Member Since: August 4, 2005
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Last Update: August 13, 2005
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im 19 yrs old, college sophomore, i met my ex "james" when i was a senior in high school. strangley enough my friend "pat" put my pic up on hot or not and "james" saw it and clicked meet me. come to find out he went to my high school and graduated a few years ahead of me. his brother was also one of my high school friends.
he was in the army when i met him, (this was in december of my high school year) he had been over seas for 2 years. we talked online and on the phone to eachother every chance we got and he came down on leave for his brothes grad party which i was invited to because his brother and i were friends.
we started hanging out and eventually dating. i broke up with him before i left for college because i didnt want to worry about having a bf and his school and mine were 2 hours apart. he told me he loved me but i broke up with him reguardless
he now has a gf "kerry". he started dating her 2 months after we broke up. apparently he used to date her before he left for iraq. they have been dating ever since.
well the reason i am writing is because after him and i broke it off we still continuted to talk and even hang out on occasion. he has been cheating on "kerry" with me for the past month and 1/2.
"james" tells me that he is probably going back overseas to fight in october. he told me that i should get over him because he isnt sure when or if he is going to come back. and i deserve a guy who is going to be there for me(he is sched for 2 years over there. i dont know what i should do. i dont know if he is still with "kerry" because he loves her or if its not the right time to break up with her or if he is going to break it off when he goes, if he loves me still i just dont know what to think. i need someone to look at the situation from another stand point and give me some advice, i am at a total loss. (link)
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Hey there,
Sounds to me like this guy doesn't know what he wants. And if somebody can't work out what they want for themselves, they will not be able to hold down a successful rrelationship. The fact that he's cheating on his current girlfriend makes him a bit of a meanie especially as he's going back overseas indefinately. I don't see a way that you can make it work with this guy. Not now anyway. When the time is right you may well get back together and have a reall chance but right now i can't see a future for you.
You need to get out and about, meet people and get over this guy. That's not to say never speak to him again but perhaps a little time and space would be a good idea before you try to continue on as friends.
I know how hard it is when you feel mixed up about things and don't know what to do.
Anyway, I hope I helped and if i can do anything else, just drop me a line.
Take it easy!
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well, i know what these are, but i want to know how i can get them, and when are you supposed to take them, once before the 24 hours, once, then EXACTLY 12 hours later? I'm real confused about this, i need them~and please don't tell me i'm not ready, cause i am "experienced" if u know what i mean, it's just, this time, i don't wanna b taking pills at the same time every day 4, and i don't want to b protected, i'm just trying to spice it up a little, i also don't want to order them online, cause not only am i broke, but my family will b all over me trying to see what they are, plus the delivery takes to long~i'll rate high 4 actual suggestions~help~ (link)
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trying to spice sex up by being unprotected???? twat. you'll end up with a disease ridden fanny and you fucking deserve it!
* Just received your feedback and let me just say what a charming little girl you truly are!
If the question is not for EVERYONE to answer i suggest you don't put it on a public board and if it's none of my 'motherfucking business' again why broadcast it across the world.
As for phoning you - yeah right, like i'm gonna waste my phone bill calling from England to listen to you have a tantrum...as for your group for life bollox..i hope it's a fucking mental health association cos you need it - fill your boots my dear...good luck with that.
TWAT.
Hope i helped.....xxxxxxx
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Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do? (link)
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AND HELLO????!!!! STDS?
If you're too embarressed to tell him to put on a condom for both your sakes...then i'd say you're not mature enough to be having sex.
You're another one that needs to go back to the barbies for a while!
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Hey. Im 17 years old, and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We live together and everything, but one night, when we were having sex, we didnt even notice the condom slip off. Well, he came inside of me, and then we looked frantically for a condom we though was still on. The next day it came out of me, but there was no cum in it or anything. it was as clear as it was when it first came on. Also, im not on birth control. It has been 2 weeks since, and I was just wondering if there is any chance of getting pregnant. Also, it was only 2 or 3 days after my period. So, can i? (link)
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You absolute, complete and total numpty! If you don't know that there's a chance of you getting pregnant in this situation then what the feck are you doing having sex? You're 17 - go back to school cos you clearly need educating.
And another thing...why the HELL didn't you go get the morning after pill....JEEZ!
YOU SHOULDN'T BE HAVING SEX. YOU'RE CLEARLY FAR TOO SILLY!.
Go back to playing with your barbies.
Good Day to You
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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this??? (link)
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my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we're both religious and waiting for marriage before we have sex. recently we've been really open and getting comfortable with eachother. we've been talking about sex a lot on the phone, not us doing it, just positions and what feels good. last weekend I jerked him off, and afterwards I got really upset. then yesterday we had dry sex. it was just like the real thing just with our pants on. After every time we do that stuff we promise eachother we won't do that again, but everytime we're in a bedroom it happens. Please help I'm so upset & disappointed in myself and it's so hard to not do these things with him cause I trust him so much. But we're only teenagers and I dont want to do it, plus its against my religion. He never forces me to do anything, I just do it... help =[ (link)
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DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! GWAN, GWAN, GWAN...It'll feel SOOO good!!!
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hey, im a girl, and i shave my armpits, but there is always this grayish area left. like i dunno how to make it look like just skin, like the rest of the girls do. i mean, it doesnt get mistaken for like not shaving but it still bugs me! please dont leave me mean answers. i really try and i dont want to hear anything you have to say if yur gonna be mean. (link)
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Hey there... have you ever tries waxing? the reason there's a grey-ish area is because with shaving your only cutting away the hairs visable on the surface. they're still underneath your skin and may show up as the grey area. waxing will pull out from the root - a bit more painful but well worth it!
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