Okay so theres this really creepy older guy that is living common low with another woman and is always hitting on me. He honks at me when he drives by in his car (which is almost every day)and has called me cutie when he was on his bike.
This one time he came into my work ( I was receptionist) and started asking me how old I was, where I lived, and then told me I looked really good and he wanted to phone me. I told the staff and they were going to phone the cops, but he never came in again so they never called them.
He is a total sleaze, I talked to one of his kids once and they said that he's fathered nine sons by nine different woman.
Other people have told me he his really mean to his wife. He has spent time in jail and was banned from the place I worked for harassing other people.
At first I just laughed off his behavior but It is really beginning to bother me. I don't want to tell him to stop honking at me and stuff because I don't want to piss him off but also don't want him to think I like him.
What should I do?
XmeXohXmie answered Monday October 17 2005, 7:21 am: Uhh, I would think the police could help. You never no what this guy might do. He sounds really sick to me. He could try to rape you or something. This is beyond a web sites or your help.
MelikoDee answered Monday October 17 2005, 4:19 am: Your safety is very important, therefore I would suggest taking some sort of a self-defense class as a 'just in case'. Also, depending on where you live, you can see this 'gentleman's' criminal record to assess his past. Make sure you tell someone he is bothering you, whether it is a friend or a family member, in case of anything.
Just don't let him approach you. Walk away or walk in the other direction. He'll get it. If he doesn't, then this guy may be a danger and it would be best for you to report harrassment. [ MelikoDee's advice column | Ask MelikoDee A Question ]
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