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Creepy old pervert always hits on me


Question Posted Monday October 17 2005, 1:53 am

Okay so theres this really creepy older guy that is living common low with another woman and is always hitting on me. He honks at me when he drives by in his car (which is almost every day)and has called me cutie when he was on his bike.
This one time he came into my work ( I was receptionist) and started asking me how old I was, where I lived, and then told me I looked really good and he wanted to phone me. I told the staff and they were going to phone the cops, but he never came in again so they never called them.
He is a total sleaze, I talked to one of his kids once and they said that he's fathered nine sons by nine different woman.
Other people have told me he his really mean to his wife. He has spent time in jail and was banned from the place I worked for harassing other people.
At first I just laughed off his behavior but It is really beginning to bother me. I don't want to tell him to stop honking at me and stuff because I don't want to piss him off but also don't want him to think I like him.
What should I do?


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XoNeLLiE143oX answered Monday October 17 2005, 3:52 pm:
ok, you really should report him for harrassment or get a restraining order or something because, not to scare you or anything, but something like this happened to my uncle, he kept getting harrases by this guy he had to fire at work and the guy ultimatley ended up murdering him...so yea its best to take care of this now before it gets any worse. hope i helped! nellie <33
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Vendetta answered Monday October 17 2005, 3:06 pm:
You should get a restraining order put on him if he doesn't leave you alone. Seriously.

There are many things this guy could do to you if you guys ever were in semi-private. Make sure this never happens.

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whataloverrr answered Monday October 17 2005, 10:12 am:
this guy sounds like the type that might rape someone .. you need to call the cops and tell them whats going on they could probably help you

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XmeXohXmie answered Monday October 17 2005, 7:21 am:
Uhh, I would think the police could help. You never no what this guy might do. He sounds really sick to me. He could try to rape you or something. This is beyond a web sites or your help.

Hope it Helps and Good Luck!

<333,
Melanie

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MelikoDee answered Monday October 17 2005, 4:19 am:
Your safety is very important, therefore I would suggest taking some sort of a self-defense class as a 'just in case'. Also, depending on where you live, you can see this 'gentleman's' criminal record to assess his past. Make sure you tell someone he is bothering you, whether it is a friend or a family member, in case of anything.

Just don't let him approach you. Walk away or walk in the other direction. He'll get it. If he doesn't, then this guy may be a danger and it would be best for you to report harrassment.

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