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He has someone else...
Im good at giving advice, but when it comes to my problems its alittle harder. Theres this boy, hes one grade unger me(hes a soph and im a junior) and me and him were hookin up, I found out he was still hooking up with his ex, and I was stupid and gave him another chance, it happened again, and now we dont even associate anymore, but for some reason I cant get over him. I try to show off in front of him in school, and try to take the ways I would see him. Why is it so hard for me to get over him? Im just so confused and I dont know what to do. Please help...
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girl im going through the same thing and i know exactly wat you mean, you cant help your feelings your feeling come from deep in your heart and nothing and noone can change that, i know why you took him back because you thought he would change but you kno obviously he didnt, his grl is a hoe anyways haha there isnt anything you can do to get over someone some people say start gettin wit other people to tell you the truth i honestly think that makes everything worse because things you do with another boy you just think of ur x, i dont mean anything sexual wise i mean hangin out hookin up w,e u may do, juss try not to talk to him if he tries talkin to you just avoid it, if you do eventually you will get over him
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Because you are a girl and for some odd reason that I've never been able to understand, girls lack the ability (for the most part) to stop wanting a guy despite what he has done to mistreat her in the past. Not much you can do about it other than realize what he has done to you, and know for a fact that he would do it again if you ever ended up dating once more.
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Its always gonna be hard to get over someone that you like so much that you couldnt imagine them with another person! Its gonna take some major time and if things dont work out for the better you should try to talk to him. It toom me over a year to get over someone that i cared about and was with for a long time but eventually i was okay to talk to him again and things recently became better between our friendship. I hoped i helped!
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Dear He has someone else,
Teen girl is right, after a while you will get over him. It's experiences like these that make us stronger. He isn't over his EX, obviously, or he wouldn't be with her. As long as you keep showing her that you cannot let him go, she is going to keep him on her leash. You gave him chances and he blew them, move on with your life, he is not worth your time. Who knows, maybe there is a guy that is worth your time right under your nose. You just cannot see him because you are too busy wanting what you cannot have. GOOD LUCK
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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It's just hard to get over people you really liked or loved. The showing off part is really common, but the only way you'll draw his attention is to just go on with your life, and do your own thing as if you've got something important to do. That will make him wonder why you aren't putting on a show for him anymore, and he'll think you are over him. People tend to enjoy it when another person likes them even though they don't feel the same. They like the way they try putting on shows for them because then they feel worth more. But, you just have to not make eye contact with him, and just walk right by him as if you didn't happen to see him. It will have him worried I bet. Act like you have been over him for a long time too, and then, before you know it, you'll actually be over him.
-TheTeenGirl
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