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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this???
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Well the best thing to do would have been to stop it at camp but since you didn't just make it clear you aren't interested. They should leave you alone after that but if it doesn't work DON'T slap them because to alot of guys that will mean you are playing hard to get. Please rate.
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tell them to fuck off, stand on your own feet, ignore them, walk by, i no they fkn irritate you, but just get some personal info on them, or some one they know, and throw that at them, personal infromation can be a killer...
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ps, sounds to me lyk ur not a slut cz u havn done ne fin to invite them to act this way right?
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thats horrible..although u should hav stopped it at camp you cant undo it now.. if i were you id tell them to leave me alne bc im not like that & to eff off..dotn talk to them for a while and make sure your friends are sticking up for you when ur not there... thats what they r 4!
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Don't lead them on. Guys will be guys. Just ignore them and move on in life. The rumors will stop soon enough. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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tell them to fuck off and that your not like that. And if they try anything with you you are not into, it is classified as sexual assault, and you have every right in the world to say something to someone of higher authority/
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OMG!! I have thoughs same things happen to me! Punch them in the nose..or live to enjoy it!!
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those people are morons for thinking your a slut just from someone touching your butt/boobs. i woudl talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and ask if he had told people something untrue.
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ok... usually sluts where tight cothes.. one day come in with baggy clothes.. like army style.. and be like shut up punk.. like if the try to grab you punch em+
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Wow! I'd bitch slap the fuckers! They have NOOOOOOOOOOO right to be talking to you in such a manner, not to mention physically touching you!!!!! What they're doing is sexual harrassment, and I know you might now want to make a big fuss over it, but if it becomes bad enough you should file an abuse report and some possible restraining orders...
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this is just not good.. this happened to me before and i punched the shit outta the boys.. i would just let them know you are sick of it.. and i mean that is sexual assault so you can hit them or anything esle i mean doesnt your boyfriend get mad about this.. he should take up for you! i thinkyou just needa tell them to back the flipp up!! - rate me please - thanks hope that helps good luck - Katherine
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Honestly Sweets... Tellin someone is the only thing u can do. Speaking from experience *sp* it will eventually it will stop. I had 10 guys in one day ask to have sex with me... of course there is occasionally the randon @$$ hole who will bring it up again... but when that happened to me it was a year ago... now no one tries to do things like grab me and stuff... I promise it will just go away... *And for the mean time... stay close to a friend all the time... ppl are less likely to pick on you that way.
-SweetestKiss
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I'd smack him! Seriously, it's so stupid how judgemental people are when it comes to girls. If you grabbed some guy's ass, they wouldn't call him a slut, they'd call you one. How is that fair?
So from now on, I'd just look at them and say, "My boyfriend got to grab my boobs, because he was hot and cool. You are not. So get off me, loser!" and leave it at that.
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if you dont like it, its sexual harrassment. please tell someone...if your at a camp, tell a councelor....you wont get in trouble but they will. <3
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