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Confused


Question Posted Tuesday October 18 2005, 9:09 pm

Well there a girl I really like and we have been awsome friends. I want to tell her the way I truly feel about her, but I don't want to make anything more akward then they are, and ruin our friendship. It already came close to being decimated, and so whats the best way to let it out.

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Additional info, added Tuesday October 18 2005, 9:10 pm:
Also my ex is now getting more involved and I don't want that to affect things..

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onlyme answered Friday December 30 2005, 3:05 pm:
Well I always see people with the friend thing but want more problem, as I call it. I think that you just need to tell her how you feel, if you guys are friends then it should be easy. If she says she dosen't feel the same way then you just will have to get over it. sometimes knowing someone that long just won't work out. but other times it does. Well these friend things can get confussing bet i hope I helped a little.

Anna<3

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urmomsachltcvrddnt answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 10:41 am:
Yeah, it could very well ruin your friendship. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't like her. Flirt with her a little, and see how she reacts. There is no real way to tell if she likes you back besides asking her. Get a friend of hers or yours to ask her all casually, like, "Hey, would you ever consider going out with ___? You two would make a cute couple...." or something like that.

hope i helped!

!~*becca*~!

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Avakian answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 3:36 am:
Just tell her. And in person. It's hard, it puts your friendship at risk, but do you want to look back in several years and ask, "What could have been?"

And even if she doesn't feel that way about you, that doesn't mean your friendship will suddenly end. Oh, and your ex? She's your ex. Why should she care if you date someone new?

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XmeXohXmie answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 10:31 pm:
Aww, I like my best guy friend and I wish he would tell me if he likes me or not..tell her. For me.

<333

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hotlips251968 answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 10:04 pm:
be playful with her. play truth or dare. ask her if she has ever thought about you in a way other then friends. tell her to be truthful. if yes then tell her you like her. if she says no then ask her wht she thinks about you liking her. if she says i like you to then ask her out. if she says im sorry i just wanna be friends then say well i do like you but since you feel that way then maybe we should just be friends.

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LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 9:58 pm:
im in the situation right now...my guy friend likes me but he's waiting to tell me. i say tell her...dont spill your heart out just say you wanna be really close. your ex needs to take a hike and leave you with who you like. tell her in a special way like at homecomming or a dance or somthing. goodluck & hope it all works out for you. <3

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Lagunafreakazoid answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 9:49 pm:
well u might want to try to ask her over the phone or take her somewhere private where the only thing she can do is ignore you! I have a friend who is going to ask me out but has not yet and i think it is beause he is to shy! Just try toi break it to her slowly

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