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cutting
Everbody in my school think im a cutter and im not i swear. but i get really depressed and my friends no it and then they tell everyone im a cutter how do i get them to know that im not a cutter
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ok wow i know exactly how you feel you just need to tell them you're not and if that doesnt work learn to block it all out i learned to do that after a while its hard but after a while it doesnt hurt so much anymore
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Show them your wrists
or whatever area that they think your cutting. If your not a cuttter than you won't have the scars anywhere.
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well this may sound gay but fake a smile. Honestly just be fake as barbie. Dont let people know it bothers you and tell your friends to screw off cuz theyre not true theyre lying immature people.
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I agree with what every other reply has been. Show them your "cuts". If there aren't any, you have no problem, but if you have scars in general, explain what they're from.
Tell them you don't appreciate it when they lie about you.
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Well, if you were a cutter which you claim you're not, then you would have open wounds or scars correct? The next time someone says something like that to you just respond by saying something to sort of similar to this "If I were a cutter I would have scars and be bleeding and stuff. Here look at my arms and legs do I have cut marks? No. Why, might you ask. Well, that's because I AM NOT A CUTTER." If they continue to taunt you it is probably because they know that it gets to you and that they can push your buttons. If they are your "real" friends,you can take them aside and let them know how much this is bothering you. They should stop if they are worth anything.
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pretend like you have no ide what a cutter is, i know it sounds dumb but it seriously might work, u know what i mean right? like pretend you have NO idea what they are talking about and ask someone like what it is, but if you dont want to do that, just ignore, if you really arent it shouldnt bother you and you shouldnt let it, i hope everything works out well : )
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wear short sleeve shirts and skirts. show off the arms and legs and show that you are not cutting. out side of that, tell them to fuck off (pardon my language) but it isnt any of thier business. the way i see it is this, if people want to spread false rumors about you cutting yourself, then they are bored with their own pathetic lives. dont let it bother you. if an adult asks you about it maybe tell them "hey its not true" but don't go changing yourself to accomadate your freinds ok? best of luck and drop me a line if you need mroe help.
the future mrs steven mark jones
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However cold it is tommorow, go to school in a spaghetti strap shirt and short shorts. Show them your arms, show them your legs. Roll up you shirt and show them your stomach. They will see no scars, and you can tell them that that proves you to not be a cutter. If they still accuse you of it, ask them where the results would be. They will be dumbfounded.
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