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i need help asking him!
i want to ask this guy to like this spooky woods thing.. but im kinda scared.. (feeling like an idiot if he rejects me) we are friends, and i was thinking of like, on aim, i should be like "haha, your so cool we should hang out sometime." like that? then asking him tommarow :/ but idk. can you help me?
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Alright, I think you should just casually bring it up. If you think he will reject you because he doesn't like you like that, then just ask him and make clear to him that it is just friends. And he might even like you more than friends and just doens't know how to go out and say it. So spending quality time together and being scared together could definently spark something. So basically ask him like this:
You: Hey, what are you up to?
Him: Not much, you?
You: Not alot, kinda bored, but this weekend is going to be pretty fun!
Him: Cool...
You: What are you doing this weekend?
Him: Not much really, I don't really have plans.
Why?
You: Oh, I was just wondering because i was going to this scary
(*NOTE: If he definently has plans than you don't even have to ask because you already know he can't go.. thus saving you embarassment)
If he does turn you down don't be discouraged... he might be busy, might not be allowed to go, or he just might not like scary things... whatever the reason, don't let it affect your friendship. Good luck! ~Sherah
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Well since you guys are friends just radomly ask him if he wants to go with you...its shouldnt be too bad...friends do hang out :) hehe..but seriously jus ask him if he wants ta go and if he says yes great but if he says no well then i guess you can find sumone else to go with:)good luck byebye
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well you should go up to him in person or on aim and be like hey im going to this spooky woods thing and its going to be really dumb by myself and i was wondering if you wanted to come along. when doing this just be yourself and stay calm. hope i helped! buh bye!
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You should never be afraid to ask someone to do something with you. Getting told no is not as bad as people think it is. Trust me, getting the yes answer is worth a no answer once in a while.
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Hey ! Well i completely know what you mean Im always afraid of being rejected too but you know what its just a chance we all have to take. I mean if you dont do it now then maybe there wont be another chance ? And the spooky woods thing is a great thing to bring a guy too! Considering you 2 are friends also it shouldnt be hard at all to ask him. Id be like so what are your plans for this weekend ? he'd tell you bla bla bla or nothing, and he'll ask you what are yours ? and you say soemthing like "well i was gunna go to the spooky woods thing but my friends are going out of town, do you wanna go with me, i think its gunna be really fun" and i mean how can he say no to that lol. Well good luck, and I hope everything goes great ! xO
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hey well jus ask him gurl dont be scared you can try like we should go to the w/e scarey thing
your talkin about it will be fun n guys like scarey stuff lol well most doo soo dont worri jus ask him if he asks you is it as a date be like well if u want it to be 101 hope i helped !
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Ok first of all, you said you were friends. Friends as far as what> some1 you just "talk" to? Friends usually hang out! If you already hung out, it wouldnt be that big of deal to get him to go with you. Do you just wanna go with him or a bunch of other people? If your going with other people, then just tell him that so and so's all going and if he wanted to come that would be so much fun. If you just wanted it to be you and him, then ask him if hes heard about this spooky woods thing, that is sounds scary, and ask him if he was thinking about going, then just go from there. The words will come! He can only say no, its not like youre asking him out!!
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Since you are friends it will make it a lot easier. You could either just ask him, or invite a few friends including him. That way, if he says no, it isn't like he said no to go alone with you. Your plan sounds good also, though. Stick with it, if you are content.
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you should just ask him out.Since you guys are friends.just say something like "hey (his name) i was wondering, would you like to go to (the name of the place) with me? i dont have anyone to really go with and i thought it would be kind of fun if you and I went together." i know it can be kind of scary to ask a guy out somewhere but youll do fine! im sure he'll say yes!if you do it over aim he wont know that your nervous or scared.Hope i could help you out!
♥ danielle
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You can just invite him to come along. I always do that. Like if I am going somewhere and I want someone to go I just tell them to go and hang out. You don't have to be scared and don't worry I don't think he will reject and say no because you guys are freinds, and why would he? Asking him on AIM or phone or anything else would be fine. It doesn't really matter as long as you ask. Have fun!!
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