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im having trouble getting lucky can u please help me!!!

hmm...sounds like a personal problem to me :)

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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear

It shouldn't matter...

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What's a yest infection?

itchy

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i just got my period and i was wondering what kind of tampons are best

Tampax Pearl is a good one...

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Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do?

uh, the common sense thing to do would be to talk to him about your morals because I'm pretty sure you aren't wanting to get preggie! :)

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Hey. Im 17 years old, and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We live together and everything, but one night, when we were having sex, we didnt even notice the condom slip off. Well, he came inside of me, and then we looked frantically for a condom we though was still on. The next day it came out of me, but there was no cum in it or anything. it was as clear as it was when it first came on. Also, im not on birth control. It has been 2 weeks since, and I was just wondering if there is any chance of getting pregnant. Also, it was only 2 or 3 days after my period. So, can i?

: ) get a pregnancy test...

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i have a lot of questions regarding sex, relationships, and everything in between.. but some questions are too personal to ask.. is there any columnist who has an AIM screen name who can answer my questions.. i'll feel really weird asking them but i have no one here to help me and there's a lot on my mind and i would really appreciate the help..

thanx♥

I would be more than happy to help you with anything! My s/n is x3 brunette glam!

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no serously im male and like im bleeding like crazy when i take a crap is their something wrong with me or is it normal or something i ate i need to know it looks like my sisters peirod when she 4gets to flush its gross....

you need to really go to a doctor, that's not good for you at all...something could be seriously wrong!

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I heard that doctors put you on birth control to make your period regular. Other people said they just give you regular medicine to regulate your period. But if I get put on birth control, is that the same one that prevents pregnancy (so I can kinda kill 2 birds with 1 stone haha) and does ALL birth control make you gain weight cause that's a turn off. Thanks.

I have only heard from my gyno that the shot is the one that girls may have a possible weight change..not the others!

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i like these two guys they r awesome but now i have to choose and i dont kno what to do. one lives in the same city i do and the other one lives 1 hour away. they are both super sweet to me and i can talk to both of them about anything. i dont kno what to do im so confused. please help me with my love triangle oh yes and they both like me wich makes it even harder because no matter what im going to break someones heart and im not good with that. please help me.

Well, that's a personal choice on which one to choose but do not lead someone on because that will only make it worse...let em' down easy!!

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Haha just wanna make something clear..When you make out, do you basically kiss with your mouth more open and move your tongue around? I mean do you just like do the wave with it haha, or do you like go side to side..soo confused haha, let me know

It'll all come naturally...there's no "rules" on how to and how not to! =)

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Hey ok so tommrow my aunts ( 3 ofthem) and 2 of my cousins are going out to lunch then getting our nails done for my Grandmother Birthday. I was thinking about wearing a navy blue abercormie and fitch polo and a demin short skirt. Do you think it would be ok for this, any more suggestions?


Thanks

aww that would be cute!! =)

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I have wavey shoulder length hair and for awhile now I've been using hair gel to keep my waves tight and frizz free. It's worked well for awhile but my hair is untouchable and crunchy. Does anyone have any other suggestions on types of products to use for my hair? I would like to maintain my tight waves and frizz free hair as best as possible. Thanks to all who answer.

I rate. :)

hairstraightener or a shampoo *straight n sleek* from bath n body works is really good!

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im a teenage girl who truly hates her parents to death. They've both cheated on each other, and not just once. They dont think or care about me or my careless little 9 year old brother. They have me in the middle hoping i'll pick or protect one of them, and they've said no matter who i pick, i'll still lose one of them and wont get to see them ever again, but their both literally whores. Worst thing is, i suffer from severe depression, and i cut myself, sometimes to much and sometimes to deep, i've taken 2 overdoses, but have ended up getting the pills pumped out, i might as well kill myself, but i've decided to go 2 my home country, the Dominican Republic, to do high school over there, i no i shouldn't be trying to escape my problems, but it's better than commiting suicide, wat else can i do? Can someone please help? I dont think im a freak, just misunderstood. Please write back

See a specialist...seriously!

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My mom keeps on intruding on my life. Heres a perfect example: Im sure some of you have an AOL screen name right?? For instant messaging? Well, I have it. And it has something called a log manager whice saves all of my conversations. So anyways, She READS MY MESSAGES I SEND TO PEOPLE. And then shes like, "YOU SWEAR TOO MUCH YOUR BANNED FROM IT!" And ITS SO GAY. AND IM FURIOUS. SOMEONE HELP ME!

hmm...talk with her and explain to her that you need your privacy and tell her that you're pretty sure she wouldn't want someone doing that to her.

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The other nite me and my boyfriend got "comfortable." He ate me out, but soon after i started bleeding. it wasnt my period because i already had it. whats wrong?
*lyss*

hmm...that's a good question! I have never heard of that happening to anyone. Spotting is something I have heard of that occurs in between your periods (or can possibly happen) shouldn't be too worried about it tho!

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Does the ouija board really work?bb

no silly..haha!

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Hey you guys,
My boyfriend, Jesse, is in California to see his sister. He's supposed to be gone for (9) days, and so far there is (6) more days til he gets back. I wanna do something special for him when he comes back. But what? If you have any ideas, do share! Thx!
*Much love, Stay true*
~*~Missc~*~

Go out to dinner, rent a few movies that you know are his favorites, snuggle up together..just spend a lil' quality time with him..=)

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HOW THE HELL DO YOU KNOW ALL OF THIS SHIT???? NOBODY WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU!!!! THANKS PLEZ GET BACK TO ME ON THAT ASAP!!!!

Mark

A lil' thing called experience... ♥

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Ok, Like i usally wear a size 3 in jeanes, but latley my thighs have gotten so big, that i have had to start wearing a 7!Is there anyhitn ghtta can make my thighs any smaller?And also, I wouldn'y mind losing my pooch either.I rate high!

♥ try running or walking..?

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