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heartbroken
so yeah this might be a long story so apologies in advance xx
ma best boy mate *bob* told me that he was bisexual and he also told him best male friend *fred*. ... btw he hasnt told his family because he dad is extremely (sp?) homophobic aslo fred is really homophobic, he hates bob for it but i cant see a problem. but why do i feel so heartbroken? i mean me and bob are very close friends and we talk about anything. i burst into tears. but i have a huuuge crush on fred :| and i had to tell bob. i was going to get with fred at a party on monday. i just feel so stuck in the middle, bob hates fred and never wants to speak to him again, but i like fred.
what should i do?
-stuck in the middle :(
xxx
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Stay with Bob. Tell Fred that Bob is still the same exact person he was before he mentioned he was bi, only now he isn't hiding a big secret from him. If Fred is an asshole about it, he isn't the kind of guy you want to hang out with.
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Try to make Fred understand that Bob is still the same person no matter what his sexual orientation. And if Fred says he's afraid Bob's going to get a crush on him or something stupid like that just because Bob likes guys, ask Fred if he crushes on every single girl he sees. When he says no, tell him that the same goes for someone who is bisexual, and that he probably isn't bob's type anyway.
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stay with bob i know how it feels to find out that someone close to you is bi besides fred is just an asshole to ruin a friendship just because hes racist hope i helped
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Stay with Bob. Fred is just a bigot and an asshole for ruining a friendship over something so stupid. Don't you ruin a friendship either over feelings though. You claim that Bob is your best boy mate, so you should stick by his side, not try and go after Fred. Hopefully things will end up working out between the two, but they may not. Just stick by Bob's side, that's the best thing you could do.
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