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shy girl-hot guy
ok well i really really really like this guy and i dont know if he likes me. i would love if you could give me some advice. ok well im really shy around guys i mean i have been rejected before and im not that kind of girl who will go up to a guy and be like hey want to go out sometime and that will just be like your really hot. i mean we kinda sorta talk on the bus and in between classes but were not bff's and so i really want to know what he thinks of me without having a friend tell and im scared im going to rejected again and i dont want that to happen ps im 13 and i also wont be like hey can i get your # type of thing i just really like him and i want him to like me i mean i flirt with him but i dunno i think hes shy too i dunno if he has an sn becuase i havent asked but im going to ask on monday so dont tell me to do that. anything will help just please help me!
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Just keep conversating with him, try to get closer, but dont look to into him because it will chase him away. While your talking to him bring up the subject of his phone number. Maybe one day you can plan for you and your friends to go the movies, and you can ask him if he wants to go or even ask one of your friends to ask him and his friends to go. Maybe sit next to him at the movies, and just get close. I hope I helped...
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there's only one thing you can really do. be his friend. friendships before relationships always work out better, because you know what?? if it doesn't work out as planned, you guys can still be friends =) juss try it. start talking to him more & then ask him if him & his friends want to hang out w/ you & your friends. totally innocent. that'd really be the best thing to do. if your friendship grows, maybe you'll see if you really like him er not, er if he really likes you er not. try whatever you can. don't be shy, because if you don't let him know, you'll be curious.
-hope that helped!♥
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I know that being rejected is a hard thing to face, but you can't run away from things because rejection might happen again. There is truly no other way to ask a guy out other than asking him. Does this guy know that you've been rejected? No. Does he know that you are scared of it? Probably not if you ask him. So why be scared, if he doesn't want to date you, then too bad for him. Believe it or not, there are tons of guys you'll go through until you get to the right one. You'll reject some guys, and some will reject you. But does that make you less of a person? Of course not. But it will if you just hide from it all of the time. Just open up a little more and at least have more of a conversation first. On the bus, talk to him. Ask him what grades hes usually making in school, ask him what he likes to do on his freetime. Just remember that you can't hide forever, so everytime you don't do something because rejection might be a possibility, then thats taking yourself out of the world. Nobody is perfect, everyone gets turned down on something.
-TheTeenGirl
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