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I act so stupid!
Okay, any time I'm around a guy I like, I either:
1) Blush really, really bad.
OR
2) Act stupid, maybe even mean (to him), because I'm nervous.
Since I really don't want this guy to think I'm crazy, is there anything I can do to make me less nervous? Thanks!
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It sounds as if you are psyching yourself out. Relax. Calm down. Take a few deep breaths. It might help (at least with the acting stupid part)
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Become his friend..just start with a little hi or hello and work from there and once ur comfy with hello start into little conversations ..dont worry i am the exact same way well just about the blushin:) i duno it worked for me so i hope it will work for you GOOD luck!!!!
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Well it is like talking to a dad or something like that! Same thing used to happen to me . Try to bring up a small conversation about say something he likes to do in his spare time. Eventually you will start to settle down and he will know u are not crazy!
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aww that happens to so many girls hun! what i think you should do is maybe start talking to guys with some of your friens so you feel more like yourself, and won't have any akward silences cuz you and your friend can just keep up the conversation together..another way to help yourself feel less nervous is to just act like the guy is one of your good guy friends and just treat him like he's a good guy friend.
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just picture him being one of your girlfriends, with a skirt and everything, haha just kidding...about the skirt....mostly cause youd laugh too hard, but seriously i know, trust me i know its wierd talking to guys you like, but how else will you get to know them, have fun and good luck<33
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Try not to think about how nervous you are. Try finding something in common and go from there. It is much easier doing something with the person and keeping your mind off of your nervousiness. Actuall I was the same way when I met this guy I really like. I just tryed to talk to them like I would my friends. Maybe if you talked to him with your friends around. Maybe you are nervous because its you and him. If you have a group of friends around it may help. It helped me.
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Try not to think about how nervous you are. Try finding something in common and go from there. It is much easier doing something with the person and keeping your mind off of your nervousiness. Actuall I was the same way when I met this guy I really like. I just tryed to talk to them like I would my friends. Maybe if you talked to him with your friends around. Maybe you are nervous because its you and him. If you have a group of friends around it may help. It helped me.
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that's totally normal. i think you should juss realize that you can't really stop yourself from blushing er anything, but juss be yourself. you shouldn't really be nervous, because then he doesn't see you as yourself, but as a nervous wreck & you don't want that. juss take deep breaths b4 you talk to him er w/e & it should work out. you need to realize that the more you're around him, the less nervous you'll be.
-hope that helped!♥
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