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what do i do
Well there is this girl who likes me and turns out i like her to. We have only known each other for bout a month or a month and a half. I was actually talking to anther friend of mine and my friend lived with her a for little whil, And this girl wanted to talk to me. So we talked and it was quite intersting. Then here lately we been talking a good bit, we talked from like 10:30pm saturday til bout 4:00am. And I really want to go out with her but i got a few things that i think i ought to deal with as far as people before we do though. We aint actually going out yet but we sit there and say i love you like we do, And mean it in more than just a friendship way. My question is do you think i ought to go ahead and go out with her or get the few things as far as people took care of before i go out with her.
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id say take care of them before hand because then they wont roll into your relationship
then again she mihgt wna take part and try to help you..
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If you cantalk to her then you should tell about the few things as far as people. She might understand and might be able to help you. You should ask her out on a date and she what it is like first and if you are not comfortable then you should take care of things you need to.
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It depends on what those things you need to take care of are. If you need to divorce your wife, that would probably be very important to do before asking out this girl. If you have to mow the lawn, you can probably put that off til after you ask her out. Just figure out on a scale of 1 - 10 the importance, make asking out this girl a 7, and see which ones go above 7 and do them first. It is a fool proof plan.
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you need to get your problem fixed before going out with her so everythings perfect! hope i helped!
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If you want your relationship to work, then you have to deal with any prexisting distractions first. If you go into a relationship with unresolved issues, it can come back to haunt you. Especially if you really care for this girl. Wouldn't you want to show her the most healthy and available you? Always deal with things that can screw up a relationship first. It saves both you and her a lot of heartache.
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