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hey everyone im a gurl and i was just wondering ummm... ok is it spose to hurt when you are getting fingered because it hurt but it felt good at the same time this is a really embarassing question but please help me if u can
~annonymous~
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This is not what I would call masterbation but since this has already happened young men may not be very gentle when they get excited. You should be honest with that person about it. Maybe you should wait about having sex until you discover it for yourself. Don't let peer pressure influence you. You can decide for yourself. You will get all kinds of advice but you are responsible for your body. It is sad that you didn't ask about this before it happened. :-(
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it may hurt at first, cuz he might have broken the skin. But, you need to relax, and usually it wont hurt as much.
hope i helped
XO LiZ OX
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yes its hurts cause hes making you wider
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ya if its your 1st time.
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the reason it hurts is because ytou've never had anything that big inside you before, so after you do it a coupld of time it should feel way better....rem the first time u used a big tampon.lol wmb if you need more information or better information at bigJ2009
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Um........is it your first time?
its going to hurt the first time yes
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Oh I know how you feel sometimes it does hurt. It's not you fault that just means the person who is fingering you is doing something wrong. IF it starts to hurt puss them away in a sexual way and do something else. Then later you can try it again.
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yes it's supposed to hurt and feel good. it hurts because you have .. i guess a sensitive spot down there but the rubbing makes it better.
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well it will hurt at first. but if it still hurts then take it carefully. there might be a hangnail or something. but if it still hurts then have it checked.
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Okay, it's not really supposed to HURT. Is he using more than one finger? If so, you might be just a little too "tight" for that right now - ask him to use just one.
Or, penetration isn't even completely necessary. I mean, that's the "idea", but it sometimes feels better if the guy does more clitoral stimulation than vaginal. Get him to try that. You might like it better, too.
Also, check his fingernails. If they're long, he could end up scratching you, and that could definitely cause a bit of pain. Make him cut them...lol. He may resent it, but you sure as heck won't!
Try these few things - all tried and true. Hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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tell the guy to ease up a little and do it gentler...so its more pleasurable for you. then as you get more comfortable...you might be ok with him going a little faster.
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