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sry to ask..
ok im a young female...i know a lot the basics and terms about sex and whatever, and i know im not ready to do it, but i dont know like how it works. is it weird that i wana watch porn, not to get horny from it, but just to see how its done? is it wrong? dont say im too young to watch it, but its bugging me of thinking about how to do it (even though i wont for many more years). just help me please. thanks.
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personally i think it would be good to watch one that has people doing it and like a close up soo you know how to when the time comes i can tell you quickly the quy touches you down there and finds the hole and puts it in and yeah or he just sticks it down there and when it goes in he starts to have sex with you but if you dont understand or need more advice e-mail me at bigJ2009
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Nah that's fine. The more you watch, the more experience you slowly gain while being a virgin, so your first time will be a lot better.
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its fine to be curious about things of the sexual nature but watching a porno is not going help you understand things. you should ask your parents for some help understanding stuff a little better __<3
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there is not really a right way to have sex you just follow what the other person is doing oh and no it is not bad to watch porn just to see how sex is done but really what you would get from watching porn is tips
here is some ways how to get started
1. start making out
2. undo the guys pants
3. take off your shirt
4. he will probley take off his shirt
5. lay down
6. slide the rest of your cloths off
7. (keep on your bra)that is the dudes job he takes that off
8. slide his pants down
9. let him get on top of you
10. spread your legs open
11.you know what else
i hope i helped
jessica
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I dont see why its wrong that you want to watch porn to see it, although I dont think you should. Since you are young you will have plenty of time to learn about it.
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yeah thats fine if you just wanna see how its done.
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no it's not weird. you are just worried that when the time comes you won't know what to do. it's perfectly fine.
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I believe you will find everything you could posibly want on this site (and then some) :)
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Hello there,
Learning sex from porn is a lot like learning romance from a soap-opera. They are both completely made-up and have nothing to do with reality.
I strongly advise you to look into more educational pursuits. The internet is loaded with info, but finding it just as you have asked it here is difficult.
Sex-ed books/videos are your best bet for learning the actual physics of sex. The act itself isn't very complicated.
Sex-ed books and books for married couples can show you how all the bits fit together, but you should be aware that 98% of the good part of sex is in your head.
There is some good info in this "first time" quiz:
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... I will tell you straight-out that watching porn before you understand how it is supposed to be will set you up for a lifetime of dissapointment and regret.
Sex isn't like it is in porn, and more than romances are like they are in the movies.
Look at the people around you, they act like everything works the same as their favorite filmed romances... and are crushed, over and over and over again when thing don't turn out like the movies.
Same thing.
Real life is very different.
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I went looking for a sex-ed video that didn't have a political swing to it, but just the birds and bees facts are layed out, like we got in school.
The only place that you don't have to pay, and get all the info are the sex-ed films from the past as held at archive.org
Nothing has changed since these films were made. It is amazing how honestly they just tell the facts without any social bull.
So how does sex work?
Here's one:
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Another:
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Another:
A few more in a list. Be careful, some stuff is bad.
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It is amazing how much has changed, and how much hasn't changed.
DangerNerd.
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well, i fully understand your concerns about not knowing how its done but honestly, porn isnt how everyone does it. girls dont usually get earthquaking orgasms from super rough stuff. i suggest looking in actual health-based books that tell you the stuff involved so you know the information and dont get people on your back for watching porn. i know a lot of people on this site say there's nothing wrong with watching it but in reality, people do care and it gets around. let me know if you need anything else. <3
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Porn isn't always addictive. I watch it every now and then, without getting 'addicted'.
I don't think it's a bad thing. I've downloaded porn on the computer since I was like...in middle school. Not regularly, but every few months.
I think by watching porn, it does help you know what to do. Of course, don't follow porns 100%, because a lot of times they're fake and unsafe (with birth control and all). Buuuut, you get the main idea of things. Then you can just use what they did, daydream it yourself to spice it up a bit and make it different, and when you're ready to have sex, you're not going to be so clueless as to what to do.
I don't think it's a bad thing. Just as long as it doesn't make you want to go out and have sex when you're not ready. Definately wait until you're ready and comfortable with doing those things with some one.
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well its not good to watch porn if you're really curious about then you should probably ask someone ..
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