Gender: Male
Location: New Orleans, Louisiana
Occupation: student
Age: 29
Yahoo: reincarnatedpornstar
Member Since: August 4, 2005
Answers: 6
Last Update: January 2, 2006
Visitors: 1306
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I'm a 27 year old female.For the first time in a long while I'm actually happy to be single. I have my own appartment and a part time job, and was thinking that if I was dating someone I probably couldnt affort to have all the nice things like movies, cd's, and nice furniture, because I would be spending it on my bf. I was also thinking how nice it is not to have the responsiblility of looking after children. A lot of the ladies I work with at the store have kids and they are always so stressed out. I have it made- I only answer to myself and can come and go as I please. The money I make is spent on myself and doesnt go to pay for anyone else.
I am selfish for feeling like this? And is it just I phase? I want to have a family SOMEDAY, just not now. I'm having too much fun!! (link)
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I consider this a selfish attitude, BUT that doesn't make it a bad thing. You recognize what you want AND what you don't want. These are extremely important qualities and when you find the right person, you'll already be comfortable with who you are and what you like. There's a maturity level here that is much more important than worrying about being selfish.
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What is a good birthday present to give to my boyfriend?? im all out all ideas (link)
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Something personal that reflects things you have done together are always good. For example, if there is a movie you both enjoyed together, get him the DVD. If there is a band you both like, get him the CD. Something you know he likes, but that also reminds him of you. Those are the gifts I like receiving the best!
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Ok guys, how do you like girls flirting with you? Like how much flirting and what kind? I would really appriciate it!
*I rAtE hIgH!!!!* (link)
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Guys love it when girls they find attractive flirt with them. Everyone likes to get attention from the opposite sex in a flattering way. Playful jokes (not mean), casual chit chat, light (non-sexual) touches are always nice. Just be yourself though!
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i want to ask this guy to like this spooky woods thing.. but im kinda scared.. (feeling like an idiot if he rejects me) we are friends, and i was thinking of like, on aim, i should be like "haha, your so cool we should hang out sometime." like that? then asking him tommarow :/ but idk. can you help me? (link)
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You should never be afraid to ask someone to do something with you. Getting told no is not as bad as people think it is. Trust me, getting the yes answer is worth a no answer once in a while.
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When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him? (link)
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Moving his hand where you want it and responding verbally are always appropriate. If he gets offended, that's his problem, not yours. I predict he will be quite excited.
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I am a 25 year old female with a huge life decision to make.I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. And i love him with all my heart, he's pretty close to being perfect. Hes kind, caring, smart, athletic, he's the whole package. And of chorse im not satisfied. My problem is, i still have a crush on my high school crush...i know it sounds silly because high school was 8 years ago for me, but yes there has not been a single day since high school where i have not thought about him in some way. After high school we kept in touch at college for about a year, and after that we kinda lost touch. But that didnt stop me from thinking about him all the time. I always compared every guy to him, and every guy i dated i always told myself if "Bob" (my high school crush) were to ever come to me and say he wanted to be with me i would breakup with whomever i was with and date him. About 2 and a half years ago me and "bob" found each other again. We began talking again, it was like we never lost touch, we picked up where we left off. The problem was that i had a boyfriend whom i really care about and love. "bob" on the other hand was single. And since i already believe that him and i are soulmates i thought that was a sign, because he is so gorgous that him being single wasn't bound to last long. Just like high school every female that lays eyes on him instantly is drawn to him. I have opted not to tell him my feelings because of my boyfriend. Him and i still talk on occassion, and maybe once or twice a year we hang out and catch up on "life". I have found out from sources that he too once had a crush on me in high school. And when we do see one another he always asks if i still have a boyfriend and when he finds out i do, he asks if im happy, and if i see a future with me and my boyfriend. He has been in and out of a few relationships, but i know the time is going to come soon when he thinks he has found the person he wantst to spend the rest of his life with, and when that happens i would have lost my chance to tell him anything forever. And this just kills me because i want him so badly. I want to be able to tell him everything on my mind. I want to tell him that i love him...yes i do love him, but i cant tell him that cause its not fair to my boyfriend. But at the same time this is just killing me inside. All i want to do is just get everything out in the open so i can have a sense of relief. Im curious how he would respond to my feelings. i truely believe he is my soulmate, i have always been drawn to him. i believe he is the person im suppose to marry. Whenever i have dreams of him (which are often) i try to hurry and go back to sleep just so i can be with him. What do you suggest? am i crazy? is this jsut a silly crush?...well i dont think its just a crush because the crush evolved to me loving him....and you see the reason wny i never told my crush my feelings when i was single was because i am really shy, and i thought that he was too perfect for me and that he could have any girl he wanted so why would he choose me....and i use to push him away big time a few years back because i was affraid of my feelings for him, and i was affraid of getting hurt if i told him. But now i feel an almost need to tell him my feelings just so i can get on with my life. What do i do? please suggest.... (link)
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Your boyfriend deserves someone who feels about him like you feel about Bob. Tell Bob your feelings and see how he reacts. That will let know if he feels the same way about you. But please don't do anything until you've left your boyfriend move on. Good Luck!
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