Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do?
mAdiSoN_x_aLaiNe answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 7:38 pm: Um, talk to him! It's the key to everything! You should tell him, " I really can't get pregnant! I love you ___his name but I really need to get invovled with the safe sex! He'll completely understand !!
CoUnTrYgUrL77 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 12:59 am: Well,you SHOULD say something to him...he's not that one that has a chance of getting prenant....it should understand...if he doesn't then...apparently he doesn't about what happens.... [ CoUnTrYgUrL77's advice column | Ask CoUnTrYgUrL77 A Question ]
Supermanlover45 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:19 pm: Honestly, I think you should buy a pack of condoms and bring the condoms. Then when you guys are ready to have sex give them to him and say please put one of these on I don't think I'm experienced enough to be a mom and I don't want the rate to be high of me getting pregnant. If he say's no (which I would doubt) then just say fine then we aren't having sex or have it and say if we have sex this time without it you have to wear this the next time. If he still doesn't agree don't have sex with him until he does. It's my opinion. Hope I helped.
alisonmarie answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 5:57 am: Take charge of things. Stop having sex until your next period so you know you are not pregnant, then go see your doctor and get on birth control. Ask your doctor carefully about how long it takes for that particular form to become safe - for example, it takes one full month on the pill before it's fully effective.
Also ask your boyfriend to go out and buy condoms - and if he doesn't, then I'd say it's a safe bet he doesn't take you seriously. And the only way he'll take you seriously is if you take yourself seriously.
Right now your biggest worry is not being on birth control, but any day now that could change to facing an unplanned pregnancy. And if your boyfriend won't help prevent one, then it's doubtful he'll be there to help you figure out what to do.
This is your body, and if you're not responsible for it no one will be.
not-ur-ordinary-gal answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:06 am: tell hm that you two should use contraceptive unless the both of you are ready to have kids...
Teza answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 1:56 am: You should get them soon! You could end up getting pregnant. Its better to say something then taking the risk. If he wont get them you should. Dont be afraid to tell him again. Better be protected. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
DaysGoBy answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 1:45 am: YOU go buy some. If you don't want to buy them go to a health clinic and get some. If you don't wanan get PREGNANT you better do something about it... Tell him he needs to use a condom or you won't have sex with him... You don't HAVE to have sex with him and if he doesn't respect you enough to spend a few dolalrs on a box of condoms he's not worth it... If you get pregnant do you think he's gonna stay around to help you with that baby when he doesn't even wanna spend a few dollars on condoms? [ DaysGoBy's advice column | Ask DaysGoBy A Question ]
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