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I love basketball. I have a small family and tons of friends. I am tall for my height and i play basketball, soccer, swimming, volleyball, and sometimes tennis with my dad.
Gender: Female
Location: California
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Age: 13
AIM: swishchick53/LPhottie1568/LOLCLaguna
Member Since: October 15, 2005
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Last Update: October 30, 2005
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
try going to his house to talk to him in his face!

he will pay attention! if he trys to get away get firm with him but not so much that will scare him away from you!


What is a good birthday present to give to my boyfriend?? im all out all ideas (link)
did u try a red rose or somthing big that he will remeber you by for forever!!

please rate


k well i got my period on the 13th (right before i went to bed.) this is not my first period; i've had it since march. anyway, i went to bed and in the morning i woke up and there was no blood on the pad. when i got home from school, there was no blood either. and the NEXT morning there wasn't either. i haven't seen it since then. what happened? are periods THAT short? (link)
no they are not
It is just a pattern. That has happened to me
I have not gotten my priod for more then a month ! Don't worry it will come back soon enough!


ok thers this boy i like, hes rele nice, and he knows i like him and i sorta asked today of he liked me through a note and here are some things i noticed:
1. he anwered the note quickly, like he knew exactly what he was gonna say
2. when he was leaning in his chair, he said that if he fell he would hold onto me (it sounded so romantic when he said it)
3.when the bell rang, he waited for me in the stairwell
4. when we were walking down the stairs, he was wlaking close to me, even though there was plenty of room
5. in last period, he offered to switch seats with the person next to me and kept touching my hand the whole period, he kept saying it was an accident but i dont think it was.

does it seem like he like me? i have a really strong feeling he does but i need it to be confirmed. will rate! nellie (link)
I have a feeling that he does like a lot. Same thing happened to me. I have a friend who likes me and whenever i go over to his house he sits close to me he even told my firends he likes me. So i would say that he does like you. Just give it some time!


Well there a girl I really like and we have been awsome friends. I want to tell her the way I truly feel about her, but I don't want to make anything more akward then they are, and ruin our friendship. It already came close to being decimated, and so whats the best way to let it out. (link)
well u might want to try to ask her over the phone or take her somewhere private where the only thing she can do is ignore you! I have a friend who is going to ask me out but has not yet and i think it is beause he is to shy! Just try toi break it to her slowly


I ran a mile in 7minutes and 52seconds. (15/f)

Is that good? (link)
That is awesome! I can do that! I think it is an acomplishment to runa mile in that short of time! If u want to u can try to go for something faster then that like 6:30. set a goal for yourself! yay good job very proud


I'm having my 13th birthday party (don't worry.. my bday was 1 month ago so im legal) in two weeks.
We're having 6 of my bestfriends over to my house for a sleepover. We're going to be watching movies, eating, cake, presents, and my friend is bringing a butt ton of makeover stuff.. basically everything on god's green earth.
I need one more big activity. like the main one.
Any good, simple, realistic ideas?
No boys. My parents said that upfront.
Thanks! (link)
Maybe you can go out to dinner and go to somewhere fancy. After all this is your 13th birthday the only 13th birthday you will ever have so you need to make it special and plus you are finally becoming a teen so you need to be able to remember this for the rest of ur life. I remember for my friends 13th we go all dressed up and went to San Francisco to a a pizza place then went home to watch a movie! Just an idea. Think about it ! ok


Hey, I'm pretty skinny (95 lbs), but I want to get abs. If I did 100 crunches a night, would that do it, and if it would, how long do you think it would take? Thank you!!! (link)
I definently think that if u want abs you should at least 40 crunches a night for aas long as you need to. I think that 100 is a little to much to do a night but just start with 40 and see if u need to do more then maybe do 5 more a week!
K


i have a toothache and is there anyway i can get it to stop hurting before i get to the dentist? (link)
Well there is no way to make it stop hurting other then talk to your dentist or ortho and see what they can do for u. Perhaps u have a tooth growing in. If so it is perfectly normal for that to happen! Don't waorry!


Okay, any time I'm around a guy I like, I either:
1) Blush really, really bad.
OR
2) Act stupid, maybe even mean (to him), because I'm nervous.

Since I really don't want this guy to think I'm crazy, is there anything I can do to make me less nervous? Thanks! (link)
Well it is like talking to a dad or something like that! Same thing used to happen to me . Try to bring up a small conversation about say something he likes to do in his spare time. Eventually you will start to settle down and he will know u are not crazy!


i died my hair and it was suppose to be dark brown but it came out as dark dark black.. my natural hair is black but my hair now looks 10 times worse ...my question is what can i do to make it lighter again... if i die it again will it work ? and (link)
the same thing happened to my sister. Her hair turned red/orange. Might i say u might want to try to go to a beauty salon and ask them what they can do to make it lighter. That is what my sister did and it halped out a lot!




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