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best friend whos more than a best friend to me
yo i have a friend (whos a girl) and im a dude (of course) and shes like my best friend, she helps me when i feel like every1 hates me. i really truly do love her. but i very well doubt she likes me can u help me express my feelings without losing my best friend or at least not sorta freakin her out?
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loves but not loved
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Tell her. I have been in that situation literally like a half-dozen times.
Just tell her, but be cautious about it. Just let her know that you've been thinking alot about it and you've realized that you like her more than you had thought, and in a different way.
If you're really best friends, then even if she isn't interested in a relationship, you'll still be friends. She might act a little uncomfortable for a while, I'd say a few weeks at most, but you'll still be friends, and she'll warm back up to you quick enough.
If she does like you back, then you need to be careful not to jump in and smother her, and you have to be careful not to change too much too quick.
Hope I helped. Good luck.
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thats happened to me twice, and it just freaks me out. have a friend ask her what she thinks about you... that way, if you where to ask her out and she say no then she wouldn't completely ignore you and be freaked out! beleive me,it works the best (from experience)
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well..i was thinking about this for a minute..and from my own experiences ive found that the best way to go about this without making things weird..is to have a friend of both yours and hers to talk the girl. Have this friend approach the girl you like and casually ask "do you see (your name) as more than a friend? because i think you would be cute together and it seems to me he likes you."
this way..if she doesnt like you like that..she will tell the friend..and you and her can go on like normal
if you told her you like her and she said no...things could be weird..but then again they might not be weird.. ive been in this situation and the person didnt like me back..things arent weird..we are the same old great friends (but then again we are 16...so i dont know if that would make a difference)
anyway, my advice is to get a friend to investigate for you.
-melissa-
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hey hun well first off hang out with her all the time like usual and act yourself. if shes gonna like you she'll like you for you not for some person thats hiding under a disquise. treat her with respect and make sure to buy "special" things for her birthday and exc. I hope it works out for you and that I helped.
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If you are best friends, than you should be able to talk to her like that. Don't bring it up randomly, and try not to spill out what you're going to say all at once, it might overwhelm her. Maybe you should ask her who she likes, and try to see if you can get her to open up.
You should tell her that you like her. It's worth a try, seriously. You never know, she could like you too. Oh yeah, try and flirt with her, and spend time with her (but don't suffocate her, you know?).
Hope I helped <33
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I think you should tell her how you feel, but you have to know that there are some risks involved in doing that.
So, tell her how you feel, but don't come on too strong. Say, I know we are best friends but I have feelings for you that are more than friends. I don't know if you feel the same way, but I hope you do, but if you don't, I don't want to lose our friendship over this.
I hope she feels the same way. She very well might, but the biggest risk is that if she doesn't, the friendship may be a little bit strained for a while. You have to figure out for yourself if the risk is worth it.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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got the same problem let me know how it works out
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