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im 13 i live in indiana i love listening to music and hanging with friends i hate when people say id die if i didnt know you .. no you wouldnt .. my favorite band is atreyu
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Okay so theres this really creepy older guy that is living common low with another woman and is always hitting on me. He honks at me when he drives by in his car (which is almost every day)and has called me cutie when he was on his bike.
This one time he came into my work ( I was receptionist) and started asking me how old I was, where I lived, and then told me I looked really good and he wanted to phone me. I told the staff and they were going to phone the cops, but he never came in again so they never called them.
He is a total sleaze, I talked to one of his kids once and they said that he's fathered nine sons by nine different woman.
Other people have told me he his really mean to his wife. He has spent time in jail and was banned from the place I worked for harassing other people.
At first I just laughed off his behavior but It is really beginning to bother me. I don't want to tell him to stop honking at me and stuff because I don't want to piss him off but also don't want him to think I like him.
What should I do? (link)
this guy sounds like the type that might rape someone .. you need to call the cops and tell them whats going on they could probably help you


Everbody in my school think im a cutter and im not i swear. but i get really depressed and my friends no it and then they tell everyone im a cutter how do i get them to know that im not a cutter (link)
ok wow i know exactly how you feel you just need to tell them you're not and if that doesnt work learn to block it all out i learned to do that after a while its hard but after a while it doesnt hurt so much anymore


so my grandma likes to beat me with uncooked bacon is this normal i really need some advice... thankz (link)
what?!? no thats not normal in anyway it doesnt matter what shes beating you with its still beating you .. you need to talk to someone like a school counsler and tell him whats going on .. it could really help


ok this is kinda icky but its a needed ? ok is it ok for older people say 13-15 to doing anything sexual (i.e. masturbate ; hump ; have sex with ) with younger kids say 4-6 ?? i really need an answer i have done it before and it felt great but i dont know if its alright to do again please answer (link)
no its not right to do that to a little kid in a way its kinda like rape because they dont know its its wrong


one of my roomates is a vegan and is always yelling at me and my other roomates for eating meat so one day i got really mad and just stuck one of her carrots up my anal cavity and put it back in the fridge ... the next day i saw her eating it .. should i tell her i did this or just leave it alone please help (link)
well you should probably tell her she might get really mad but she needs to know


ok so my best friend is one of the awesomest people in the world and i love her to death .. she got this new advice thing and it is awesome i just want to hug her .. what should i do?? (link)
well i say you should invite her over for some cheesy popcorn and then give her a hug!!


i have 2 questions...
1. what is the law about dating a person over 18 if your a minor? some people say its not illegal till u have sex some say its if you touch in any sexual way even kissing
2. i am 15 and the guy i like is 18 is that soo bad....

help if you can (link)
ok first off its illegal to date an 18 year old if you're still a minor no matter what and if you do want to do something with him you should think of the consiquences first


ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
i rated high for good answers (link)
masturbating has nothing to do with you not starting your period yet. all people start at different times.


ok well i really like this guy and he wants me to go over his house and i want to (hes been to my house before and lets say me n him kissed **a few times**)but everytime he hangs out with a girl something happens weather its just a kiss or sex. and i wouldnt have a problem with this but after i found out that he only likes me as a friend and that he likes my cousin things changed...a few weeks ago before i found out that he didnt like me or before i found out that he liked my cousin he told me he wanted to finger me and i said ok but now that he likes my cousin should i go over his house when i no something is gonna happen? (link)
no .. just forget about him those kinds of guys arent worth the time of day


ok im a young female...i know a lot the basics and terms about sex and whatever, and i know im not ready to do it, but i dont know like how it works. is it weird that i wana watch porn, not to get horny from it, but just to see how its done? is it wrong? dont say im too young to watch it, but its bugging me of thinking about how to do it (even though i wont for many more years). just help me please. thanks. (link)
well its not good to watch porn if you're really curious about then you should probably ask someone ..


Ok well this is a little gross so sorry if u get grossed out,,,,,,,,
okay well i think i have those little worms im not sure what there called i think like pinworms or inch worms or something. I know i have them though because i saw them. They are really uncomfortable!!! Ahh its like hell. I havent told anyone yet cause its kinda embarrasing. My question is this...is it like a serious thing? should i tell someone right away? or is there something i can do to make them go away? also they only seem to bother me in the night, is that usual? well thanks for any help! (link)
you should probably tell someone like your mom anything in you that shouldnt be needs to be checked out


so yeah this might be a long story so apologies in advance xx
ma best boy mate *bob* told me that he was bisexual and he also told him best male friend *fred*. ... btw he hasnt told his family because he dad is extremely (sp?) homophobic aslo fred is really homophobic, he hates bob for it but i cant see a problem. but why do i feel so heartbroken? i mean me and bob are very close friends and we talk about anything. i burst into tears. but i have a huuuge crush on fred :| and i had to tell bob. i was going to get with fred at a party on monday. i just feel so stuck in the middle, bob hates fred and never wants to speak to him again, but i like fred.
what should i do?
-stuck in the middle :(
xxx (link)
stay with bob i know how it feels to find out that someone close to you is bi besides fred is just an asshole to ruin a friendship just because hes racist hope i helped


Hey advicenators! =P

What do you think should be the curfew for a 15 year old girl? I'm asking this because I'm going to the movies with my guy friend and my parents want me home at 10pm. I'm a very trustworthy person and I WON'T have sex with him, that's for sure. He's only a friend. I'm kinda pissed about this because I want to stay out later, but they're strict & say only 10pm. I know I'm lucky because some kids can't even go out with friends yet. But, what do you guys think? Thanks. (link)
i say you should talk to your parents explain to them that you are responsible enough and you wont make any decisions that you know aren't good for you




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