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Guiding his hand


Question Posted Sunday October 16 2005, 12:51 pm

When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him?

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advicegodesses2 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 9:16 pm:
slowly move his hand 2 the spot while rubbing his hand.

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bigJ2009 answered Friday October 28 2005, 6:18 pm:
ohh god no thats just telling him hey i like it over here not there and he'll think its soo sexy when you do that....but when you get to your spot let go and let him do all the work he enjoy doing it and watching your expressions

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s0iint0youx3 answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 9:48 pm:
umm i think it would offent him he might get embarrased

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xopinkbarbie answered Monday October 17 2005, 6:56 pm:
No, not at all. Guys actually like it when you guide them because you're letting them know exactly how you want it. They can improve their ways & pleasure you even better ;)
♥ Sammy

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday October 16 2005, 4:42 pm:
nope actaually it wont some guys perfer to be told then having to find out the hard way. plus every girl is different and they got to get used to it so i dont think it would be if you showed him were to rub you. i mean it isnt like if you were doing soemthing wrong will suckin his that he wouldnt tell you. trust me HE WILL.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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shannonsgirl answered Sunday October 16 2005, 2:50 pm:
no it want cuase men like to be giuded atleas mine does .

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mysticpixie05 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 2:02 pm:
Nope. That would probably be a good thing. Most guys like that. It might be a turn on for him to show him around and move his hands around you. You should not hold back on doing that anymore and defo do that. That would be hot for him and even you cause you know what you want. Have fun!

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xOchErrytWistOx answered Sunday October 16 2005, 1:36 pm:
No way! It probably would be a relief to him! Guys are nervous too and maybe he's unsure where is the most pleasurable to you. If you show him, he will know hes doing it in the right spot and it wont ever be awkward. And you deserve to get your pleasure too, so just guide him!
xoxo
ali

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malibubarbiie111 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 1:29 pm:
that shouldn`t offend him at all. he actually should be happy. because then he knows what you like, && stuff.*-- so just do it. x0x♥BARBIE

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icey0990 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 1:25 pm:
o gosh no! that would be excellent if you guided his hand. he wants to please you! he wants to learn what turns you on and everything..so yes by all means guide him! :)
-melissa-

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needadvice012 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 1:13 pm:
Moving his hand where you want it and responding verbally are always appropriate. If he gets offended, that's his problem, not yours. I predict he will be quite excited.

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xKABOOM answered Sunday October 16 2005, 12:59 pm:
I'm not really "experienced" enough to answer this question because i'm only 14, so you don't have to even listen to me, but I think that it would be perfectly fine if you did that, because by showing him what to do, he might me able to do it how you want him to the next time.

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girdy_goo15 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 12:57 pm:
no it shouldn't offend him. just guide him. he will thank you. lol.

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Mackenzie answered Sunday October 16 2005, 12:57 pm:
I don't see a problem with that. And if he's offended, I'm sure he'd let you know. (:

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OnlyTheRightAnswers answered Sunday October 16 2005, 12:57 pm:
I definitely think he would appreciate your directions. Guys like to learn so that once he knows, he knows...just slowly move your hand on top of his and show him what makes you feel good. Making a little noise while doing it might help him because it shows him that what your showing him is what you like, but you're not insulting him by saying something critical. He'll appreciate the pointer, trust me. ;)

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