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i no its gonna happen


Question Posted Saturday October 15 2005, 12:56 pm

ok well i really like this guy and he wants me to go over his house and i want to (hes been to my house before and lets say me n him kissed **a few times**)but everytime he hangs out with a girl something happens weather its just a kiss or sex. and i wouldnt have a problem with this but after i found out that he only likes me as a friend and that he likes my cousin things changed...a few weeks ago before i found out that he didnt like me or before i found out that he liked my cousin he told me he wanted to finger me and i said ok but now that he likes my cousin should i go over his house when i no something is gonna happen?

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Jessica13 answered Sunday October 16 2005, 4:21 pm:
Don't believe roomers
and if the roomers are true then give him blue balls and then walk away
blue balls are where you get a guy really horny and is penius starts to cramp up and the only way to get the pain to go away is to have sex or masturbate

trust me it will be so funny but remember walk away when he gets blue balls let him suffer lol

i hope i helped
jessica

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Vendetta answered Saturday October 15 2005, 11:36 pm:
No. He isn't worth your time.

I hate womanizers.

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whataloverrr answered Saturday October 15 2005, 8:56 pm:
no .. just forget about him those kinds of guys arent worth the time of day

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 6:43 pm:
No.. he`s an asshole.. what kind of guy does that.. find somebody else.. ♥ Dez

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MrsStevenMarkJones answered Saturday October 15 2005, 4:23 pm:
if i was you, i wouldnt give him the time of day. and if you do go over, don't let anythign happen. he is just using you to either a: get to your cousin by you telling her good things about what he and you did, or b: just using you for his own sexual pleasure. girl, your above that. i dont know you but i know that you are way above that. if he likes your cousin then oh well his loss on not liking you. you will find others. trust me on that one. it may seem horrible now and that you will never like some oen in that way again but trust me, you will. i said hte same thing with every guy i have ever liked and look at me now, engaged to be married. things will work out and you will get your happy ending. but seriously, if i was you i wouldnt do anything with him. good luck and drop me a line if you need mroe help.

the future mrs steven mark jones

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JuiiCy-x-3 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 3:53 pm:
well-

all he wants is sex. - - if he doesn't like you just as a friend and you guys end up having sex then that's all he wants.


i don't think you should.

but it's of course your choice

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Courtney answered Saturday October 15 2005, 2:09 pm:
No you shouldn't go over to his house. If you want a man, you should want all of him. Not only part of him. And only part of him really wants you and the other half might want your cousin or somebody else that he covets. He isn't worth that because he just really isn't special enough for that. He can't have it both ways. Why would you want him to have it both ways. You want to have all of him to yourself as he should want to have all of you, and only you, to his self. And he doesn't. Believe me, honey, he isn't worth the time. Just wait. You will find that someone who wants you and only you and every inch of you. You will find them it just will take more time. You'll find that when you're not expecting it, that that's when it'll hit you. Just wait. He isn't the one. He's , well you know, you just can't make it meant to be with him. You may want him to be , but you know he's not. Don't waste your time on him. Or your pride.

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GDROB2 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 2:04 pm:
You are a smart girl being played for a fool and so is your cousin if she lets him into your life. He plays girls like a fiddle so you better get rid of him and tell your cousin to beware. He is out for one thing to get into your pants and into the pants of your cousin by using you to get to her. Kiss Him Goodbye with the kiss of death both of you.

Keep your pants firmly zipped up and if you need to feel the effects of fingering you know how to on your own. He's not worthy of being able to do something that intimate with you. You are being used as a piece of meat by him and better learn fast he's after your body and nothing else.

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afro_timmy answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:32 pm:
well as long as him and your cousin arent actually dating whats wrong in having fun? just make sure that he doesnt want to do stuf with you if he ever gets with your cousin. sounds like he has sex with everygirl he knows or something so be carefull lol

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Lyfe8allbad answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:10 pm:
This is something i went through once. I decided not to interact because you never may know if your cousin may like him. Also, wat if you do go over there and yall do have sex. You can engage with diseases or pregnancy. You have to think of all eonsequences. YOu going over his house knowing that he doesn't like you is saying i dont care if he don't like me i'm just going to do him cause i went to. That makes it seem like your easy. Don't ruin your reputation.

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karenR answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:03 pm:
If you don't think you can resist temptation then I will have to say don't go to his house.

Girls need to know a guy really cares before having sex with them (most of us anyway).

Boys, a lot of them anyway, don't seem to need those feelings first. I think he might just use you to get to your cousin.

Find you a guy who really cares about YOU before you get all involved like that. :)

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