on it over nite and it'll dry it up and help get rid of it and fast trust me on this one!! hope that helps good luck......love bigJ2009
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Okay well, I like this Boy named jonathan. But I am afraid to ask him out. What if he says no or somthing . Well the most basic thing is that I am really shy and dont know what to say to them. umm. like what I say I have his phone number or I can talk to him at school but what should i say to him??? Please help if you give me a good answer then I will give you a rating so if you want your rating to go up you can answer this seriously and I will for sure give you a five is if it's good advice (link)
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the thing you have to do is just be yourself dont act like someone eles thats one of the worst things you can do....yeah get his number call him talk to him ask him if he wants to hang out or go for a walk somthing simple at first and slowly you will realize that hes starting to like you and if he doesnt then ask him if you can at least be friends!! hope it works!! need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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i'm in love with this guy and i really like him but then again i like this other guy that i dated what should i do??????------help me (link)
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you should go with what your heart thinks and dont worry about anyone eles...if you seriouisly love the guy your with stick wit him and if you love the other guy go with him.make a list of good and bads about both of them!!
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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think? (link)
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omg i would sooo love that as a girl that would make ur girl melt right there....i've never seen a guy soo sweet before. thats a perfect gift and i'm a blonde but i wont take that as a insult.....your girlfriend would love that i cant explain how much that would amke a girl happen there should be more of you!!
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hey guys i was just wondering, can u shower w/ a tampon in...need reply's fast, i'm running late (i just got my period this morning) will rate high, much love (link)
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yes u can but its useless...cuz the tampon aborbs moisture and it would soak uo the water and then you would think that you wouldnt have to change it and then you would leak...not good.......so take it out then shower and cleans it down there you'll feel better...WELL if you need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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well i want to have sex with my bf. but i want to know if he has std's or anything like that. i want to ask him but i think it would be awkward. can someone give me advice on how to ask? thank you!! (link)
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ask him in a way where he would have have to think about what ur trying to ask him lik ehey i was wondering if there was something going on inside you that could transfer to me.......lets go get it check you know.....WELL if you need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good. (link)
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if your on birthcontrol it will help you.but it would be safer if u used a condom.i doubt your pregant but i would check just in case!!
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ok im a young female...i know a lot the basics and terms about sex and whatever, and i know im not ready to do it, but i dont know like how it works. is it weird that i wana watch porn, not to get horny from it, but just to see how its done? is it wrong? dont say im too young to watch it, but its bugging me of thinking about how to do it (even though i wont for many more years). just help me please. thanks. (link)
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personally i think it would be good to watch one that has people doing it and like a close up soo you know how to when the time comes i can tell you quickly the quy touches you down there and finds the hole and puts it in and yeah or he just sticks it down there and when it goes in he starts to have sex with you but if you dont understand or need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him? (link)
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ohh god no thats just telling him hey i like it over here not there and he'll think its soo sexy when you do that....but when you get to your spot let go and let him do all the work he enjoy doing it and watching your expressions
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how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex? (link)
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when you and your guy/girl are alone and your all touchy kissing and crap and he asks you or you ask him and you want to then thats the time but if your unsure then dont and tell him.her that......when the time comes you'll know it and feel it in your heart!!
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks (link)
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okay you need to tell your boyfriend when you have it so he knows ohh dont bug her or okay i'll wait to have sex with her you know...just be open with your man and tell him the 411 need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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hey everyone im a gurl and i was just wondering ummm... ok is it spose to hurt when you are getting fingered because it hurt but it felt good at the same time this is a really embarassing question but please help me if u can
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the reason it hurts is because ytou've never had anything that big inside you before, so after you do it a coupld of time it should feel way better....rem the first time u used a big tampon.lol wmb if you need more information or better information at bigJ2009
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I need some 1 2 help me out on this one when ever im with my girlfriend and i hold her hand i get a boner how can i cantrol that cause its really embarassing and i need help fast plz (link)
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okay well you could try to wear tight underwear or you could try not to think of it in a sexuall way ... tell her you need to go to the bathroom and jerk it off quick and maybe that'll help i dono ned more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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okay i shave my private right! well how do i shave to wear i dont have razor burns or red marks? i rate 5's (link)
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okay you could get it waxed but it would be red for like 1 day or you can use shaving cream or hair remover...i use a razor and i dont get red marks or anythng but everyone is different hope everything works out down there hee hee hee!!
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My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not? (link)
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yes you could be pregnant but i doubt it.....because you can get your period late or if your active in psorts or even stressed out you can mis you period.and if your ona diet you can miss it or be late i wouldnt worrry about it just try to do somethign that will take your mind off of it!! write me back if you have more questions about it at bigJ2009
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One of my friends think that i have been practicing witchcraft and black magic. She thinks i have become a witch and she keeps scolding me. I told her im not a witch and she keeps lecturing me; What should i do? (link)
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okay i have friends like this too just tell your friend that if she cant trust you and believe you then why are you my friends?? and then say well if you dont then you just lost a best friend that trusted and believed you...get a new bff and show her what shes missing out on.....hope it works for you!!
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Ok, my gramma has cancer and shes dying. We dont think she will make it until Christmas. I have a big family, and we are all very close, so it's a sad thing. But for some reason, i just dont feel sad. I feel guilty, it feels like i dont care. I know i do care, but i dont feel sad. It seems like everyone else is sad except me. Am i like a bad person? Is this normal? Please help! (link)
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yes thats normally.alot of people dont have feelings for things i dont either so dont worry about it.......omg you are not a bad person for not having a sad bummed feeling about it and get this if you did you would be sad and you would be pisst off so think of it in a good way you dont have to worry and crying over everything.......lol byebye
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if i ask a question on here like just a random one like this can you see who its from? (link)
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no you can not see who it is unless you tell ppl who it is like my name is bigJ2009 but i dont care....so no you can say whatever you want and no one will know unless you tell them who you are!!
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Well im going to be a belly dancer for halloween and i cant change it now. But my problem is, i got my period and for my costume the pants are see through. All most all of it is. What if i leak? What can i do? HELP? (link)
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okay well you can try and wear another layer underneath your pants or wear shortshorts and underwear with a pad just in case.yes it wont be the best halloween but at least you wont get embarressed!! good luck!!
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Hey, there's this guy,...let's call him *Gavin*. Well, i dont know *Gavin* that well. but this is what i do know,...he's a football player, he's not real smart, he friends with alot of people and he's nice and funny, and a little retarded sometimes,...and i think he's shy,...but i kind of like *Gavin* but i dont know him that well,...what should i do to get to know him better? or for him to notice me? (link)
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okay what you should do is slowly start talking to him and, and call him and ask him to hang out with you , go to the movies or something . and if you want him to notice you do something thats outragous but not stupid and slutty, join something or ask him to go bowling and show off your skilld or do something that u know your good at and that u can show it off!! good luck let me know how things wnet........bigJ2009
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