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How to explain this to him
hEy please help me if you can.! Okay, well ive been going out with the same guy for 7 months and im 13 if that means n e thing. We've done everything but sex, but im in love with him. The bad thing is that i dont do that stuff with him n e more bc i guess i dont feel a connection. I know he is in love me but how do i go about telling him that i dont want to be with him anymore? Im only 13 i want to go out with other ppl..also i think i just want to go on break with him..how should i go about telling him that?? PleAsE heLP! I know this is going to break his heart but i would rather do this than cheat on him!
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Honey you're 13, you really can't love someone in a way that would make it last until you both die. Explain to him that you're young and you need some time. He might say he's in love with you, but at your age neither of you know what it means to really love someone. Just tell him that you feel your heart has gone out of the relationship. He'll understand that you've lost interest, which is understandable at your age. Of course he'll be hurt, but you have to remember that you can't control his reactions. Just explain to him how you feel and if he's hurt, then he's hurt. He will get over you, it might take him a week or two, or more depending on his tendency to depend on people. He will get over you. It sounds selfish, but sometimes you have to do what's best for you.
~Luna
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Just tell him. Don't drag it out, you're only making things worse.
The nicest thing to do would be to tell him to his face that it's just not working out. However, if you can't do that, phone or internet. But don't have someone else tell him. If you can't even tell him in person, definitely do not have another person do it for you. )= Hopefully something works out!
♥ Melissa
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Everything that you just told me is what you need to tell him. Tell him that you don't want to cheat on him and that you want to be honest and that your needs in this relationship aren't being met and that it's your responsibility to meet them. Or to make sure that they are met. Tell him that you're really sorry that it had to end this way and that you do care about his feelings. Tell him that he'll find someone who will love/like/care for him a whole lot better than you can. Tell him that he deserves more and he'll get it but you just can't give it to him. Just tell him simply that it wasn't meant to be. He'll understand it, and if he takes it hard, believe it or not, he will get over it. So just trust your instincts and tell him.
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the exact thing has happened to me im 13 too except it mite be difficult the guy that i went out with was the hardest one to dump ever jus tell him that ur too busy with doin school work and other stuff and that u jus want a break if he doesnt understand he will get over it eventually
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You should be straight-forward. What do you think would break his heart more? Honesty or cheating?
People learn to trust you more and completely when you are honest with them, even if it means hurting them. At least they know they can rely on you.
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